I agree...with quad and chesty as a whole...
However, I can also understand BW's point....
When I was about 17, I knocked up my GF....the day we went to get aborted, she was bleeding clots, so I think the pregnancy was terminating anyways...but we went ahead and had the procedure done....Afterwards, I remember her drugged up and barely being able to walk and they more/less shoved her out the door, she practically feel into my arms (this would have been like 1983/'84)...I was too cowardly to see my error and was just glad/relieved that we didn't HAVE to get married or tell our folks...she felt the same way.
Hindsight, now being a blessed father of 3 (5, 2 and 1 month) (different woman)....I'm very embarassed and shamed for what I did and know I'll have to answer to God Almighty for my part. Have Mercy.
I haven't talked to that girl in over 20 years; I often wonder what her feelings are and pray that it didn't emotionally taint her...can't see how it wouldn't because of the effect it had on me....(hopefully she's stronger.)
There are NO winners with abortion.
Oh yeah....props to Angel Girl and Quad for being able to step-up.