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Marriage. Should i?
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housemusik83
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you are asking the wrong group of people here lol
First!
sum' bitch!
Fail!
fail!
Let me list the reasons for marriage first:
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housemusik83
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fail!
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walliwalibus
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yes. Be sure you only knew her a week and stick it out ten years so she gets half of your pension... that is if you have a pension plan.
You sound bitter broseph
LOL, I'm 26 and yeah I'm still a kid! Gave her a promise ring because if it was an engagement ring it would be pointless to start this thread (it would be too late...) It's like asking for advice on how to cycle after being a month on...
roflmao
If you want kids someday, I'd recommend marrying when you're about 35. Make sure you've banged as many chicks as possible before then. Do all your 3somes and what not now, cuz you won't be getting any of that then. Every girl that is good looking enough and wants your cawk between now and then, don't think twice, just do it. Around 35 is a good time to have a kid. Hopefully you'll be established financially, and you'll be mature enough and appreciate the responsibilities.
Go with an import as far as a wife goes. Better odds it'll last. It's like Honda vs. Chevy, ya know? For the long term reliability, go with Honda.
Go with an import as far as a wife goes. Better odds it'll last. It's like Honda vs. Chevy, ya know? For the long term reliability, go with Honda.
Bikini Mod
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Promise ring? You gotta be kidding me.
That says, "I don't want you to fuck other guys while I fantasize about fucking other women." If she is satisfied with that.... cool. Who are we to say diddly do.
As for you asking us why you should marry this girl, sorta silly dontcha think. Not like WE are the ones that promised YOUR GIRL diddly.
You tell us what is so special about this girl that you should promise her shit?
That says, "I don't want you to fuck other guys while I fantasize about fucking other women." If she is satisfied with that.... cool. Who are we to say diddly do.
As for you asking us why you should marry this girl, sorta silly dontcha think. Not like WE are the ones that promised YOUR GIRL diddly.
You tell us what is so special about this girl that you should promise her shit?
If you feel compelled to ask those questions, then you probably shouldn't.
You get married because you have met the person that if they left your life there would be an empty place that simply could not be filled by another. Marry a person who is infinitely interesting to you, who can still surprise you. Marry the person who makes you laugh until you cry. Marry your best friend that you can talk to for hours on end and afterwards you spend the rest of the night making love with. Marry a person who, if they woke up tomorrow and could read your mind, you wouldn't care. Marry the person that you trust, not just with your life, but your heart and soul, who accepts you completely, who you can be completely honest about anything about. And most importantly, marry the person for whom YOU fulfill all of the above requirements.
Good things - we are both into working out, she pins my butt, she gives me myofascial release massages, we both work at night, she is gorgeous and very talented, respectiful, she is a great cook, she is very polite, funny, lovely, caring, among other stuff not necessarily by this order.
Bad things - I can't really tell because it might have severe consequences on my well being, got it?
tyty7
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Very good and let me add:
You get married because she has the nicest, sweetest, tightest ass you have ever seen. Marry the person who will ride you like there is no tomorrow for absolutely no reason. Marry the person that you trust will not puncture the condom before you have sex in anyway so she'll get pregnant and you will be stuck with her for the rest of your life. Marry the person who will allow you to take "holidays" every so often so you can have a threesome with a few whores from work. And most importantly, marry the person who will suck your penis until your eyeballs rolls back into you head.
Everybody can be replaced, well not my mother ( i have a second mother though) my father and my brother.
But this girl, my girl it's different from any other I had before so if something wrong happens it's gonna leave a huge scar.
Bikini Mod
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Good things - we are both into working out, she pins my butt, she gives me myofascial release massages, we both work at night, she is gorgeous and very talented, respectiful, she is a great cook, she is very polite, funny, lovely, caring, among other stuff not necessarily by this order.
Bad things - I can't really tell because it might have severe consequences on my well being, got it?
So far the only REAL positive you said about her is that she is caring (funny and polite are good too).
A monkey can cook or you can pay somebody else to do it.
