lot of insecurities and confusion going on in this thread
what you need to do ihulk is sit down with your girl and discuss this issue. only then will you find out what exactly what she wants and how you can possibly comprimise with her, like she did for you in the beginning of all of this
being able to talk and work things thru is the hallmark of a strong, solid relationship and will make you both more trusting and secure with each other, and yourselves
and to everyone who judges someone elses lifestyles, do you judge others on the color of their skin? on their gender? their nationality? get a clue people
do it for her and be secure about yourself, just picture her like a hot porn star like Jenna Jameson. Provacative is sexy! Better with you than behind your back someday. Try the swinger thing so you can get something out of it and at the same time fulfill her fantasy.
do it for her and be secure about yourself, just picture her like a hot porn star like Jenna Jameson. Provacative is sexy! Better with you than behind your back someday. Try the swinger thing so you can get something out of it and at the same time fulfill her fantasy.
i agree with you on ALL points but ONE
why picture her as a porn star
you wanna be with a gal that has sex as a profession?
so how much will you pay her?
as for swinging be very secure with your relationship before you venture into it
ask any swinger