Honest answer Mr Jan, but you do not get to choose your family.... you DO however, get to choose your friends, hence my question.
You know a guy that is a good friend to you. But then you realize over the course of time that he regularly treats women like shit. Or your friend is a girl (purely friends). Over the course of your friendship you discover that she treats men like shit. Would you still consider them to be a good friend or would your relationship with them be affected?