My bf in Texas dumped me

[heatherrae]

I was working out and working on the bod -- thought he would appreciate it. I went to see him last weekend. Everything was peachy over the weekend. Then, he dumped me on Tuesday night, over the phone. Dick.

You want to know the reasons he gave me? I evidently drive him crazy. He visited me at my house and he said that there was a quarter on the living room floor over the weekend and I didn't pick it up. Also, when I visited him, I didn't make the bed. WTF? He slept in and I got up at 5 am so that the baby wouldn't wake him up. I guess I was supposed to go back in the bedroom after he got up at 9 or 10 and make his bed? I asked, "are you serious?" He said he could actually list a million things like that. Again, WTF?

LOL...I suck at this love thing.

 

[Raptorex]

sorry HR, there are still tons of e-schmucks here to comfort you

 

[Bikini Mod]

meh...

You didn't know him long enough to be in love.

Stop looking for love and you will do much better. I promise you.

 

[heatherrae]

sorry HR, there are still tons of e-schmucks here to comfort you

Thanks for weighing in, e-schmuck no. 1. LOL.

 

[Raptorex]

Thanks for weighing in, e-schmuck no. 1. LOL.

Like BM said, it probably isn't the right time in your life - it will happen, enjoy your life with baby for now, men are just like adding another kid anyhow

 

[heatherrae]

meh...

You didn't know him long enough to be in love.

Stop looking for love and you will do much better. I promise you.

Yeah, no kidding. what a butt, though, huh? He broke up with me because I didn't make his bed in the morning? What a loser.

By the way, I was thinking about you guys when I was in Texas, but I had your info here in ef and was on temp self-imposed bannering..lol.

 

[Smurfy]

pics of this douchebagaroney
good thing you guys broke up early on
you can thank him for that
what a goofball

 

[velvett]

I was working out and working on the bod -- thought he would appreciate it. I went to see him last weekend. Everything was peachy over the weekend. Then, he dumped me on Tuesday night, over the phone. Dick.

You want to know the reasons he gave me? I evidently drive him crazy. He visited me at my house and he said that there was a quarter on the living room floor over the weekend and I didn't pick it up. Also, when I visited him, I didn't make the bed. WTF? He slept in and I got up at 5 am so that the baby wouldn't wake him up. I guess I was supposed to go back in the bedroom after he got up at 9 or 10 and make his bed? I asked, "are you serious?" He said he could actually list a million things like that. Again, WTF?

LOL...I suck at this love thing.

He's married.




































And besides he's a momma's boy and need to have a woman be his extension of his momma so long term it would have never worked.

LOL should have made his bed.... HA you should have made it after putting cracker crumbs all over it first.

 

[Wulfgar]

Ill still put it in your butt HR

 

[heatherrae]

He's married.

LOL..is this the new "he's cheating on you" I've been away too long...LOL. He isn't married unless she lives in another house. I was at his house this weekend.

 

[myway]

I have a man u can have..

 

[squatmonkey]

e-smuck # 2 still loves you.....

 

[velvett]

LOL..is this the new "he's cheating on you" I've been away too long...LOL. He isn't married unless she lives in another house. I was at his house this weekend.

Oh trust me, it does happen.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Yeah, no kidding. what a butt, though, huh? He broke up with me because I didn't make his bed in the morning? What a loser.

By the way, I was thinking about you guys when I was in Texas, but I had your info here in ef and was on temp self-imposed bannering..lol.

Dammit, you should have rung us up!!!

Ms HeatherRae when an individual gives such bullshit reasons or just *poof* disappears it is because they are scared and did you a favor... I know it hurts a bit, but when you REALLY think about it. Seriously, you are so much better off.

You need my book... I promise it will help you BIGTIME.

 

[Turd Ferguson]

Sorry HR.... Still got an awesome son

 

[Cutiebaby]

Damn girl, he sounds like he was not worth it anyways. Like BM said- stop looking for "love" it will find you when it is time!!!

