I like a girl a lot that just moved out of her fiance's place and had to change her number. So far we went out on one date and we made out and I felt her up. I probably could have gone farther but sometimes I'm too conservative--I'm still learning about this whole mystery we call "girls."
Anyway I feel myself liking her more and more and I just a) remind myself of all the warning signs I know about her and b) make sure I flirt with lots of other girls and keep going on date with other girls. What I would like to say to her if I were to be totally honest is that I am very interested in her and I would like to spend time with her and get to know her better but that I'm not ready for a committed relationship.
Anyway, for me what I would do it get on an online dating site and start asking girls out that you see around that you think are hot. Just stay in practice and make sure you have some other irons in the fire cos chances are this one isn't going to end well. Hedge your bets bro.