She needs to allow herself to feel the feelings....it needs to come (no pun intended) from within herself....you can't change it if it's mental.....
But she needs to relax & feel comfortable & trusting....also masterbation will help her get to a point where she can cum & find out what works for her....you could be there with her so it would be a loving moment.....
Tell her to start masturbating. I would imagine a girl growing up like that never does. Thats the problem with some of them, they've never masturbating so they dont know how to orgasm properly. I bet thats the key in this for you.
Try some moderate drugs...(seriously). I have had a few girls who were a bit uptight until I got them stoned (or even a few drinks), and then they seem to "let go" much easier
Try some moderate drugs...(seriously). I have had a few girls who were a bit uptight until I got them stoned (or even a few drinks), and then they seem to "let go" much easier
I have found that for most girls the combo of 1-2 somas mixed with a little chronic (or 1-2 cocktails, for the non smoking type) and then they must think I look like Brad Pitt at that point
(the point is you dont want them fucked up...just buzzing nicely )
Then again I have been with the same girl for so long now I could probably give her orgasms without even taking her clothes off
BE gentle with the clitoris dont like to hard! if she is about to slow it down and take it easy until it builds up more. It will happen eventually, and she will love you for it. You might not be allowed to leave the bedroom!!!