By the way, Hi nice to know you are still alive!

 

[heatherrae]

Oh trust me, it does happen.

He likes collecting 20 year olds, I think. It makes him feel sexy. They like him for all his frequent flyer miles. He takes them on exotic vacations...lol.

 

[heatherrae]

Ill still put it in your butt HR

You are so romantic! =-)

 

[heatherrae]

I did use his razor to shave my legs. That pissed him off...lol.

 

[the_alcatraz]

He likes collecting 20 year olds, I think. It makes him feel sexy. They like him for all his frequent flyer miles. He takes them on exotic vacations...lol.

e-shmuck #2 signing IN!

 

[Raptorex]

I did use his razor to shave my legs. That pissed him off...lol.

now you never mentioned that! You were pushing it there HR!

 

[Cutiebaby]

I did use his razor to shave my legs. That pissed him off...lol.

I woulda shaved down south, then laughed at his ass.

 

[ortiz34]

I was working out and working on the bod -- thought he would appreciate it. I went to see him last weekend. Everything was peachy over the weekend. Then, he dumped me on Tuesday night, over the phone. Dick.

You want to know the reasons he gave me? I evidently drive him crazy. He visited me at my house and he said that there was a quarter on the living room floor over the weekend and I didn't pick it up. Also, when I visited him, I didn't make the bed. WTF? He slept in and I got up at 5 am so that the baby wouldn't wake him up. I guess I was supposed to go back in the bedroom after he got up at 9 or 10 and make his bed? I asked, "are you serious?" He said he could actually list a million things like that. Again, WTF?

LOL...I suck at this love thing.

sounds like he was "reaching" for excuses to dump you.

No need to get upset over someone who doesn't want you, move on pick up the pieces and DO NOT BOTHER WITH HIM ANY FURTHER.

 

[heatherrae]

Dammit, you should have rung us up!!!

Ms HeatherRae when an individual gives such bullshit reasons or just *poof* disappears it is because they are scared and did you a favor... I know it hurts a bit, but when you REALLY think about it. Seriously, you are so much better off.

You need my book... I promise it will help you BIGTIME.

Yeah...those can't be the real reasons. If they are, he is one shallow fella.

I didn't care too much for Dallas, by the way. The salespeople are too pushy there and the scenery isn't as pretty as kentucky. It was COLD too. I brought all shorts and skirts and FROZE...lol.

 

[MichaelScott]

u need to get a bf in pennsylvania

 

[velvett]

He likes collecting 20 year olds, I think. It makes him feel sexy. They like him for all his frequent flyer miles. He takes them on exotic vacations...lol.

Oh dear, I made a mistake a dated one of those once - was a good learning experience for me (and made me a pro at background checks).

I'm glad to see you, I missed you here.

Boys will boys and you know that ridiculous saying about the right one appearing when you stop looking (and get over the man hating phase, if you even have one at all) - it is true - as frustrating as it may sound.

 

[heatherrae]

I woulda shaved down south, then laughed at his ass.

ummmm....i did that too. Wonder if he smelled my cha cha when he shaved under his nose...lol.

 

[heatherrae]

Oh dear, I made a mistake a dated one of those once - was a good learning experience for me (and made me a pro at background checks).

I'm glad to see you, I missed you here.

Boys will boys and you know that ridiculous saying about the right one appearing when you stop looking (and get over the man hating phase, if you even have one at all) - it is true - as frustrating as it may sound.

Thanks. Yeah, I have a good time without a man in my life besides my "little man" for now anyway. I think it was just convenient for me that he was so far away so that I felt like I had a bf without having to actually deal with a man right now.

I always felt exhausted after we visited each other, anyway. Trying to keep a baby content, and take care of Devin was very tiresome...LOL.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Thanks. Yeah, I have a good time without a man in my life besides my "little man" for now anyway. I think it was just convenient for me that he was so far away so that I felt like I had a bf without having to actually deal with a man right now.