I have to say one REAL BIG POSITIVE for you is that you did NOT say, "You love her."
Very good and let me add:
You get married because she has the nicest, sweetest, tightest ass you have ever seen. Marry the person who will ride you like there is no tomorrow for absolutely no reason. Marry the person that you trust will not puncture the condom before you have sex in anyway so she'll get pregnant and you will be stuck with her for the rest of your life. Marry the person who will allow you to take "holidays" every so often so you can have a threesome with a few whores from work. And most importantly, marry the person who will suck your penis until your eyeballs rolls back into you head.
Have you ever been married before?
If so than go ahead and do it again. You know what you are getting into.
If she has been married before than hell might as well.
If neither of you have, then why ruin a great thing!
If so than go ahead and do it again. You know what you are getting into.
If she has been married before than hell might as well.
If neither of you have, then why ruin a great thing!
YMMV. IMHO: A) if you live long enough, gravity catches everyone, anyway, so ass tightness is academic. However, barring dementia, brains don't show their wrinkles, and B) The most important compatibility traits are found from the neck up, not the waist down.Very good and let me add:
You get married because she has the nicest, sweetest, tightest ass you have ever seen. Marry the person who will ride you like there is no tomorrow for absolutely no reason. Marry the person that you trust will not puncture the condom before you have sex in anyway so she'll get pregnant and you will be stuck with her for the rest of your life. Marry the person who will allow you to take "holidays" every so often so you can have a threesome with a few whores from work. And most importantly, marry the person who will suck your penis until your eyeballs rolls back into you head.
If you are involved with a person who you have clear, open and honest communication with you can talk out most sexual problems.
No, I disagree, everyone cannot be replaced. I've buried both of my parents, I survived that, I moved on (and I really was close with my mother). Believe it or not, in time it's like
However, if my husband, gods forbid, were to leave this plane, my life would be utterly meaningless and desolate. For me, my life would essentially end that day, too.
My people looks at food at an entire perspective than the average american, oh and in case you were wandering I work on the business so I know quite a bit about it. The idea of paying somebody else to do it's complicated... So if I say she knows how to cook it's not the kind of stuff you find anywhere...
About me loving her, yes I do and giving her a ring it's my way to say her that I'm prepared to care more about her than myself, when I have that full mindset i will give her an engagement ring.
No, I disagree, everyone cannot be replaced. I've buried both of my parents, I survived that, I moved on (and I really was close with my mother). Believe it or not, in time it's like
I'm not talking about death of your husband or lover I talking about cheating, deception, disapointment etc... Sure I gave the example of my mother, but I also met the other woman that my father got together with and she is a wonderful and well educated person, so sure I regret i didn't had the chance to learn more with my mother because i was 15 when she left, but there are many ways to look at things and maybe I'm gifted or not to be able to have multiple perspectives.
javaguru
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The question is, why do you think you should get married?
We'll shoot the holes in reasons.
Ok one reason... wild and safe sex!
calveless wonder
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short answer - no
long answer - hell no
long answer - hell no
javaguru
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The sex stops after marriage, you'll be fortunate to get it once a week. As for the safe part, that assumes she's faithful.
Why is a bride smiling when she walks down the aisle?
She knows that she's given her last blowjob
Getting married for regular sex is the worst mistake a man can make because that's how women trap them.
Grumpy Old Man
Grumpy Old Biker Bastard
Wear a condon and get a hooker, if that is your reason you need to not be married
The sex stops after marriage, you'll be fortunate to get it once a week. As for the safe part, that assumes she's faithful.
Why is a bride smiling when she walks down the aisle?
She knows that she's given her last blowjob
Getting married for regular sex is the worst mistake a man can make because that's how women trap them.
ROFLMAO I totally knew you would say that! Just a few words for that, my girlfriend is brazillian and brazillian women don't take man for granted, they know if they don't make their man happy, he is going to get it somewhere else and the other way around is also in! So it's not really a matter of bad sex, but I could be wrong. Faithfulness might be an issue because I wouldn't even trust my shadow, but I know she doesn't trust me either... So I guess you are right on this one.
