Look at how sorry nordstrom's dating life is

[calveless wonder]

Well i 'think' my reason is just fear women will laugh at me and talk about me behind my back. I think that is why i don't ask them out, i dont want to come to class some day and see a handful of girls I asked out the week before pointing at me and laughing.

i see...you're placing weighted emphasis on the outcome. Yep, you just need to change your perception and justify it.

Fact is, no group of people will ever laugh at you for asking a girl out. Girls get asked out all the time and MOST girls are usually very corteous about it. ocassionally you run into bitches, but that's the gamble you take sometimes.

you need to get these irrational thoughts out of your head and look at the reality of things.

You ask a girl out, she either says yes or no. She can either be polite or corteous or be a bitch about saying no. The latter is less likely if she's already in conversation with you. If she is a bitch, then you probably wouldnt want to date her anyways. that's a risk you assume


BTW i had the same problem sort of. I never wanted to put myself in a position where i'm open to criticism or whatever it my be (obviously by being rejected, this fits in that category). I never liked putting myself in any vulnerable position, so i never asked girls out. i always talked to them but never took that extra step.

Eventually i realized that my effort was going nowhere and i accepted the fact that i have to be at least somewhat vulnerable in order to get the girl and that rejection is natural.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Prostitutes

I would say that if someone is an old virgin, they probably had some sort of childhood trauma/brainwashing/ or have been mindfucked through their critical teen years. At that point, getting laid is the least of their worries, and getting a hooker just to lose their virginity would fuck their head up even more.
Sounds like a problem of just being misunderstood, and needing to be understood by the opposite sex before anything can ever happen.
Therein lies the problem; no one wants to hear other people's problems, so you have to fake being happy and hide all of your past-whatever the hell-you-went-through and in the process can never feel better about it.

Am I close or is that stretching it?

 

[UA_Iron]

If it makes you feel any better Nordstrom, I got some girl's number on friday night. But I could give it to you and you could pretend you were me and call her. I am already kinda seeing someone else.

 

[-SD-]

If it makes you feel any better Nordstrom, I got some girl's number on friday night. But I could give it to you and you could pretend you were me and call her. I am already kinda seeing someone else.

hahahahha, nice assist orb.

 

[UA_Iron]

hahahahha, nice assist orb.

I swear she's really cute too, brunette about 130lbs 5'7-5'8"

edit: forgot the most important part, big boobies and nice ass.

 

[vinylgroover]

That's what hookers are for Nord.

 

[Testosterone boy]

I swear she's really cute too, brunette about 130lbs 5'7-5'8"

edit: forgot the most important part, big boobies and nice ass.

I'll field this one orb.

 

[UA_Iron]

I'll field this one orb.

I'll expect some royalties, she's also 19 btw.

 

[BonerBoy]

I should just complete my conversations with women by saying 'do you want to meet some other time' but i don't. Maybe not asking them out shields me from the rejection. I don't know if its the rejection that bothers me per se, just the fear that women will think low of me for asking them out.

alcohol helps alot

I was in a slump when about your age (27 or 28?) and I ran ran a simple ad in the classifieds, it worked great, got my phone ringing and helped me get my game back on

I had some great times because I realized it was just about having fun

 

[danielson]

are you still big but running bf%'s of 25% etc....i felt the same as you, so i cut up, became more outgoing (i was fucking shyu before) and crucially didnt activly fixate on one woman but tried to do the bigger picture....and i ended up finding someone when i thought i never would or could and am happy with her...all fairly recently

if you feel your personality iisnt outgoing enough to reel em in, try cutting a bit, and then build up enough rappor with one to ask out, shit even try a friend

if not then just ask randoms out...shit i know its harsh to get knocked back but eventually one will agree, the rest are probably too superficial and bitch like to actually take a chance.

most women are cowards and genetically spineless when it comes to dating etc...thats why a lot (not all) will run for their boyfriend rather than try and argue themselves or expect the man to make all the moves...so fuck them if they say no



if not try the internet....worked for lots of people. dont go via this site though or you;ll have to let every person know and then when you break up there will be fall out which everyone will get to see. shit i wouldnt tell anyone about this site, let alone allow my SO to post on it