Wow. You all can be brutal with each other. These threads are just everyones opinions of which I have many also. It can be toooooo big, the size shouldn't really matter, it does matter how a man uses it and what else he does to please you. There are many men out there who are into being pleased but are not into pleasing. When I am with a man I want it to be a two way street. I deserve to be pleased and you know I will do anything I can to please him. I will also let you know that I am a very emotional person so I put everything I have into everything I do, including bodybuilding. I would rather a man not tell me how well he is endowed, or not. That is something that if I decide to be with him should be experienced together. But, this is just my opinion. I love to read these threads because I really like to see what everyones opinion is. It gives us insight into others. Insight is a great thing.