Marriage is incredible......today, so many people go into relationships with a me first attitude......destined to fail....it does not have to be that way.....I follow my father's example.....he alway's put his family first....I love my wife...she is my best friend.....she also is drop dead gorgeous has the genetic's of a greek goddess.....and that doesn't hurt......don't get me wrong......less than 6-7 years ago, I was quite the pimp....and still could be.....but I have found something in her, and she has given me something...(my daughter) that could never be replaced.....sure there are times when I feel like knocking every wall down in the house......but I get over it......sure there are times when I want to bang a hot ass 19 year old....( I own part of a nightclub for fuck sake) ...but that thought of losing her, and what we have....keeps my dick out of the dirt.....I am not an exemplary man by any stretch of the imagination.....I have done more wrong shit then 99% of this board....ie: 10 months in prison....drug abuse.....and being an all round jackass of a whore....but that was then, and this is now.......th only advice I can give to people.....is attempt to live your life to the fullest and in every wrong way.......BEFORE you get married.....it keeps the longing to a minimum.......