Need advice and quick

[Strongbow]

I ustally don't give a fuck about what any of you faggots say but my boy is in trouble with his emotions and I'm not the one to handle affairs of the heart. Long story short dude has a pretty stable set up, wife, two kids, dogs, wtfever else. But him and his wife are shakey at best not a lot of knock down drag outs, but a pretty constant state of never seeing eye to eye on shit. Anyways it's tolerable at home if he makes it so, but not that spark people need in their lives to be whole, just a day to day going thru the motions type shit. Anyway there is a young gorgeous blonde that has been his friend for years now, meet her through work and the relationship kinda started off with her being stuck up and him being his cocky ass jooser self, he is a lot like me. So anyways the relationsip has grown from just a physical attraction and a comment here and there to a very strong friendship, to now they are in love. She's getting a divorce and he wants to as well, and she kinda told El Negro today to shit or get off the pot. Now what to do? He loves her and wants to be with her, but she kinda told him today that it was over till he got his shit together. They just returned from a trip together over the weekend, mind blowing sex and constant touching and kissing and he has never been with anybody that makes the ngr feel like that. Tell me what to tell my boy, cause IDK.

 

[zwhit]

Tell your boy to go fuck himself

 

[nangiggles]

well it depends on him still having feelings for his wife or not, if things got better would he prefer to stay with her?

 

[Musclemama]

Sounds like a lot is going on. And maybe he sd take some time to think about what's best in the long run . Tell him to look at his life 5 yrs from now . New love is always great ! But is it worth losing what u have/had with the person u chose to spend your life with ?

 

[AFeedz]

"Your boy" should leave his wife if he's really that unhappy and there's no spark left at all and he truly feels he can't get it back. I couldn't live a life like that.

But your boy is also an idiot to think things are going to last with the blonde. There are people who cheat and people who don't. I'm sure he and the adulteress feel right now they're madly in love and always will be but that's not real life and I'm willin to bet when they're no longer sneaking around their spouse's backs and they give it 6 months to a year, they're going to be in normal love and it's going to be same ol same ol.

Then one of them is likely going to cheat. Not tomorrow, but eventually.

I could never be with someone who would cheat on a spouse because it's unacceptable in my book. Anybody who'd do that doesn't hold marriage in as high regard as I do. If you would cheat then you will cheat. Simple as that. Ew to your "friend" and this woman.

 

[miplank]

Motherfucker did you come visit V and not fuckin holla at me?

 

[SpyWizard]

if he wants her... too bad his kids will pay the price for him being happy...

and no woman "tells/makes" me do anything...

 

[nangiggles]

remind him that the grass is always greener on the other side...

 

[zwhit]

You'd be better off with the wife. The new chick probably doesn't realize what a mess you are and won't put up with your broke down ass. She'll be gone as soon as you're off the juice and you're an emotional little bitch.

 

[shirlene29]

go on vacation with your wife without agenda or baggage and you'll probably have great sex with her too

men really only do think with their dicks huh