I always felt exhausted after we visited each other, anyway. Trying to keep a baby content, and take care of Devin was very tiresome...LOL.

Sounds to me that when you are ready to date again, perhaps you should seek a man that WANTS to baby you?

... call me crazy, but it REALLY worked for me.

Not that you aren't grown and can't handle your life because YOU OBVIOUSLY CAN. How bout you find a giver.. like YOU ARE?

 

[heatherrae]

Thank you everyone. Good advice from all, even wulfgar ...lol.

Thanks to the e-schmucks for showing luv, too...lol.

 

[ortiz34]

I try to be nice

so hard





like my cawk

 

[heatherrae]

Sounds to me that when you are ready to date again, perhaps you should seek a man that WANTS to baby you?

... call me crazy, but it REALLY worked for me.

Not that you aren't grown and can't handle your life because YOU OBVIOUSLY CAN. How bout you find a giver.. like YOU ARE?

What a novel thought. They make men who are givers? lol.

 

[squatmonkey]

If you need a BF in Alabama Im a nice guy and I love babys and I am a millionair (well 2 out of 3 aint bad).......

 

[heatherrae]

If you need a BF in Alabama Im a nice guy and I love babys and I am a millionair (well 2 out of 3 aint bad).......

You mean you aren't in alabama? That's okay...lol.

 

[ortiz34]

If you need a BF in Alabama Im a nice guy and I love babys and I am a millionair (well 2 out of 3 aint bad).......

wow bro, I smell so much desperation I'm gonna pass out

 

[squatmonkey]

wow bro, I smell so much desperation I'm gonna pass out

Thats how I roll...

 

[myway]

Thats how I roll...

...but u don't hafta tell us about it. Honestly, u CAN keep some things to urself. Jus sayin.

 

[squatmonkey]

Its not much fun if you keep things to yourself....

 

[myway]

Its not much fun if you keep things to yourself....

Yea, ur right. Plus, I'm not good at it.

 

[Kano]

i am a e smuck

 

[squatmonkey]

i am a e smuck

Now you got that off your chest, what now?

 

[pappad]

Sorry about that HR! Just so you know, it's not a MAN thing it's a timing and compatibility thing. The right guy that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated is looking for you right now!!! Just be patient and talk to us until he finds you!

He did you a favor and got you that much closer to the right one!!

 

[Kano]

Now you got that off your chest, what now?

you will you make love to me

 

[the_alcatraz]

you will you make love to me

 

[the_oak]

Welcome back HR....you were missed.

 

[squatmonkey]

you will you make love to me

Your a funny guy (in best borrat voice)!

 

[heatherrae]

Welcome back HR....you were missed.

Thanks. =-)

 

[NEO1]

Just proves the old saying.....No matter how hot she is, someone, somewhere is tired of putting up with her shite.

;p

Seriously, sorry...if u need break up booty let me know

 

[Arabian]

I was working out and working on the bod -- thought he would appreciate it. I went to see him last weekend. Everything was peachy over the weekend. Then, he dumped me on Tuesday night, over the phone. Dick.

You want to know the reasons he gave me? I evidently drive him crazy. He visited me at my house and he said that there was a quarter on the living room floor over the weekend and I didn't pick it up. Also, when I visited him, I didn't make the bed. WTF? He slept in and I got up at 5 am so that the baby wouldn't wake him up. I guess I was supposed to go back in the bedroom after he got up at 9 or 10 and make his bed? I asked, "are you serious?" He said he could actually list a million things like that. Again, WTF?

LOL...I suck at this love thing.

Great , now you can come see me and I will make it all BETTER......

 

[squatmonkey]

You guys should be ashamed! This young ladie has just suffered a break-up and all you guys can do is make these sleezy come-ons. If she needed someone (like me) to hold her tight in their big muscular arms(like mine) This is certianly the wrong time to go about it like this. She needs someone who understands( sublimental message ME)...

