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I disagree with the "no anticipation" thing. Even though I lived with my exhusband nearly 2 years before we married, I was every bit as excited to "start our lives together as husband and wife". In my eyes the living together was NOT a "trial marriage." We were JUST gf and bf until we made it legal. My parents opposed my relationship (wish I had listened LOL) but because I was in suuuuuuuuch a hurry to get out of my parent's house, not to mention how insanely jealous my exhusband was (he had to know where I was all the time so god forbid I should sleep in my bed in my parent's house )... goodness from one fucked up situation to another.
My husband (Grumpy Old Man) and I got married so quickly for many reasons but the main one was well, why wait? We were both old and experienced enough to know what we were getting into, but more so because he REALLY REALLY wanted to get married. Heck, I didn't even want a bf at first. LOL
Society treats you very differently as a live in girlfriend (even if you share a child) than they do when you are a LEGAL WIFE. Anyone who states differently is flat out lying. I am not *just* his "old lady" or "girlfriend" - he made a legal commitment to me. And I am honored to be HIS WIFE.
I can't remember the last time I heard a woman say that she was honored to be HIS BABY-DADDY or HIS LIVE IN GIRLFRIEND.
My husband (Grumpy Old Man) and I got married so quickly for many reasons but the main one was well, why wait? We were both old and experienced enough to know what we were getting into, but more so because he REALLY REALLY wanted to get married. Heck, I didn't even want a bf at first. LOL
Society treats you very differently as a live in girlfriend (even if you share a child) than they do when you are a LEGAL WIFE. Anyone who states differently is flat out lying. I am not *just* his "old lady" or "girlfriend" - he made a legal commitment to me. And I am honored to be HIS WIFE.
I can't remember the last time I heard a woman say that she was honored to be HIS BABY-DADDY or HIS LIVE IN GIRLFRIEND.