Married folks......is your sex life as it used to be?

[Robert Jan]

Most people dont believe in Reincarnation... most people are pretty damn sure, they will only get to walk this earth once.
So how come that somehow, people try and keep things fresh with the same person for 40 years of their life? Isn`t it just an impossible goal? Its crazy.

 

[Heahy Minister]

I hear that....When the last of my kids have flown the nest,so shall I.It's odd how any attraction(or 'percieved' attraction)seems to quickly go out the door for many woman once they've landed a man into marital commitment.It's nothing more than a conquest,once they've won,the true colors shine through.I don't understand that rationale/cruelty.It's psychotic IMO.

Oh my goodness this post is 10000% true!!!! You can be in a long-term 15 year relationship and not married and still have that attraction, but once you get married the lustre wears off! Why are women so fucked up this way???? I know tons of older women who have admitted this very thing!

 

[TC2]

I'm 34 not 22 anymore.

She comes into bed like a cat hissing and spraying all over. I'm friggin tired as hell from 12 hour shifts. The last thing I want to do is climb up and start pounding especially with all these anti depressants that makes shooting a load like digging a hole in hard soil with a toy beach shovel.

I get wood when the wind blows. She just hops on and does her thing.

I hope you didn't take my post as smartass or anything, it wasnt meant that way.

It just reminded me of a friend of mine who's wife gained about 60 lbs of lard in the 2 years they've been married.

He's not attracted to her at all anymore and she wants to have some kids.

 

[Generic MALE]

Blame it on your long abstinence....Man, Virgin Mary herslef would have been envy of your ultimate form of celibacy. I am not sure if such prolonged lack of intercourse is beneficial in a long run...as you can see now, you turned yourself into a grouch and bitter old man.

I got into "business" since I was 15 and my sex potency is a strong as ever....however, I am getting grouchy too.
Go figure...

Yeah, I did not even masterbate either. I went through a phase earlier this year where I almost had some affairs. I am 42, but still get hit on now and then and almost took a couple up on it. I dunno, I would like to know what I wish I had done on my last day of life - what I will look back on and wish I did more - be more faithful tio my wife or goo up the guts of every nasty skank within 5 miles of me.

 

[Generic MALE]

When I'm really, really stressed out from work, all I want to do is sleep which I feel bad about, cuz sex is what helps keep a marriage alive. I need to work on that. I try to keep his needs in mind & do "it" even tho I don't want the big O or am tired.

We don't hump like rabid wolves like we did before we were married, but then again I hadn't had sex in over 1 year. Now it's more quality than quantity, but the times per week varies.

I guess once I'm laid off, he can come home for lunch & get some & lunch!! hehehe

Does this sound familiar to anyone else? It sounds to me like a flxygirl story in the making.

 

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I hope you didn't take my post as smartass or anything, it wasnt meant that way.

It just reminded me of a friend of mine who's wife gained about 60 lbs of lard in the 2 years they've been married.

He's not attracted to her at all anymore and she wants to have some kids.

Not at all. Really. She put on about 30 in 4 years.

 

[KA-BAR]

I am not even going to wait that long.

I hear that....When the last of my kids have flown the nest,so shall I.It's odd how any attraction(or 'percieved' attraction)seems to quickly go out the door for many woman once they've landed a man into marital commitment.It's nothing more than a conquest,once they've won,the true colors shine through.I don't understand that rationale/cruelty.It's psychotic IMO.

 

[jenscats5]

Why is what I said a flexygirl story in the making?? It's unfortunate that life gets in the way sometimes, but it's not like it's 100% or even 50% of the time. If my husband chose to step out with another woman, that would be his choice & a cop out too. It's so much easier to do that than it would be to work on whatever would cause him to do that in the first place.

He gets tired & doesn't feel like doing it sometimes too, & I would never consider cheating on him just because of that. While sex is a very important part of a relationship, it cannot be the ONLY part of a relationship.

 

[Sundance]

He gets tired & doesn't feel like doing it sometimes too, & I would never consider cheating on him just because of that.


While sex is a very important part of a relationship, it cannot be the ONLY part of a relationship.

It is not the ONLY part ....it is the MOST important part!

If there is no SEX....there is NOTHING!

And dont tell me otherwise as you are just deluding yourself.

 

[out_at_sea]

Yeah, I did not even masterbate either. I went through a phase earlier this year where I almost had some affairs. I am 42, but still get hit on now and then and almost took a couple up on it. I dunno, I would like to know what I wish I had done on my last day of life - what I will look back on and wish I did more - be more faithful tio my wife or goo up the guts of every nasty skank within 5 miles of me.

Have you considered becoming a monk??

You sound so pristine...

I was , I am and I will be an incurable sinful....a mere mortal who enjoys sex too much ....to each their own...