 

[gotmilk]

He likes collecting 20 year olds, I think. It makes him feel sexy. They like him for all his frequent flyer miles. He takes them on exotic vacations...lol.

uh...is that bad?

 

[Sub-Zero]

Yeah, no kidding. what a butt, though, huh? He broke up with me because I didn't make his bed in the morning? What a loser.

By the way, I was thinking about you guys when I was in Texas, but I had your info here in ef and was on temp self-imposed bannering..lol.

he probably just made shit up so you think hes a tool instead of taking it hard, cause most likely he knows what uv been through lately and how hard being a single mom can be.

he really just hates your personality, and thinks you suck

 

[gotmilk]

I didn't realize Jon was so anal about making the bed.

You should have picked up the quarter and told the guy to call someone who cares.

 

[all the whey]

He likes collecting 20 year olds, I think. It makes him feel sexy. They like him for all his frequent flyer miles. He takes them on exotic vacations...lol.

is this true?

 

[redsamurai]

Heather.......couple things......

A) what are you doing dating a guy across the country while you have a kid? Seems you picked out more than a few unattractive personality traits in this guy yet you still were seeing him for sometime. Guys who fly women in from around the country are bad news.........usually.

B) The girls are totally right, mama's boy. But he doesn't hold a candle to my cousins ex husband who was an astronaut. The guy would micro manage her life in a way that defies reality. This prick would time her while she cut vegetables, he made her practice shutting the car door so that she got the force "just right" for optimum longevity of the latch..........and the kicker, they had to analyze her bowel movements every morning to monitor her diet. It was "bad" if it sank to the bottom and likewise if it floating on top. It had to "hover" an inch or so below the water line. I shit you not, when I heard this stuff years later, I couldn't keep a straight face......but at the time it was serious because she was being driven to insanity. Her dad finally went and got her out of the house. Guys like this are mental and need to be institutionalized..........so be glad you got out, cause it probably would have gotten worse. Is that the kind of "man" you wanted to raise Devin?

 

[all the whey]

 

[heatherrae]

he probably just made shit up so you think hes a tool instead of taking it hard, cause most likely he knows what uv been through lately and how hard being a single mom can be.

he really just hates your personality, and thinks you suck

thanks. I feel so much better now.

 

[heatherrae]

Holy hell. I've got to email him that.

 

[heatherrae]

Heather.......couple things......

A) what are you doing dating a guy across the country while you have a kid? Seems you picked out more than a few unattractive personality traits in this guy yet you still were seeing him for sometime. Guys who fly women in from around the country are bad news.........usually.

B) The girls are totally right, mama's boy. But he doesn't hold a candle to my cousins ex husband who was an astronaut. The guy would micro manage her life in a way that defies reality. This prick would time her while she cut vegetables, he made her practice shutting the car door so that she got the force "just right" for optimum longevity of the latch..........and the kicker, they had to analyze her bowel movements every morning to monitor her diet. It was "bad" if it sank to the bottom and likewise if it floating on top. It had to "hover" an inch or so below the water line. I shit you not, when I heard this stuff years later, I couldn't keep a straight face......but at the time it was serious because she was being driven to insanity. Her dad finally went and got her out of the house. Guys like this are mental and need to be institutionalized..........so be glad you got out, cause it probably would have gotten worse. Is that the kind of "man" you wanted to raise Devin?

Good point!

That is weird. He actually said that I shut his door to his car too hard. I may have been dating the same man...lol. He told me I needed to let Devin cry. He told me that I should be working out 4 days on and 1 day off...lol...it was ENDLESS. He was such a NAG. I would try to help him in the kitchen and he would bitch that I put the glasses in the dishwasher instead of hand washing them. For some reason, he accused me on the first day there of getting into the pantry and eating the snacks. I didn't. I'm on a diet, but go figure. He was weird.

 

[heatherrae]

I didn't realize Jon was so anal about making the bed.

You should have picked up the quarter and told the guy to call someone who cares.

lol.

 

[velvett]

Good point!

