I'm picky about who I sleep with anyway, and anal (for a woman) is THE most intimate act...the final frontier, shall we say.
I wasn't about to give that up to just anybody, so had turned down all offers up until I met my boyfriend.
We just click together so well in so many different ways - especially sexually. I trust him completely and he would never make me feel cheap or degraded for having anal sex - whish is what I think most women are afraid of and is the driving factor in what keeps them from "going there". Being relaxed and trusting who you're with is the key. You can't enjoy it if you're uneasy, self concious, or scared.
Anyway, anal is a common thing for us - I would say we have anal sex 4 out of every 5 times. My orgasms are completely different and very intense, and there's always more than one. oh, and I'm pretty sure he likes it too.