Another reason partnership. Thoughts.
I wouldn't even smell a hookers pussy, so let us not mention tasting it.
javaguru
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She's only Brazilian until she's Americanized by her friends.
Partnership? Good investment if she contributes equally financially. Otherwise, marriage gives her an equal stake regardless of the contribution, bad business. You can forgo marriage and write a contract that will be more equitable as a partnership.
Grumpy Old Man
Grumpy Old Biker Bastard
They way you have spun this your wife doesn't trust you nor do you trust her (AFTER MARRIAGE) then how does the dick of her lover taste when you kiss her? Just a question. I would suggest stay single or get married. That is your choice and if you have to ask about getting married then you should not marry. IMHO
So hookers seem a better path?
no its not pointless because getting engaged is not being married. the engagement time is precisely the time to really evaluate the relationship and make threads such as this. when youre married its too late.
Nah I like my girl better, hookers give me the creeps...
Yes she contributes equally so I guess it's 1-1.
What about love, I mean attention stuff like that?
To me engagement means you are ready for it. And a promising ring means I love you and I have good intentions with you!
wow, saibot, read the whole thread. pretty interesting comments. from what you have told me, you have your fun, yet still have your girl on the side. why ruin that now? "dont fix it if it aint broke". save the magic question for when you get caught cheating. thats like a final lifeline kinda thing. me? im never getting married
only uyou can know if marriage is smomething youwant to do for your own reasons. im engaged myself but i am 34 so i have had much more time than you to realize what i really want in a woman and in life. if i were you i wouldnt get marrie dbefore age 30 becauese hindsight is 20-20 but we are all different and i dont know your life story. all i know is i am very different at 34 than i was at 26.
mrplunkey
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Getting married to secure access to sex is like buying a 747 jetliner to secure access to those little packets of peanuts the flight attendants serve.
You've got a terrrrrrrible idea there. Huge mistake. Think Titanic x 1,000.
Here's a good way to do the calculation:
Take your "New Relationship" sex level (i.e. 8 times / week)
- After 1-2 years, divide by 2.0
- After marriage, divide by another 3.0
- After first kid, divide by another 3.0
- After second+ kid, divide by another 2.0
So let's say you'll be ok with having sex 2 times a week long-term. If you're planning on a wife and two kids, multiply that by: 2 x 2 x 3 x 3 x 2 = 36
So if you're getting it 36 times a week now, you should be all set.
I see... My story it's a bit complicated, basically I was with a girl for 6 years and we lived together for a bit, until things went bad and thank God I got to live a more fulfilling story, yet the issue of trusting women it's not my forte. I don't make a big deal out of it because I'm not jeaulous or stuff like that, but I do back off if I don't like something I see. Know what I mean?
I just look at my girl and I totally see her as the mother of my kids and I know she looks to me the same way!
Nah I don't cheat bro! How have you been? Long time, just checked your log, get better at it!
You will get married eventually!
calveless wonder
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lmao
Delinquent
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Make sure she really is the one that you can see yourself being with FOREVER. Things are gravy the first few years until kids come along. Once they pop up, the partying stops. Make sure you both have similar interests that will get you through the tough years while the kids are growing plus once they are out.
I can tell you from personal experience that a child will ruin a marriage if the relationship wasn't meant to be in the first place
I can tell you from personal experience that a child will ruin a marriage if the relationship wasn't meant to be in the first place
Nah I don't cheat bro! How have you been? Long time, just checked your log, get better at it!
You will get married eventually!
That's good that you don't cheat, i don't either. its been a while, how's life? must be good if you're thinking about getting married! my last "real" relationship was 2 years ago, got my heart broken, now im returning the favor to all the ladies. but thanks, i hope i can find someone ill trust and have fun spending time with. if you can spend your time evryday and every night with this girl, and you can see her being the mother of your children, then by all means, do it, she sounds like "the one".
