There's a valuable lesson in the works here.
Take for example...the new girl in school.
She'll date a less suave kid who has the balls to give her a chance before anyone else...the one who gives her attention before the others. This couple usually breaks up since the now-not-so-new girl comes to a realization. More people have been talking to her. More people notice her. Once she finally realizes her popularity and stock have risen, she'll seek more attractive and powerful mates.
Go have fun. Go.
I wait in the shadows.