Porn Sites

[Puddles]

Guys tend to need the visual stimulation to get off more than women do so looking at porn is a great help for them. They also usually have stronger sexual urges than women largely due to the test they have in their bodies so they will feel the need for a release more often than most women. There's also a thrill of doing something considered naughty. They can also experience some of their fantasies without cheating by watching porn. Also, jerking off to porn is less physically tiring than being with a woman, so it's good for a quick release.

There are a lot of reasons guys love porn so much, but it's not a reflection on the woman their with...it's just in their nature.

 

[Bella Michela]

if we did it together not at all...

if your gonna do it alone don't be sneaky about it...

if he continues to do it, make sure you have 1 up on him

 

[Dakotah]

my honey looks at the pics online that u can download for free and that just drives me bonkers but he comprimises with me and sometimes when i dont think about it it doesnt bother but when i start to it makes me totally insecure i dont like feeling that way but i do even though all men look at porn

but i think like this--- what would the guy think if i was masturbating to some porn of a guy? he wouldnt like it but if i was masturbating to a girl he would get frisky

i may be just totally insecure but i know how i feel and just dont know how to change it if i even wanted to

 

[jenscats5]

my honey looks at the pics online that u can download for free and that just drives me bonkers but he comprimises with me and sometimes when i dont think about it it doesnt bother but when i start to it makes me totally insecure i dont like feeling that way but i do even though all men look at porn

but i think like this--- what would the guy think if i was masturbating to some porn of a guy? he wouldnt like it but if i was masturbating to a girl he would get frisky

i may be just totally insecure but i know how i feel and just dont know how to change it if i even wanted to

I don't know if you can change it........I heard somewhere there is some movement to ban porn (started by men!) cuz they claim "addiction" to it and how it affected their lives negatively....

For me, I just always think (my hubby watches Playboy) that he'll get turned on watching it & want to do it with me and I don't want sex if he gets turned on by watching porn...jealousy I guess....

Although I kinda like the show "7 Lives Xposed" cuz it has somewhat of a plot and the girl who's the head of the house (Devon) is more of a "real" woman -- not super skinny, little chubby & still gets all the guys....

 

[Dakotah]

I don't know if you can change it........I heard somewhere there is some movement to ban porn (started by men!) cuz they claim "addiction" to it and how it affected their lives negatively....

For me, I just always think (my hubby watches Playboy) that he'll get turned on watching it & want to do it with me and I don't want sex if he gets turned on by watching porn...jealousy I guess....

Although I kinda like the show "7 Lives Xposed" cuz it has somewhat of a plot and the girl who's the head of the house (Devon) is more of a "real" woman -- not super skinny, little chubby & still gets all the guys....

it just drives me crazy if he watches any porn or looks at other pics like i said it just really starts to bother me - I know i dont have anything to worry about now but i guess i am not the only woman who feels this way about porn. i hope they do ban porn then i wont have any negative feelings about it lol. we have tryed watching porn together, as far as feeling frisky during or after-- there is no chance i can never seem to get my mind to let go of the jealousy and insecurities. he says "all men look at porn its normal I never think about the porn girls during sex" not in those exact words. its one of those nagging annoying subjects i hate talking about except with other women. maybe i will never get over it, who knows.

 

[Dakotah]

omg i REALLY hate porn with a passion oh im so frustrated

 

[Puddles]

omg i REALLY hate porn with a passion oh im so frustrated

What happened now?

 

[blondiebabe]

i agree with the post saying that guys need more "visual stimulation." girls on the otherhand do not need to be "hard" in order to get off. so i can sympathize. porn is just a way for most guys to get off, it isn't a fettish for most of them. i am insecure and i do understand where you are coming from though. you could just ask him what his deal with porn is though, to make sure that he is just "using it" rather than loving it.

 

[Dakotah]

What happened now?

i think it is just pms talking but then again i cant say i feel any different after i think about it
he says but its right with u next to me
i am a BIG BABY i hate porn

i want to feel like the only one
i have exactly nothing to worry about but its just something i have never liked ever

we were sitting here the other night and he was looking at pics of women forum and we know that there are all kinds of links in there and it just happened to be upsetting at that moment

but im all better now still dont like it but quickly over it- i love him and know he loves me

 

[Puddles]

PMS sucks. I get pretty wacked out at times too.