Kronk and Kronkette, question about threesomes

[p60]

Hey you two, I have a question which one or perhaps both of you can answer.

I've heard from a lot of different people that if you are in a serious relationship with somebody, that having a three-some with someone else is a bad idea, because there are good odds that your relationship wont last if you do.
I've heard this argument enough that I decided I would ask some people who have some real experience in this area, if that indeed could be true.

Now correct me if I'm wrong, but havent you two already had a few threesomes even though you're married? Did they cause any bad feelings at all?

What are the dangers involved with this? Why do people think that there is danger?

 

[BigRedCat]

I have been with my girl 3 years and we brought home a hottie right before X-mas. Fucked the hell outta both of them! SuperFreakyStyle!
We had fun but its not that big of a deal. Try it once, you might choose not too again. We decided that we would do it again but not with the same girl- she was knda slutty. Its all about your level of maturity and trust for each other. I am pretty much a wack job so if your half normal you could probably handle it. Has she been with women before? If not then dont do it. I thought I would be jelous or whatever but I really wasn't- you have to think like this: "My cock is amazing and I am the MAN!!" Know what I mean. That way you dont get psyched out by the 2 chicks that are NAKED in front of you. Nothing like getting a blowjob from 2 chicks at once!! Oh yeah!

You shouldn't do it with someone who either of you might really like personality wise. Keep it a girl that is not important too you. Know what I mean? That way there is no chance of a side relationship or anything along those lines.

 

[goliath.jr]

I could never do it. Just the thought of my wife with someone else before we even started dating breaks my heart.

 

[the_jarhead]

It’s all about how much you trust each other and jealousy. If either one of you are jealous in any way stay away from it. You also need to make sure you both understand what is ok and what isn’t going in to it. For instance for the most part my wife doesn’t like me to fuck other girls. I can eat all the pussy I want and she can suck me off but no penetration. So that is the rule and I’m cool with that and I don’t try cause I know it will make her uncomfortable. Now there have been times when in the heat of the moment she has told me to fuck this chick. But you have to be sure you are both comfortable.

I have seen 3somes ruin a relationship. Some people think it will be cool and then when they do it the thought of someone else with thier SO drives them insane. It is something you must really discuss and make sure you know that there could be bad consequences.

I the end we both know we love each other more than anything and it’s just like bringing toys to the bedroom for us. Only these toys breathe.

 

[TEXgrl]

it is about trust, thats for sure, and you BOTH have to really want it, not just one person wanting it and the other just trying to make the other happy, you should definitely discuss what is ok and not ok before hand, and definitely do it with someone you won't be seeing all the time, unless jealousy wouldn't be a problem.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

I think it's a crapshoot at best. Things can get complicated very fast. You need to decide whether the thrill is worth the potential complications; whether there are potential complications, etc... Regardless of love for one another, you wont *truly* know if it's harmful until you've been through it though. Some people are cool with it, some aren't.

Like said above, make sure both people want it equally, protect the feelings of your partner (and likewise); have a clear-cut way to extract yourself from the situation if things get weird; don't involve friends or people you know.

 

[TEXgrl]

have a clear-cut way to extract yourself from the situation if things get weird; don't involve friends or people you know.

always be on neutral ground somewhere so no one feels any pressure, like things have gone too far to stop

 

[guards]

Playing with fire if you ask me.....has to be a LOT if serious discussion before ANYTHING took place.

My 2 cc's

 

[Puddles]

3-somes can be outrageously fun! The only words of caution I can offer is to treat them like a desert...something good to enjoy once in a while...like a special treat to yourselves.

 

[TEXgrl]

3-somes can be outrageously fun! The only words of caution I can offer is to treat them like a desert...something good to enjoy once in a while...like a special treat to yourselves.

hehe, best off all its fat free, LMAO!!!

 

[Puddles]

hehe, best off all its fat free, LMAO!!!

And of course...LOADED with protein! Yummmm!!!

 

[Puddles]

3-somes...the answer to all of your fitness dillema's.

 

[Friscochick]

Its whats for dinner....

LOL!

 

[Ffactor]

Have these threesomes been 2 girls one guy or 2 guys and 1 girl. I have no problems being with two girls but seeing a guy naked in the same room is a total turnoff.

 

[Ffactor]

Interesting how women are more open to bi-sexual experiences!

 

[p60]

kronk and kronkette,

I am curious to know what your views are on premarital sex, and when its okay. It seems to me that you would have to agree with premarital sex (either intercourse, oral, hands, whatever) in order to also agree with having three somes.

Hmmm are sex and love related at all? Some people think they are, others not. Some think the meaning behind sex is to save it just for the person you are currently with, while some think the meaning is to save it for 1 person period.

Why does God say that sex is better to be left completely in the confines of marriage? If anyone knows the answers it would seem that he'd be the one, but I just have a hard time seeing it from his view.
But at the same time I'm paranoid that he may be right, so I'm hesitant to do anything sexual with a girl until I know for sure she's the one.

Having faith in God and being obediant to him is definately not easy.

 

[p60]

heh, did this thread die?

kronk, kronkette, any answers to my new questions?

 

[Serenity Head]

p60, I would agree with your hesitation because I had the same exact one. I am religious and I am a firm believer that you should be committed to one person for several reasons:
I don't think that having sex prior to marriage(which I don't consider to be the state marriage license, but I believe having sex is the unification of 2 into one) or with multiple partners is right but I do believe it is forgivable. However I believe that consequences come with those decision. (For example STD's, future relational problems, and you or your partner worry about being as good as your prevous partner.)

I believe Kronk and Kronkette Have the same union me and my fiance do, but they are able to just have sex...so they can leave it at that. I on the other hand can't separate love and sex. Both me and my fiance know that in the end jealousy would prevail and niether of us would do that to each other, just as I am sure Kronk and Kronkette wouldn't have threesomes if it put distance between them.

As far as other sexual aspects of relationships go as far as you would want your future partner for life to go with their boyfriend. I knew from early on that I only wanted one partner for life, and I didn't want my wife to have had other partners as well. So I chose to stop at touching my girlfriends. Once I found the one I knew I wanted to be with I made sure to take it extra slow and over time we were madly in love and closer than ever. At that point sex was able to bring us together. Our relationship didn't start with sex and if my dick fell off it wouldn't end over sex. She is so good to me and I am so happy I waited. But I must say I am happy it was truly her...You have to get past the point of infatuation or you can never know whether the person is right for you. Bro, to be honest take our time because once you go there you can't come back. I you don't mind an experienced wife then you shouldn't worry, but if you want to give her all of her experience then save it for her.

I must say the fear of STD's was a big factor as well for me.

And I must say I am happy to here Kronk isn't a switch hitter. Male bis are the only ones that piss me off. They are the reason that HIV is prevelant in the straight community. I was watching VH1 and they had a special on men that are gay in the closet. They keep secret boyfriends and don't tell their girls about it. They get aids, the chick has no idea and goes and does five guys that go and give it to 10 girls adn on and on and on....I hate they scewed up everything. Most STDs aren't bad, but I do believe it is a type of punishment for disobedience. I believe HIV was the gay punishment for diobedience and became everyones punishment for polygomy. By the way I am not homophobic in any way, I simply believe that there are ramifications for certain lifestyles. Plus it doesn't help that the average gay male has over 1000 partners in his lifetime.

Well enough rambling...Just my experience in life this far!

 

[Ffactor]

I wonder if any of the ladies here have been with two guys!