Mood Swings

[Stephanon]

I'm sorry if this is the wrong place to ask, but I'm really seeking some advice.
My boyfriend is on steroids, I've been with him 2 years and he's been on and off them the whole time, although the 1st 6 months he kept it quiet.
Last time he was on them it was for ages, probably 4-5 months, his moods were awful, jealousy, mood swings, violence - I honestly thought it was just the way he is (more fool me for staying I know, but not here for a lecture on that please!) - then he had a break and he was a changed person, caring, loving, everything I wanted him to be, if we did start bickering he would just say ok let's stop now etc... It was great. And I realised it must be the injections making him into a crazy, nasty animal!
Now 2 weeks ago he's started having them again I begged him not too for our relationship, but he's gone ahead and it's all started again The digs, the threats, telling me to move out, the name calling, the slamming/breaking my stuff, jealousy and now today the violence. What am I meant to do?
Is there no way to control the mood swings or is there nothing he can have with it to calm him down slightly?
I can't just leave him, I love him to bit's, I live in a place where I don't know anyone (moved here to be with him) and I don't have many friends/family etc to help. I can't bare to live in fear again.
I'm nervous writing this, please don't be nasty, I'm just genuinely seeking advice as to weather there is anything that can be done, as a last resort to get my boyfriend back.

 

[tony nico]

If your a ass hole normally steroids just make you even more of one if he really loved you he would stop

 

[stevesmi]

what kind of steroids is he taking? certain steroids are very androgenic and will cause an increase in aggressiveness and dick behavior, but a mature adult will easily be able to handle the change in androgens. is he lifting weights to release all that pent up anger?

how old is he? he sounds very immature to me. a real man is never violent towards a women, you need to move out asap, take your most important things. and then send a brother or friend to pick up the rest of your stuff. this guy is bad news

the serial killer who just shot up a club in FL had the same problems as your bf. and the wife never stepped forward to tell the cops, and now look what happened.. not only should you move out, but you also should call the authorities and have him arrested. breaking your stuff, verbal and physical abuse, and threatening you are unnaceptable. the steroid community is sick of these clowns giving our lifestyle a bad rap, 99% of us are white collar middle class dudes who just want to get an edge in the gym.. its the 1% who make us look stupid like this

 

[tony nico]

what kind of steroids is he taking? certain steroids are very androgenic and will cause an increase in aggressiveness and dick behavior, but a mature adult will easily be able to handle the change in androgens. is he lifting weights to release all that pent up anger?

how old is he? he sounds very immature to me. a real man is never violent towards a women, you need to move out asap, take your most important things. and then send a brother or friend to pick up the rest of your stuff. this guy is bad news

the serial killer who just shot up a club in FL had the same problems as your bf. and the wife never stepped forward to tell the cops, and now look what happened.. not only should you move out, but you also should call the authorities and have him arrested. breaking your stuff, verbal and physical abuse, and threatening you are unnaceptable. the steroid community is sick of these clowns giving our lifestyle a bad rap, 99% of us are white collar middle class dudes who just want to get an edge in the gym.. its the 1% who make us look stupid like this

Couldn't of said it better

 

[Lev Butlerov]

That is so true. Steroids won't make someone go crazy out of nowhere. They only get worse what is already inside there. But even in such cases most people are mature enough to understand how to channel all the aggression and moodiness. I understand that it is hard for you right now to leave him, but these things don't change. If he hit you once, if he threatened you once, that will never stop. There will be breaks to this outrage, but it all goes in circles. I am a certified psychologist, and I have seen this sort of cases many times already. Unfortunately, these people barely ever change on their own, and almost none of them will seek professional aid. Therefore, you need to get yourself together, and leave him for the sake of your safety, both physical, and psychological.

It is indeed really sad that just few individuals can give such a notorious reputation to most of us, who are not like this, who respect and love our ladies.

 

[MasonicBodybuilder]

Typically if you are a dick, steroids will make it worse but not create a nasty person. They will often just enhance a persons tendencies. For me, I am pretty relaxed and on cycle it makes me even more chilled out. The only thing I can think of is that he is not dosing them properly. If he is not spreading things out the right way he may be experiencing hormones riding the "rollercoaster". He does not sound like the right person to be using steroids at all but if he is, he should have someone helping him with his protocols.

 

[muskate]

Here is a good article for you to read on how steroids effect mood and how roid rage is a myth: http://www.evolutionary.org/is-roid-rage-real-facts

 

[test4lyfe]

Make sure hes taking an AI and his e2 is leveled out