That is weird. He actually said that I shut his door to his car too hard. I may have been dating the same man...lol. He told me I needed to let Devin cry. He told me that I should be working out 4 days on and 1 day off...lol...it was ENDLESS. He was such a NAG. I would try to help him in the kitchen and he would bitch that I put the glasses in the dishwasher instead of hand washing them. For some reason, he accused me on the first day there of getting into the pantry and eating the snacks. I didn't. I'm on a diet, but go figure. He was weird.

Whoa.

What a whack job.

 

[GUARDIAN]

I will cosole and comfort you.

 

[musclemom]

Good point!

That is weird. He actually said that I shut his door to his car too hard. I may have been dating the same man...lol. He told me I needed to let Devin cry. He told me that I should be working out 4 days on and 1 day off...lol...it was ENDLESS. He was such a NAG. I would try to help him in the kitchen and he would bitch that I put the glasses in the dishwasher instead of hand washing them. For some reason, he accused me on the first day there of getting into the pantry and eating the snacks. I didn't. I'm on a diet, but go figure. He was weird.

Okay, so stop and think ... why do you keep going for the same type? Because really, being anal retentive is the same thing as the fiancee who shoved you around. Control freak. The making the bed isn't about you being his mommy, it's a control issue, verging on OCD. Your leaving the quarter on the floor, closing his car door too hard driving him crazy, that shit is all indicative of a highly controlling personality.

Start thinking, girl. Take a long hard look at what ALL the men in your life have been like. Making a written list of each guys personality (i.e., funny, obsessively clean, sarcastic, etc.). Don't try to compare them immediately, just write the traits down, good and bad, and let them perculate for a few days. Then pull out the lists in a week or so, and start thinking about what the guys have in common (and they WILL have commonalities). You'll start seeing what you're drawn to. Then it's time to be brutally honest with yourself and figure out what inside of YOU keeps drawing you to this type of personality. That's how you break the cycle.

 

[heatherrae]

You guys should be ashamed! This young ladie has just suffered a break-up and all you guys can do is make these sleezy come-ons. If she needed someone (like me) to hold her tight in their big muscular arms(like mine) This is certianly the wrong time to go about it like this. She needs someone who understands( sublimental message ME)...

lol...very cute (like me)

 

[Turd Ferguson]

Yeah...those can't be the real reasons. If they are, he is one shallow fella.

I didn't care too much for Dallas, by the way. The salespeople are too pushy there and the scenery isn't as pretty as kentucky. It was COLD too. I brought all shorts and skirts and FROZE...lol.

Most likely he has another person in the works or on the hook. He was just manufacturing reasons.

 

[all the whey]

Good point!

That is weird. He actually said that I shut his door to his car too hard. I may have been dating the same man...lol. He told me I needed to let Devin cry. He told me that I should be working out 4 days on and 1 day off...lol...it was ENDLESS. He was such a NAG. I would try to help him in the kitchen and he would bitch that I put the glasses in the dishwasher instead of hand washing them. For some reason, he accused me on the first day there of getting into the pantry and eating the snacks. I didn't. I'm on a diet, but go figure. He was weird.

 

[heatherrae]

Okay, so stop and think ... why do you keep going for the same type? Because really, being anal retentive is the same thing as the fiancee who shoved you around. Control freak. The making the bed isn't about you being his mommy, it's a control issue, verging on OCD. Your leaving the quarter on the floor, closing his car door too hard driving him crazy, that shit is all indicative of a highly controlling personality.

Start thinking, girl. Take a long hard look at what ALL the men in your life have been like. Making a written list of each guys personality (i.e., funny, obsessively clean, sarcastic, etc.). Don't try to compare them immediately, just write the traits down, good and bad, and let them perculate for a few days. Then pull out the lists in a week or so, and start thinking about what the guys have in common (and they WILL have commonalities). You'll start seeing what you're drawn to. Then it's time to be brutally honest with yourself and figure out what inside of YOU keeps drawing you to this type of personality. That's how you break the cycle.