She almost killed me for showing that pic... Yeah sure I have more pics, but none of them makes justice to her most valuable atributes, well maybe this one show a bit more of what I mean when I say she is the one.
*ebony*
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Dude, you have two little curtain climbers running around the house, trust me, neither of you will be all that interested in sex.
Half the time I think first marriages fail, ultimately, because of the kids. Kids fucking wear you down. The are the most demanding, exhausting, draining things ever invented. Why do you think the first thing rich people do is hire a nanny? So they can hand the kids off to her and get a break. If kids were all sunshine and smiles there would be no such things as au pairs and nannys.
Hi princesa, long time, how are you?Lol yeah, you would be surprised about the way I see life...
mrplunkey
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I was wondering where this thread went
Well we are still together and waiting for her parents to come so I can ask her to dad, you know old ways like... still sometimes and specially ON CYCLE doubts come to mind...
When you are in a committed relationship, your test levels drop. Just hold a baby (not even yours), and your free test levels drop even further. They drop so you'll chase wiminz less.
When you cycle, you disrupt that biological mechanism and feel less attached.
i;d love to be marrie, to find someone worthy of my last name.
so far no luck
pnt!
Razorguns
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In 10 or less years, when that hot piece of ass turns fat, has 3 kids, drives to soccer practice, face starts falling - are you still going to love her with ALL your heart???
If your only attraction to her is physical (and lots of young guy let's admit it, are whipped by a woman's beauty) then either don't get married, or feel free to join the marriage hell line, which has quite a bit line here on EF already
Marriage with the right person is great.
Marriage with the WRONG person is HELL.
And yes, EVERYONE when getting married believes they are in the first group. Which is why I never even waste any time even talking to them about it. What's the point. Be known as the guy "who talked him out of marrying her!". lol. I do not want chicks wearing wedding dresses coming at me with axes.
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*ebony*
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In 10 or less years, when that hot piece of ass turns fat, has 3 kids, drives to soccer practice, face starts falling - are you still going to love her with ALL your heart???
If your only attraction to her is physical (and lots of young guy let's admit it, are whipped by a woman's beauty) then either don't get married, or feel free to join the marriage hell line, which has quite a bit line here on EF already
Marriage with the right person is great.
Marriage with the WRONG person is HELL.
And yes, EVERYONE when getting married believes they are in the first group. Which is why I never even waste any time even talking to them about it. What's the point. Be known as the guy "who talked him out of marrying her!". lol. I do not want chicks wearing wedding dresses coming at me with axes.
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gosh...
other than that i agree with this dude!
P.S. are u sure she wants to? umm one my ex's asked me a couple years back......and it freaked me out(not the reaction i envisioned a marriage proposal would bring). after that incident, things went downhill pretty fast and it was all over within 2 months.
which brings me to a question for the guys in this thread. WTF is marriage material girl anyways? that ex described me as such and a few other guys say/said this and it freakin sounds like an insult truth be told, like stay at home obedient wifey type insult, that whole i am man, and your a mere woman insult!
thats all, end of rant. no more nice ebony. I'm going to kick the next dude's ballz and pepper spray him if he says i'm marriage material....if it sounds insulting.
gosh...
other than that i agree with this dude!
P.S. are u sure she wants to? umm one my ex's asked me a couple years back......and it freaked me out(not the reaction i envisioned a marriage proposal would bring). after that incident, things went downhill pretty fast and it was all over within 2 months.
which brings me to a question for the guys in this thread. WTF is marriage material girl anyways? that ex described me as such and a few other guys say/said this and it freakin sounds like an insult truth be told, like stay at home obedient wifey type insult, that whole i am man, and your a mere woman insult!
thats all, end of rant. no more nice ebony. I'm going to kick the next dude's ballz and pepper spray him if he says i'm marriage material....if it sounds insulting.
You must massage the taint
*ebony*
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OMG, i'd totally pepper spray you and kick you in the ballz, then i'd tie you up and rub onions in your eyes or something. umm what else, probably pour cayenne pepper down your throat.
