I picked up a bodybuilder in Venice a couple years ago and although professing to be straight, and probably thought he was, he would come over after work and before going home to his girlfriend [ even had the guts to call her from my apartment after we finished ***king]. After about 8 times, it got boring and I suggested, that since he liked taking it up the ass, that he let his girlfriend do it with a strap on. He got really pissed and upset: seemed to want only the real thing up his butt and from another guy.I figured it would help their relationship - broaden it, as it were. He would have no part in that. Found himself another fuck buddy instead. oh well....easy come, easy go.