Questoin for Guys when with a new girl...

[JBthree]

Have you guys ever had a hard time getting it up when dating someone new and you were just nervous? I have been with the same girl for two years and it wasn't a problem then we broke up and I dated someone that I see only about once in about 2 months and I haven't hit that comfort level to where I just get excited right off the bat and wanta f^ck... I don't know why this is happening it really sucks because I really care for her and its more to me than just to fu^k and that is weird for me.... I mean I have had my share of one timers with different girls being in college and I don't know why this is happening.... I guess it is just a ice breaker thing.... THis new girl is hoto smoken hot and I think about it all the time....WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON

 

[YME]

Dude,

Relax...................don't put so much pressure to perform on the situation. Just enjoy her for who she is, sooner or later it will just happen, you are soo worried about pleasing her you are freakin out about it.

Besides dude, if she is that hot, someone is doin her so there is no rush!!!!

I'm Kidding!!!!

No I'm Not!!

Yes I am!!!!

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

adrenaline = erection killer

 

[rpol]

Too much stressing out.Relax a little and just go withn the flow and everything will work out

 

[jubei]

you're stressed, same thing has happened to me. well until she touched me than the problem was all of a sudden solved.

 

[PBR]

this can be common when there is strong emotions involved, even unconsciuosly....in extreme cases where there is a deep love and concern for the woman, this condition is called a "Pedestal Effect"....when you cant get it up at all....

 

[hamstershaver]

hell no its the other way around, new kitty = instant hammy wood, same old boring kitty = limp hammy

 

[SoKlueles]

Oh brother at least some of us have something to smile about

 

[d3track]

sorry
havent had that problem

 

[Gymgurl]

Good to know D3track.....so when I drive all the way up there you will be able to "arise" to the occassion.