Question for the guys!

[plifter]

Re: plifter

plifter , I was gonna flame you for your post , if it was you who were getting cheated on then maybe you'd feel different (I know I did) , and it wasn't cos I wasn't banging the bitch enough. Man , how can you do that shit , especially if she's got kids!
Anyway , I read your post on "My luck with women" and you seem to be exactly the kind of dude jja is talking about , you say that you're painfully shy , and that's a pity man, you don't seem lie a bad guy but this is not fucking kosher.
If you know that she's hitched and you still push then you deserve a pounding , simple as that.

Truthfully I was only with a girl one time that had a boyfriend. I think it's OK to bang her if she hasn't married him. If she was anxious to get it on with me she obviously was missing something with her boyfriend.

 

[Mandinka]

plifter

I presume you've gone out with someone , and in making that presumption , you've managed to notice that at the same time there's still plenty of chics in the world , and some of them like you and some of them don't. Now what is it that stops you from bangin 'em - Is it because you're having so much God damn sex that you couldn't get it up or because you have respect(not just love) for your partner. Most guys I know could comfortably bang 10 different girls a day but don't outta plain respect for their partners. So I put it to you when you say that she wasn't gettin it at home (obviously) that you seem to have neglected the possibility that she is a dirty slut and that you are a dirtball for lettin down the team.
BTW , the one girl that did cheat on me spent the next two weeks cryin down one end of a phone beggin me to come back after I told her to hit the road.

 

[WombRaider]

Just give them a fake number and get the big tip!!!

 

[velvett]

Turn the table and be aggressive towards them/him - it might just scare him.

Sometimes it's not about getting someone as it is about the flirting and the chase. Sometimes people just want to see if they can get you but they really don't have the intent to continue.


Anywhoooooooooo

Just a thought.

 

[Bar Room Hero]

Men like an uphill struggle....a taken woman is an uphill struggle. Most of the guys that ask you out are probably ego-maniac pieces of shit, so don't be polite. Just tell them to leave you alone.

 

[redhotavenger]

kryp2o

The 12 gauge behind the counter should be a good deterrent.
that shit is funny!!!!!!!!

 

[manny78]

cause some are just desperate morrons.....easy just tell them "hey fucker just told you I'd a boyfriend dont ya get it ?" but if you really care about your tip well just like one guy said above give them a fake number.......

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Stab yourself in the abdomen with a katana.

 

[Murman]

Just give them your number 555-Tips

 

[buksoon]

Oh my God!!!! I am so gonna get flamed for this, but I don't care.

JJA, have you seen my thread? It's called "Gather ye rosebuds" aka "the desperate cry of a near-30 virgin". A little perspective, please!

Now you listen to me: Too much male interest is NOT a problem. There are always women who register outrage and chagrin when guys cat-call or respond to their sexuality. And then one day ... it stops. And then these women realize that they were DAMN FOOLS.

There is POWER in being someone who inspires men to take leave of their senses. F*ckin' enjoy it. Praise whatever God you happen to be down with for your blessings.

(Please, don't think this is "sour grapes," or that I've forgotten that 22 years old is barely out of adolescence--melodrama is inevitable. I remember it well!)

Just be polite and firm. Spare their feelings (and their egos! for the sake of your tip!), but make it clear. And then forget about it. Let it roll off your back. Have a good laugh at them when they leave. Pity them, even.

Finally, it's a BAR for crying out loud! If your place of employment was a law firm or hospital or somesuch, then there might be a problem. But to be so bothered in a bar...? Hey if you don't want to take the flight, don't buy the ticket. Ya know?

One really effective thing you could do: Say something very clever. Guys do NOT wanna deal with smart girls when they are out drinking!!! You'll turn them off faster than if you sprouted a goiter!