Kronk and Kronkette, question about threesomes

[p60]

Hey you two, I have a question which one or perhaps both of you can answer.

I've heard from a lot of different people that if you are in a serious relationship with somebody, that having a three-some with someone else is a bad idea, because there are good odds that your relationship wont last if you do.
I've heard this argument enough that I decided I would ask some people who have some real experience in this area, if that indeed could be true.

Now correct me if I'm wrong, but havent you two already had a few threesomes even though you're married? Did they cause any bad feelings at all?

What are the dangers involved with this? Why do people think that there is danger?

 

[BigRedCat]

I have been with my girl 3 years and we brought home a hottie right before X-mas. Fucked the hell outta both of them! SuperFreakyStyle!
We had fun but its not that big of a deal. Try it once, you might choose not too again. We decided that we would do it again but not with the same girl- she was knda slutty. Its all about your level of maturity and trust for each other. I am pretty much a wack job so if your half normal you could probably handle it. Has she been with women before? If not then dont do it. I thought I would be jelous or whatever but I really wasn't- you have to think like this: "My cock is amazing and I am the MAN!!" Know what I mean. That way you dont get psyched out by the 2 chicks that are NAKED in front of you. Nothing like getting a blowjob from 2 chicks at once!! Oh yeah!

You shouldn't do it with someone who either of you might really like personality wise. Keep it a girl that is not important too you. Know what I mean? That way there is no chance of a side relationship or anything along those lines.

 

[goliath.jr]

I could never do it. Just the thought of my wife with someone else before we even started dating breaks my heart.

 

[the_jarhead]

It’s all about how much you trust each other and jealousy. If either one of you are jealous in any way stay away from it. You also need to make sure you both understand what is ok and what isn’t going in to it. For instance for the most part my wife doesn’t like me to fuck other girls. I can eat all the pussy I want and she can suck me off but no penetration. So that is the rule and I’m cool with that and I don’t try cause I know it will make her uncomfortable. Now there have been times when in the heat of the moment she has told me to fuck this chick. But you have to be sure you are both comfortable.

I have seen 3somes ruin a relationship. Some people think it will be cool and then when they do it the thought of someone else with thier SO drives them insane. It is something you must really discuss and make sure you know that there could be bad consequences.

I the end we both know we love each other more than anything and it’s just like bringing toys to the bedroom for us. Only these toys breathe.

 

[TEXgrl]

it is about trust, thats for sure, and you BOTH have to really want it, not just one person wanting it and the other just trying to make the other happy, you should definitely discuss what is ok and not ok before hand, and definitely do it with someone you won't be seeing all the time, unless jealousy wouldn't be a problem.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

I think it's a crapshoot at best. Things can get complicated very fast. You need to decide whether the thrill is worth the potential complications; whether there are potential complications, etc... Regardless of love for one another, you wont *truly* know if it's harmful until you've been through it though. Some people are cool with it, some aren't.

Like said above, make sure both people want it equally, protect the feelings of your partner (and likewise); have a clear-cut way to extract yourself from the situation if things get weird; don't involve friends or people you know.

 

[TEXgrl]

have a clear-cut way to extract yourself from the situation if things get weird; don't involve friends or people you know.

always be on neutral ground somewhere so no one feels any pressure, like things have gone too far to stop

 

[guards]

Playing with fire if you ask me.....has to be a LOT if serious discussion before ANYTHING took place.

My 2 cc's

 

[Puddles]

3-somes can be outrageously fun! The only words of caution I can offer is to treat them like a desert...something good to enjoy once in a while...like a special treat to yourselves.

 

[TEXgrl]

3-somes can be outrageously fun! The only words of caution I can offer is to treat them like a desert...something good to enjoy once in a while...like a special treat to yourselves.

hehe, best off all its fat free, LMAO!!!