It is all in how you set your mind to things if you are having a mesirble time cause you can't drink thats kind is a flag to me. I have had to abstain from drinking tons of times and I always have a good time regardless it is all in your attitude. Oh and a big plus the next day when all my friend feel like shit from drinking I feel great.
Thanks for the input superqt:
I understand how that could sound like a red flag...but since I can remember I always had self imposed rules for my drinking and eating....I've finally abandoned the strictness
I could have a problem...or I could be young and dumb making up for lost time too. lol