You are SOOOO RIGHT! Actually, this just occurred to me after this break up, because I realized that I did the EXACT SAME THING again! I tend to fall for guys who are VERY self absorbed and emotionally constipated...lol. The more they seem displeased with me, the more I try to please them and make things happy. I'm beginning to think that it is because this was the role I played as a child (mediator/pleaser) and I keep doing it.

 

[heatherrae]

I love you.

 

[redsamurai]

did he used to be an astronaut?

Good point!

That is weird. He actually said that I shut his door to his car too hard. I may have been dating the same man...lol. He told me I needed to let Devin cry. He told me that I should be working out 4 days on and 1 day off...lol...it was ENDLESS. He was such a NAG. I would try to help him in the kitchen and he would bitch that I put the glasses in the dishwasher instead of hand washing them. For some reason, he accused me on the first day there of getting into the pantry and eating the snacks. I didn't. I'm on a diet, but go figure. He was weird.

 

[heatherrae]

did he used to be an astronaut?

no...he does something with cell phone technology infrastructure.

 

[heatherrae]

Most likely he has another person in the works or on the hook. He was just manufacturing reasons.

Yeah, but he dated whomever he wanted anyway. We were not exclusive. Well, he wasn't, anyway...lol.

 

[redsamurai]

hmmmmm, if there was only someone here who was a younger and "SINGLE" version of mm...........hmmmmm <strokes chin contemplatively>.........hmmmmmmmmm

Okay, so stop and think ... why do you keep going for the same type? Because really, being anal retentive is the same thing as the fiancee who shoved you around. Control freak. The making the bed isn't about you being his mommy, it's a control issue, verging on OCD. Your leaving the quarter on the floor, closing his car door too hard driving him crazy, that shit is all indicative of a highly controlling personality.

Start thinking, girl. Take a long hard look at what ALL the men in your life have been like. Making a written list of each guys personality (i.e., funny, obsessively clean, sarcastic, etc.). Don't try to compare them immediately, just write the traits down, good and bad, and let them perculate for a few days. Then pull out the lists in a week or so, and start thinking about what the guys have in common (and they WILL have commonalities). You'll start seeing what you're drawn to. Then it's time to be brutally honest with yourself and figure out what inside of YOU keeps drawing you to this type of personality. That's how you break the cycle.

 

[musclemom]

You are SOOOO RIGHT! Actually, this just occurred to me after this break up, because I realized that I did the EXACT SAME THING again! I tend to fall for guys who are VERY self absorbed and emotionally constipated...lol. The more they seem displeased with me, the more I try to please them and make things happy. I'm beginning to think that it is because this was the role I played as a child (mediator/pleaser) and I keep doing it.

99 times out of 100 our relationship with our father dictates our relationships with men. Women often (unconsciously) try to work out unresolvable issues through boyfriends that were the most painful/recurrent problems they had with their fathers.

 

[Smurfy]

he probably just made shit up so you think hes a tool instead of taking it hard, cause most likely he knows what uv been through lately and how hard being a single mom can be.

he really just hates your personality, and thinks you suck

is that the technique you use when you break up with girls?





oh , wait......nevermind.

 

[redsamurai]

no...he does something with cell phone technology infrastructure.

and he didn't make you analyze your dookie right?

 

[heatherrae]

99 times out of 100 our relationship with our father dictates our relationships with men. Women often (unconsciously) try to work out unresolvable issues through boyfriends that were the most painful/recurrent problems they had with their fathers.

My father and mother were divorced and I had to jump like a doggy through hoops to get attention. "Look daddy, I got straight A's." You get the picture.

 

[all the whey]

 

[heatherrae]

and he didn't make you analyze your dookie right?

No, but I'm sure he has a theory on that, TOO. He was sort of weird...lol.

 

[heatherrae]

he thought I was slamming the door because I was mad at him. He left my camera on the roof of the car when he was putting bags in the car and drove off. Ruined a camera that I had just bought a couple of months prior. Then, he said, "I can't believe a lawyer is upset over a $200 camera." He never admitted he broke it.

