Need advice on helping my girl get off

[chris350]

Hey I was wondering if anyone could gimme some advice about helping my girl get off. She is in her early 20s and has only been with 2 guys other than me and says she has never had an orgasm before not even thru masturbation. I mean ive banged her for like 30 minutes straight and gone down on her for like 30 minutes straight. We have been together for a couple of months and I really want to get her off. Ive asked her what she likes but she says she really doesn't know because she has never gotten herself off so I was wondering if some of you guys could gimme some advice.

lol i know someone is gonna say send her over to my place or something similar

 

[firefighter337]

I dont know man.

I am hung like a tic tac.


But its hell at 80 mph.

 

[BNG]

Ok....I'll help ya out......send her over!

Now that that's out of the way........
Some women just hold back and can't let go. Drink a little wine, put her in the mood, and then start slowly. If you spent 30 minutes down town, how much time did you spend leading up to it? More teasing before pleasing usually helps. She's very inexperienced which can be fun, but you could cause bad things if you aren't paying attention. Think SENSUAL first, mood goes a long way.
Can you cook? Cook her a meal while she's sippin' some wine. ( think Med, unless she hate's it) Have some candles burning. Give her some dark choc with her last glass of wine after the meal. Then move to the couch. After you've been there building up her fragile little state, move her to the bed, floor, ect. Carry her to where you want her. You've now shown your sensitive to her needs, now show her your a MAN. Be assertive, and passionate.

The in-n-out action is a small part of what should be hours of fun.

If you break her in right you'll have no more threads requesting input in the sex dept.

 

[chris350]

Ok....I'll help ya out......send her over!

Now that that's out of the way........
Some women just hold back and can't let go. Drink a little wine, put her in the mood, and then start slowly. If you spent 30 minutes down town, how much time did you spend leading up to it? More teasing before pleasing usually helps. She's very inexperienced which can be fun, but you could cause bad things if you aren't paying attention. Think SENSUAL first, mood goes a long way.
Can you cook? Cook her a meal while she's sippin' some wine. ( think Med, unless she hate's it) Have some candles burning. Give her some dark choc with her last glass of wine after the meal. Then move to the couch. After you've been there building up her fragile little state, move her to the bed, floor, ect. Carry her to where you want her. You've now shown your sensitive to her needs, now show her your a MAN. Be assertive, and passionate.

The in-n-out action is a small part of what should be hours of fun.

If you break her in right you'll have no more threads requesting input in the sex dept.

Ive made her a candlelit dinner several times with chocolate for dessert and still nada. I think part of it is that she is afraid to let her self go. To me it seems that she holds back some

 

[SpyWizard]

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[Stryker1992]

lol i know someone is gonna say send her over to my place or something similar

hahaha bro, I was going to say that! hehehe

 

[H_T_]

you ain't gonna do it if she can't do it herself.

 

[txbondsman]

I could give all the advise that you would want, but being a man it's just me running my mouth. I would like to know if she told you about her upbringing or any trauma that may be liked to her sexuality. Those are a couple of thngs that may shed some light on an answer.
Where are Heather, MM, GG, Velvet, BikiniMom, Feisty and the other girls when you need them, that's where your answers are going to come from in my oppinion.
Good luck, and post the answers to my questions, I think that they will want to know them too.
Tx

 

[ponyfitness]

Before you can learn to pleasure her she needs to know how to pleasure herself. If she's never had an orgasm through masturbation then work with her on that first.

The good thing is, if you're the first guy to give her an orgasm she'll be yours for life.

 

[chris350]

I could give all the advise that you would want, but being a man it's just me running my mouth. I would like to know if she told you about her upbringing or any trauma that may be liked to her sexuality. Those are a couple of thngs that may shed some light on an answer.
Where are Heather, MM, GG, Velvet, BikiniMom, Feisty and the other girls when you need them, that's where your answers are going to come from in my oppinion.
Good luck, and post the answers to my questions, I think that they will want to know them too.
Tx

I really don't think she has had any trauma. Ive met like her entire family and they all seem really nice. I'm really into her and I would like to be able to give her an orgasm.