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[jnevin]

I'm thinking of taking my daughter and moving back home to Philly. I lost everything I've ever had here aside from Q, and if I keep going on like I am she's just going to be fucked when she gets older. I have zero support out here, limited "help" from her mom, my family (pretty awesome) never gets to see her, and I just feel that there's no opportunity for me here anymore.

Anyhoo, I have sole custody of the little critter, joint legal and physical. I know her mom loves her, but she's not doing anything with her life and the older she gets, the worse it's going to be for her. Female personal trainers in their 40's without a HS diploma don't have a ton of options. Anyone in a similar situation done this, and how did it go? What kind of legal bs am I going to have to deal with?

 

[shirlene29]

none, you have sole custody
she'd have to stand up and fight and you know she wont


BUT, you're going to have to set up some sort of long term visitation like over summer vacation
I know you love that loss of control for a prolonged period of time so much

 

[jnevin]

Yeah, I've been thinking about that. Kinda sucks, because the beach was my favorite part of summer. I hate being away from her overnight, let alone for weeks or months at a time.

 

[shirlene29]

I set it up for Hannah that she does some holidays at her Dad's and a portion of summer vacation that mutually agreed on

I'm supposed to be driving her down there in July this year and staying for a week myself...
but I'm on decent terms with the guy ya know?

 

[Strongbow]

I'm thinking of taking my daughter and moving back home to Philly. I lost everything I've ever had here aside from Q, and if I keep going on like I am she's just going to be fucked when she gets older. I have zero support out here, limited "help" from her mom, my family (pretty awesome) never gets to see her, and I just feel that there's no opportunity for me here anymore.

Anyhoo, I have sole custody of the little critter, joint legal and physical. I know her mom loves her, but she's not doing anything with her life and the older she gets, the worse it's going to be for her. Female personal trainers in their 40's without a HS diploma don't have a ton of options. Anyone in a similar situation done this, and how did it go? What kind of legal bs am I going to have to deal with?

Do it while shes young enough to adjust eaisly. Real Talk

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[bigbassturd]

I agree with SB. The longer you wait the worse it will be

 

[-SD-]

Do it while shes young enough to adjust eaisly. Real Talk

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real talk

 

[smurf2]

I have sole custody as well. I still had to hire a lawyer and go in front of the judge with all kinds of documentation as to why it was a good idea to move my son across the country. Lucky for me, my ex was "convinced" not to even show up and fight my petition.

 

[jnevin]

Do it while shes young enough to adjust eaisly. Real Talk

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Yeah, that's what I'm thinking too. It just sucks when she asks where her mom is and she's only a couple of miles away. When she starts kindergarten she'll almost never see her.

I just have nothing out here.

 

[jnevin]

I have sole custody as well. I still had to hire a lawyer and go in front of the judge with all kinds of documentation as to why it was a good idea to move my son across the country. Lucky for me, my ex was "convinced" not to even show up and fight my petition.

What kind of documentation? If you don't want to get into it here, PM or phone is culo.