 

[heatherrae]

is that the technique you use when you break up with girls?





oh , wait......nevermind.

 

[gotmilk]

he thought I was slamming the door because I was mad at him. He left my camera on the roof of the car when he was putting bags in the car and drove off. Ruined a camera that I had just bought a couple of months prior. Then, he said, "I can't believe a lawyer is upset over a $200 camera." He never admitted he broke it.

Be glad it was not little Damon.....Saturday I watched a couple at the beach put their baby carrier on the roof of their car, jump in the car, and start to drive off. Thankfully, the baby was in the car and not the carrier.

Little D would have been worth more than $200.....

 

[all the whey]

99 times out of 100 our relationship with our father dictates our relationships with men. Women often (unconsciously) try to work out unresolvable issues through boyfriends that were the most painful/recurrent problems they had with their fathers.

 

[Razorguns]

I was working out and working on the bod -- thought he would appreciate it. I went to see him last weekend. Everything was peachy over the weekend. Then, he dumped me on Tuesday night, over the phone. Dick.

You want to know the reasons he gave me? I evidently drive him crazy. He visited me at my house and he said that there was a quarter on the living room floor over the weekend and I didn't pick it up. Also, when I visited him, I didn't make the bed. WTF? He slept in and I got up at 5 am so that the baby wouldn't wake him up. I guess I was supposed to go back in the bedroom after he got up at 9 or 10 and make his bed? I asked, "are you serious?" He said he could actually list a million things like that. Again, WTF?

LOL...I suck at this love thing.

Those are just excuses. Don't dwell on those.

Translation: "You are not what I want in life".

No biggie. Better learn it now than 5 years later, when you're older.

Move on, and find someone more compatible. The worst you can do is what most do : Try to make an incompatible relationship "compatible". It's how you get single 40 year olds.

r

 

[redsamurai]

he thought I was slamming the door because I was mad at him. He left my camera on the roof of the car when he was putting bags in the car and drove off. Ruined a camera that I had just bought a couple of months prior. Then, he said, "I can't believe a lawyer is upset over a $200 camera." He never admitted he broke it.

omg this guy sounds like a major fucking trainwreck. Wtf heather? This guy might have some old gf's buried in his backyard........."I'm serious". What a piece of shit. Did he replace it at least?

 

[heatherrae]

omg this guy sounds like a major fucking trainwreck. Wtf heather? This guy might have some old gf's buried in his backyard........."I'm serious". What a piece of shit. Did he replace it at least?

He never ADMITTED that he was the one who did it. He was putting our gym bags in the back and must have set it on the roof of the Jeep. I was putting the baby's car seat in the back. Someone pulled us over and said "a camera flew off the roof." I checked my bag and it was gone. I said "I'm not tall enough and wouldn't put a camera up there where I can't see. I was putting Devin in the car." He didn't apologize he just said, "I can't believe a lawyer would be upset over a $200 camera." LOL. He's such a jerk.

 

[all the whey]

My father and mother were divorced and I had to jump like a doggy through hoops to get attention. "Look daddy, I got straight A's." You get the picture.

 

[heatherrae]

 

[heatherrae]

Holy cow, you are killing me.

 

[heatherrae]

Those are just excuses. Don't well on those.

Translation: "You are not what I want in life".

No biggie. Better learn it now than 5 years later, when you're older.

Move on, and find someone more compatible. The worst you can do is what most do : Try to make a incompatible relationship "compatible". It's how you get single 40 year olds.

r

i actually think the real reason is that I didn't lose the baby weight quickly enough for his taste and he would much rather be sleeping with 20 year olds...lol. Oh well, c'est la vie.

 

[needtogetarmy]

You are intelligent and good looking (a powerful combination) to hell with the TX guy - you can easily do better!

