Selfish girlfriends?

[heavy_duty]

Often in sex I think one partner will subconsciously {or consciously} do things to their partner that they want their partner to do to them. Some guys will lick a pussy all day cause they want the extended BJ in return when really the female would like a foot rub or back massage worked into the foreplay.

Sometimes men want the direct stimulation and women prefer the indirect.

 

[NEO1]

Pfffft...whatever.

Often in sex I think one partner will subconsciously {or consciously} do things to their partner that they want their partner to do to them. Some guys will lick a pussy all day cause they want the extended BJ in return when really the female would like a foot rub or back massage worked into the foreplay.

Sometimes men want the direct stimulation and women prefer the indirect.

 

[chazk]

I think that the problem really is that people's expectations are so skewed. They expect sunshine and roses and daily blow jobs/romance novel behavior, and that just isn't reality.

My grandma and grandpa were married for 60 years and had 8 kids, and never talked about divorce, etc. I think they expected like to be the way that it was. Their life revolved around raising kids, grandkids, family dinners, etc. I don't think either expected 60 years of red nighties and red roses.

i bet grandma gave some awsome blowjobs all that time to.

 

[heavy_duty]

Pfffft...whatever.

care to add to that?
are you sex god?
we're all listening.

 

[digimon7068]

How many kids so far?

3. . .8 y/o twin girls and my son will be 3 in a few weeks.

i wanted 5 but it took us a while to get started. . .the girls are in vitro. . .

 

[Trendsetter21]

Stop going down on her, and when she asks you why you don't do it just tell her to answer her own question.

 

[theoldone]

On second thought about this topic, maybe you're not turning her on enough to want to give you a bj. A woman needs to feel sexy to do that.

Maybe there is something you can do different?

Riiiggghhhttttt......it's his fault that his GF used to give him head when they 1st started dating and now she doesn't "have" to impress him anymore she stops doing it. Typical woman response....do you really believe that??