She may have vaginismus ??????
10 Common Myths About Vaginismus
Women who have vaginismus are frigid.
Vaginismus will go away on its own.
If we just try harder (keep trying to have sex) it will happen.
Taking special vitamins, relaxing, drinking wine, watching porno videos and/or listening to suggestion tapes all cure vaginismus.
Sex is supposed to hurt.
My husband/partner is just "too big" for me.
There is no cure for vaginismus.
It takes thousands of dollars to overcome vaginismus.
All women with vaginismus have been sexually abused.
Surgery will fix my problem.
http://www.vaginismus.com
Perhaps this helps. Sounds like a good thing to look into if you and your partner's problem continues.
10 Common Myths About Vaginismus
Women who have vaginismus are frigid.
Vaginismus will go away on its own.
If we just try harder (keep trying to have sex) it will happen.
Taking special vitamins, relaxing, drinking wine, watching porno videos and/or listening to suggestion tapes all cure vaginismus.
Sex is supposed to hurt.
My husband/partner is just "too big" for me.
There is no cure for vaginismus.
It takes thousands of dollars to overcome vaginismus.
All women with vaginismus have been sexually abused.
Surgery will fix my problem.
http://www.vaginismus.com
Perhaps this helps. Sounds like a good thing to look into if you and your partner's problem continues.