 

[redsamurai]

He never ADMITTED that he was the one who did it. He was putting our gym bags in the back and must have set it on the roof of the Jeep. I was putting the baby's car seat in the back. Someone pulled us over and said "a camera flew off the roof." I checked my bag and it was gone. I said "I'm not tall enough and wouldn't put a camera up there where I can't see. I was putting Devin in the car." He didn't apologize he just said, "I can't believe a lawyer would be upset over a $200 camera." LOL. He's such a jerk.

wow........obviously someone who doesnt' value money in any way shape or form. I'm taking it he's a rich snob who replaces things at a whim. But even if I was a billionair, I would so profusely apologize for that, than say let's go get you another one........and then buy you a $500 camera. Christ.......how did you pick this guy?

 

[Bikini Mod]

i actually think the real reason is that I didn't lose the baby weight quickly enough for his taste and he would much rather be sleeping with 20 year olds...lol. Oh well, c'est la vie.

Miss HeatherRae, RG is 100% correct.

(DID I JUST SAY THAT OUT LOUD?!?!?) LOL

The excuse is irrelevant. I can assure you if a man is too blind to see your beauty with his *eyes wide shut*, then why ON EARTH WOULD YOU WANT HIM?

Seems kinda silly to me... dontcha think?

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

hr with cleavage like that you dont have to b good at love. where in texas is he?

I was working out and working on the bod -- thought he would appreciate it. I went to see him last weekend. Everything was peachy over the weekend. Then, he dumped me on Tuesday night, over the phone. Dick.

You want to know the reasons he gave me? I evidently drive him crazy. He visited me at my house and he said that there was a quarter on the living room floor over the weekend and I didn't pick it up. Also, when I visited him, I didn't make the bed. WTF? He slept in and I got up at 5 am so that the baby wouldn't wake him up. I guess I was supposed to go back in the bedroom after he got up at 9 or 10 and make his bed? I asked, "are you serious?" He said he could actually list a million things like that. Again, WTF?

LOL...I suck at this love thing.

 

[heatherrae]

Miss HeatherRae, RG is 100% correct.

(DID I JUST SAY THAT OUT LOUD?!?!?) LOL

The excuse is irrelevant. I can assure you if a man is too blind to see your beauty with his *eyes wide shut*, then why ON EARTH WOULD YOU WANT HIM?

Seems kinda silly to me... dontcha think?

Yep. I agree!

 

[Lestat]

he sounds like a dutch bag, time to find some new dick, EF is the right place for that!

 

[heatherrae]

wow........obviously someone who doesnt' value money in any way shape or form. I'm taking it he's a rich snob who replaces things at a whim. But even if I was a billionair, I would so profusely apologize for that, than say let's go get you another one........and then buy you a $500 camera. Christ.......how did you pick this guy?

Yeah. You nailed that. He is on the wealthy side. I nearly cried because I lost the photos that were on the memory card --Devin's first plane ride and some other cute stuff. I told him that as a single mommy I have to save up for things like cameras even though I make a decent salary. He didn't seem very sympathetic.

 

[heatherrae]

he sounds like a dutch bag, time to find some new dick, EF is the right place for that!

lol...the best way to get over a man is to get under another one.

 

[all the whey]

Yeah. You nailed that. He is on the wealthy side. I nearly cried because I lost the photos that were on the memory card --Devin's first plane ride and some other cute stuff. I told him that as a single mommy I have to save up for things like cameras even though I make a decent salary. He didn't seem very sympathetic.

All of this could have been avoided.

If you just made the bed!

 

[heatherrae]

All of this could have been avoided.

If you just made the bed!

I wish he would have let me in on the fact that there was a bed making quiz at the end...LOL.

 

[needtogetarmy]

Yeah. You nailed that. He is on the wealthy side. I nearly cried because I lost the photos that were on the memory card --Devin's first plane ride and some other cute stuff. I told him that as a single mommy I have to save up for things like cameras even though I make a decent salary. He didn't seem very sympathetic.

He seems like a typical asshole. I would focus on positive side that he is gone