Married folks......is your sex life as it used to be?

[Sundance]

After marriage...it was the same.

After two kids...very infrequent. Amazing what two kids and a 2 hour commute will do.

You need to squeeze in a few "quickies" to keep those "boyz" sane and happy...life is too short to be wasted...

 

[EnderJE]

Maybe he needs to be coming out...

jk
jk

 

[Generic MALE]

WOW...Virgins males are such a rara avis...Why did you chose abstinency???

I grew up super religious. I was a real do-gooder. I use to go visit the sick in hospitals, the incarcerated in prison and jail, at Christmas go help feed kids at the orphanages (truthfully - they give their cooks the holiday off but the kids still need to eat), etc etc etc. And I stayed a virgin until marraige. Interestingly in my early to mid twenties many women took it as their Mt.Everest to screw me, and I turned down alot of wild offers.

But religion faded from me in my late 30's and now I am a hateful, bitter old man.

 

[Generic MALE]

out-at-sea, by the way I got married at 28

 

[michaelm]

I must agree children do throw a bone in our sex life, but man after getting frustrated about it, but understanding it is not because we are not attracted to each other or sex drive not their, but their is always a little one around or something to do that takes precedence.......BUT, I have become the king of quickies, though it aint as fulfilling as a normal session about 2 quickies a day will keep me until we get to have a good lone session.....gotta do what u gotta do...

 

[out_at_sea]

Interestingly in my early to mid twenties many women took it as their Mt.Everest to screw me, and I turned down alot of wild offers.

But religion faded from me in my late 30's and now I am a hateful, bitter old man.

Blame it on your long abstinence....Man, Virgin Mary herslef would have been envy of your ultimate form of celibacy. I am not sure if such prolonged lack of intercourse is beneficial in a long run...as you can see now, you turned yourself into a grouch and bitter old man.

I got into "business" since I was 15 and my sex potency is a strong as ever....however, I am getting grouchy too.
Go figure...

 

[[email protected]]

Damn, That's the 1st time I've ever heard of a dude not wanting sex.

Something wrong???

I'm 34 not 22 anymore.

She comes into bed like a cat hissing and spraying all over. I'm friggin tired as hell from 12 hour shifts. The last thing I want to do is climb up and start pounding especially with all these anti depressants that makes shooting a load like digging a hole in hard soil with a toy beach shovel.

I get wood when the wind blows. She just hops on and does her thing.

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

NO NO and No. As a matter of fact that is one of the main reasons I may not be married much longer. Sad story.

I hear that....When the last of my kids have flown the nest,so shall I.It's odd how any attraction(or 'percieved' attraction)seems to quickly go out the door for many woman once they've landed a man into marital commitment.It's nothing more than a conquest,once they've won,the true colors shine through.I don't understand that rationale/cruelty.It's psychotic IMO.

 

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I hear that....When the last of my kids have flown the nest,so shall I.It's odd how any attraction(or 'percieved' attraction)seems to quickly go out the door for many woman once they've landed a man into marital commitment.It's nothing more than a conquest,once they've won,the true colors shine through.I don't understand that rationale/cruelty.It's psychotic IMO.

100%

 

[jenscats5]

When I'm really, really stressed out from work, all I want to do is sleep which I feel bad about, cuz sex is what helps keep a marriage alive. I need to work on that. I try to keep his needs in mind & do "it" even tho I don't want the big O or am tired.

We don't hump like rabid wolves like we did before we were married, but then again I hadn't had sex in over 1 year. Now it's more quality than quantity, but the times per week varies.

I guess once I'm laid off, he can come home for lunch & get some & lunch!! hehehe