p60, I would agree with your hesitation because I had the same exact one. I am religious and I am a firm believer that you should be committed to one person for several reasons:
I don't think that having sex prior to marriage(which I don't consider to be the state marriage license, but I believe having sex is the unification of 2 into one) or with multiple partners is right but I do believe it is forgivable. However I believe that consequences come with those decision. (For example STD's, future relational problems, and you or your partner worry about being as good as your prevous partner.)
I believe Kronk and Kronkette Have the same union me and my fiance do, but they are able to just have sex...so they can leave it at that. I on the other hand can't separate love and sex. Both me and my fiance know that in the end jealousy would prevail and niether of us would do that to each other, just as I am sure Kronk and Kronkette wouldn't have threesomes if it put distance between them.
As far as other sexual aspects of relationships go as far as you would want your future partner for life to go with their boyfriend. I knew from early on that I only wanted one partner for life, and I didn't want my wife to have had other partners as well. So I chose to stop at touching my girlfriends. Once I found the one I knew I wanted to be with I made sure to take it extra slow and over time we were madly in love and closer than ever. At that point sex was able to bring us together. Our relationship didn't start with sex and if my dick fell off it wouldn't end over sex. She is so good to me and I am so happy I waited. But I must say I am happy it was truly her...You have to get past the point of infatuation or you can never know whether the person is right for you. Bro, to be honest take our time because once you go there you can't come back. I you don't mind an experienced wife then you shouldn't worry, but if you want to give her all of her experience then save it for her.
I must say the fear of STD's was a big factor as well for me.
And I must say I am happy to here Kronk isn't a switch hitter. Male bis are the only ones that piss me off. They are the reason that HIV is prevelant in the straight community. I was watching VH1 and they had a special on men that are gay in the closet. They keep secret boyfriends and don't tell their girls about it. They get aids, the chick has no idea and goes and does five guys that go and give it to 10 girls adn on and on and on....I hate they scewed up everything. Most STDs aren't bad, but I do believe it is a type of punishment for disobedience. I believe HIV was the gay punishment for diobedience and became everyones punishment for polygomy. By the way I am not homophobic in any way, I simply believe that there are ramifications for certain lifestyles. Plus it doesn't help that the average gay male has over 1000 partners in his lifetime.
Well enough rambling...Just my experience in life this far!