Married folks......is your sex life as it used to be?

[biteme]

10 years of marriage and I never got tired of fucking my ex. She was quite hot though and never let herself get that out of shape. Also, I am a horndog.

 

[jenscats5]

"It is not the ONLY part ....it is the MOST important part!

If there is no SEX....there is NOTHING!

And dont tell me otherwise as you are just deluding yourself."

Of course if there isn't sex there's nothing -- then you've got a roommate and nothing else. However, sex cannot be the only thing a couple has in common. It's also not the only thing that keeps a relationship together. There are other parts of a relationship that are just as important as sex. And no, I'm not deluding myself.

 

[Lestat]

This thread is pretty damn depressing.. especially Huck and Kabar..

really huck, i feel for ya man... I can't imagine being in your spot.. especially since I view you as someone who goes out of their way to help people, knowledgable, and having a lot to offer.

 

[Generic MALE]

Why is what I said a flexygirl story in the making?? ........While sex is a very important part of a relationship, it cannot be the ONLY part of a relationship.

Why? About a month or so ago a similar thread was started and flexygirl responded and said she and her husband only had sex on the weekends, but they were best buds and so that was all that worked out with their busy schedule......a month or so later she finds out he is nailing fat chicks the other days of the week.

 

[TC2]

This thread is pretty damn depressing.. especially Huck and Kabar..

really huck, i feel for ya man... I can't imagine being in your spot.. especially since I view you as someone who goes out of their way to help people, knowledgable, and having a lot to offer.

Dude.. Huck and Kabar sound exactly like 99 % of my friends. They ALL hate being married, said as soon as they said "I do" shit just went downhill.

They're wives did a complete 180 from the way they were when they werent married.

Fuck marriage.

 

[Lestat]

Why? About a month or so ago a similar thread was started and flexygirl responded and said she and her husband only had sex on the weekends, but they were best buds and so that was all that worked out with their busy schedule......a month or so later she finds out he is nailing fat chicks the other days of the week.

very good point.

 

[Generic MALE]

Have you considered becoming a monk??

You sound so pristine...

I was , I am and I will be an incurable sinful....a mere mortal who enjoys sex too much ....to each their own...

I guess what's funny is I was ordained as minister at 25. religion was very important to me, and I took it seriously - all the doing good to others, being pure and chaste, donating 10% of gross income to church....but I do have to admit I was very happy then.

And abstaining from sex certainly did not mean I did not feel strong urges, I just chose to control them - which is very hard to do actually. Again..I have to wonder if I will wish I was gooing up the guts of other women right now.

 

[pitbullstl]

No, but not because of marriage. There`s So much other stuff involved on our lives... A child being one of them. I know that`s no excuse but...

I agree to an extent........once you are married....there are so many other things that take precedence........ie: daughter, daughter's soccer team, daughter's school, daughter's "why is the sky blue" questions...... .....the weird thing is my wife wants it more than I do......we still have a very active sex life..(3 times a week) .....I am just so damn tired all the time.......this spring my wife is going to become a full time stay-at-home mom......this will allow me more time to sleep, and run my business.......it was a tough bridge to cross.....we by no means need her income.....but she loves her work......I guess she love's us (Riley and I) more..... ....then there will be plenty of time for nookie.....

 

[Generic MALE]

Why is what I said a flexygirl story in the making?? It's unfortunate that life gets in the way sometimes, but it's not like it's 100% or even 50% of the time. If my husband chose to step out with another woman, that would be his choice & a cop out too. It's so much easier to do that than it would be to work on whatever would cause him to do that in the first place.

He gets tired & doesn't feel like doing it sometimes too, & I would never consider cheating on him just because of that. While sex is a very important part of a relationship, it cannot be the ONLY part of a relationship.

Let me add that I certainly hope not. Flexygirl was so hurt by it. I hope that it is not the same in your case - but it sounds very similar. Maybe some sex during the week would not hurt

 

[pitbullstl]

Dude.. Huck and Kabar sound exactly like 99 % of my friends. They ALL hate being married, said as soon as they said "I do" shit just went downhill.

They're wives did a complete 180 from the way they were when they werent married.

Fuck marriage.

Marriage is incredible......today, so many people go into relationships with a me first attitude......destined to fail....it does not have to be that way.....I follow my father's example.....he alway's put his family first....I love my wife...she is my best friend.....she also is drop dead gorgeous has the genetic's of a greek goddess.....and that doesn't hurt......don't get me wrong......less than 6-7 years ago, I was quite the pimp....and still could be.....but I have found something in her, and she has given me something...(my daughter) that could never be replaced.....sure there are times when I feel like knocking every wall down in the house......but I get over it......sure there are times when I want to bang a hot ass 19 year old....( I own part of a nightclub for fuck sake) ...but that thought of losing her, and what we have....keeps my dick out of the dirt.....I am not an exemplary man by any stretch of the imagination.....I have done more wrong shit then 99% of this board....ie: 10 months in prison....drug abuse.....and being an all round jackass of a whore....but that was then, and this is now.......th only advice I can give to people.....is attempt to live your life to the fullest and in every wrong way.......BEFORE you get married.....it keeps the longing to a minimum.......