Married with Children? You're amongst the elite in America.

[Bikini Mod]

So your husband had more than platonic love for you but you only had platonic love for him. Everything else about the guy was great but you managed to still get divorced? The whole divorce sounds forced or am I missing something. Most couples would kill to be in that position and simply let real love grow with time. I thought the best situation was to be friends first then get married?

When we are young we chase the cute bad guys because our mothers never told us to look at a man with our mind first, our heart second and our eyes last.

Not saying this happened to Ms Rae, but strictly speaking from my own experience. I wasted my affections on sooooooooooo many of the wrong type of man.... then life broke me and brought me my husband.

My husband is the most beautiful, amazing, charismatic man alive and I can see no other. There is NOTHING that another man could offer me that would cause me to even think about straying. ....and he looks like a santaclaus-lawngnome biker dude... but dammit he TOWERS head and shoulders above most men... in my estimation I CAN SEE NO OTHER.

 

[mrplunkey]

And just for the record... where are your children educated Plunkey?

My oldest goes to Bearden High (public school) and my middle child goes to West Valley (public school). My youngest is home schooled.

All three children have been offered Webb (a very nice, expensive private school). My oldest wanted to go to public school from day one. My middle child is considering changing to Webb for high school (but it's 100% her choice to make). My youngest will be leaving home school next year for either public or private school, per his choice.

Both my ex wife and I augment our children's education considerably as well.

 

[Bikini Mod]

My oldest goes to Bearden High (public school) and my middle child goes to West Valley (public school). My youngest is home schooled.

All three children have been offered Webb (a very nice, expensive private school). My oldest wanted to go to public school from day one. My middle child is considering changing to Webb for high school (but it's 100% her choice to make). My youngest will be leaving home school next year for either public or private school, per his choice.

Both my ex wife and I augment our children's education considerably as well.

So then I am confused (which isnt an exception) are you for or against public education?

 

[digimon7068]

What I think most don't realize... or accept is that not everyone marry's and has kids with future of divorce. I expected and wanted to raise my children in a comfortable loving 2 parent home. I have taken the monkey on my back though... Because i filed for divorce and I decided that our marriage was failing at a very fast pace. We pushed thru VERY hard times... and were together for 11 years without seperation at all... When time came that i felt WE needed it, I realized that the fix was long gone.

you married a normal dude that turned into an outlaw biker. . .based upon your story (which i believe), no way you could have seen that one coming. . .you get a free pass. . .no explanations necessary. . .plus you got them na-na's and you know how to handle a sidearm. . .you'll always get the benefit of the doubt from me

 

[alien amp pharm]

LOL

I am still waiting for the *experts* to let me know where I fall on the bell curve.

Just an observation, are the women on this site far less judgmental and humbled by life than the GROWN men ...... or is it just me?

Hopefully the rest of the EF crowd has learned to overlook your vomit of postings as I have.

You are a washed-up has-been. Go find your p-whipped husband if you're seeking attention.

 

[-SD-]

My oldest goes to Bearden High (public school) and my middle child goes to West Valley (public school). My youngest is home schooled.

All three children have been offered Webb (a very nice, expensive private school). My oldest wanted to go to public school from day one. My middle child is considering changing to Webb for high school (but it's 100% her choice to make). My youngest will be leaving home school next year for either public or private school, per his choice.

Both my ex wife and I augment our children's education considerably as well.

What is the median property value that the taxes are derived from to support those public schools?

 

[heatherrae]

So basically you married a ballless guy you knew you could dominate and control then got bored with it.

Sweet!

No, he wasn't balless. He was kind and romantic and loving. I didn't get bored of him either. Even when we were seperated we spent tons of time together and went on little dates to the movies and such. As hard as you try, you can't find anything to sully about him or me because what we had was above you and your mentality.

 

[-SD-]

No, he wasn't balless. He was kind and romantic and loving. I didn't get bored of him either. Even when we were seperated we spent tons of time together and went on little dates to the movies and such. As hard as you try, you can't find anything to sully about him or me because what we had was above you and your mentality.

Sounds like the perfect marriage, I dont get why you got divorced. I mean if you had a balancing scale and put all the good things about the marriage/him on one side and put the bad things on the other, the side with the good stuff would slam through the ground with its weight lol.

 

[heatherrae]

So your husband had more than platonic love for you but you only had platonic love for him. Everything else about the guy was great but you managed to still get divorced? The whole divorce sounds forced or am I missing something. Most couples would kill to be in that position and simply let real love grow with time. I thought the best situation was to be friends first then get married?

i didn't want the divorce. He did. He sensed that I loved him like a brother and not like a husband which sort of screwed with his ego and things sort of snowballed. He had some troubles at work and I graduated law school right at the same time we married and began making far more money than he did. It is hard to detail exactly how we got off track.

I still love him, but I still am not very physically attracted to him. Anyway, he has had a girlfriend for a few years now, and I fully support his happiness in that relationship. I wish him only the most love and happiness in the world. I hope we always remain freinds.

 

[-SD-]

i didn't want the divorce. He did. He sensed that I loved him like a brother and not like a husband which sort of screwed with his ego and things sort of snowballed. He had some troubles at work and I graduated law school right at the same time we married and began making far more money than he did. It is hard to detail exactly how we got off track.

I still love him, but I still am not very physically attracted to him. Anyway, he has had a girlfriend for a few years now, and I fully support his happiness in that relationship. I wish him only the most love and happiness in the world. I hope we always remain freinds.

Ok that makes more sense.