My husband tried it once barely went on there and I stop him because it hurt soo much! Since then I didn't want to do it,Seriously how do you some of you girls can handle that.
My husband tried it once barely went on there and I stop him because it hurt soo much! Since then I didn't want to do it,Seriously how do you some of you girls can handle that.
My wife and I have been together for 10 years. Im the only one she has done that with. At first she wasnt very open to it, but I got her to relax and was very gentle with her.
She likes it a lot now as long as Im gentle. Gotta make sure shes ready, and in the mood for it. Playing around with her while Im lickin her pussy drives her WILD. All I have to do when im ready for her to come pretty much is start slowly applying presure around, and then slowly inside her ass and it drives her over the edge damn near every time.
By basically just using my fingers while givin her oral sex, it opened her up to be more receptive to the idea of other objects being close to "that area" gradually over a few years. Now she loves it, and we partake in anal roughly once or twice a month.
Heaven forbid if we mess around and get on some recreational speed-based drugs... shes a FREAK then! lol.
My advice to any guy who wants to get a girl to open up this way. Get a few cocktails down, and let her relax. This isnt going to be an overnight process. Its going to take a while to get her comfortable with even considering the idea. Then how you execute is going to end up making or breaking the idea of it every being an option again in the future.
I'm picky about who I sleep with anyway, and anal (for a woman) is THE most intimate act...the final frontier, shall we say. I wasn't about to give that up to just anybody, so had turned down all offers up until I met my boyfriend.
We just click together so well in so many different ways - especially sexually. I trust him completely and he would never make me feel cheap or degraded for having anal sex - whish is what I think most women are afraid of and is the driving factor in what keeps them from "going there". Being relaxed and trusting who you're with is the key. You can't enjoy it if you're uneasy, self concious, or scared.
Anyway, anal is a common thing for us - I would say we have anal sex 4 out of every 5 times. My orgasms are completely different and very intense, and there's always more than one. oh, and I'm pretty sure he likes it too.