...and you didn't even say anything about marriage. menz suck anywayz!
chewyxrage
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don't hit it raw dawg
OMG, i'd totally pepper spray you and kick you in the ballz, then i'd tie you up and rub onions in your eyes or something. umm what else, probably pour cayenne pepper down your throat.
...and you didn't even say anything about marriage. menz suck anywayz!
What's up with the aggression baby?
*ebony*
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i get a little aggressive when i can't sleep and its past my bedtime!
digimon7068
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What about you brah? When will you?
In 10 or less years, when that hot piece of ass turns fat, has 3 kids, drives to soccer practice, face starts falling - are you still going to love her with ALL your heart???
If your only attraction to her is physical (and lots of young guy let's admit it, are whipped by a woman's beauty) then either don't get married, or feel free to join the marriage hell line, which has quite a bit line here on EF already
Marriage with the right person is great.
Marriage with the WRONG person is HELL.
And yes, EVERYONE when getting married believes they are in the first group. Which is why I never even waste any time even talking to them about it. What's the point. Be known as the guy "who talked him out of marrying her!". lol. I do not want chicks wearing wedding dresses coming at me with axes.
r
At this point my atraction to her goes beyond physical aspects, must confess that I dated some hotties who had their valuable assets, but my current girlfriend let me just say that she satisfies my mind and I find her beautiful on the inside.
gosh...
other than that i agree with this dude!
P.S. are u sure she wants to? umm one my ex's asked me a couple years back......and it freaked me out(not the reaction i envisioned a marriage proposal would bring). after that incident, things went downhill pretty fast and it was all over within 2 months.
which brings me to a question for the guys in this thread. WTF is marriage material girl anyways? that ex described me as such and a few other guys say/said this and it freakin sounds like an insult truth be told, like stay at home obedient wifey type insult, that whole i am man, and your a mere woman insult!
thats all, end of rant. no more nice ebony. I'm going to kick the next dude's ballz and pepper spray him if he says i'm marriage material....if it sounds insulting.
To me "marriage material girl" it's the kind of girl that actually listen to you and you to her, you are totally hooked to all her aspects (physical, intelectual, spiritual etc) and you can actually see yourself spending the rest of your life with her, imagine her being the mother of your children, stuff like that. IMHO i don't see it as nothing bad and if a guy confesses that to you, it's because he has nothing but good feelings towards you, at least that's the only reason why I would say that to a girl
*ebony*
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To me "marriage material girl" it's the kind of girl that actually listen to you and you to her, you are totally hooked to all her aspects (physical, intelectual, spiritual etc) and you can actually see yourself spending the rest of your life with her, imagine her being the mother of your children, stuff like that. IMHO i don't see it as nothing bad and if a guy confesses that to you, it's because he has nothing but good feelings towards you, at least that's the only reason why I would say that to a girl
thats what i kinda thought too, which is why some of those statements are/were ridiculous. some people here on EF know me A LOT better than any of these guys ever will, so it was hard to take any of it to heart(i don't know why it sounds insulting at times, but it just did). i just concluded that it was a new pick up line or something.
anyways congrats. i have yet to cross paths with the person i'm going to ask to marry me.
thats what i kinda thought too, which is why some of those statements are/were ridiculous. some people here on EF know me A LOT better than any of these guys ever will, so it was hard to take any of it to heart(i don't know why it sounds insulting at times, but it just did). i just concluded that it was a new pick up line or something.
anyways congrats. i have yet to cross paths with the person i'm going to ask to marry me.
She was the one who asked me actually
I have came across who thought of my as a good man to be a good parent, one of them did told me that during sex and I swear I lost my "hardness" right on the spot
*ebony*
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She was the one who asked me actually
lol*make mental not not to say word father, parent during*
you can really lose tha "hardness" on the spot. all that really can deflate in an instant? hate for that to happen to me.
Well yeah the image in my mind was pretty disturbing
still was just for a few seconds and I got over it saying we should change the position, that gave me enough time to clear my head and get back to it 
