Ive never had sex with a Virgin.

[HYOOGEMOFO]

I havent had sex with a virgin either, and what is sad i dotn think that I'll find a virgin

 

[KBgrl]

i "devirginized" a guy once.... and it was ---- ummmm, nothin to write home about.

 

[Mandinka]

Buksoon

Buk ,
Is you being a virgin a turn-off ? Hell no girl but I'll put it to ya like this. Whenever men and women meet in social gatherings and sex ensues , it's always the woman who GIVES herself to the man , otherwise we commonly refer to the act as rape i.e. the man has taken the woman.
The fact that you have never given yourself makes you precious , I don't consider Jess Simpson to be the most insightful of social observers , but she was right on the money when she said that this was the greatest gift she could give her future husband.
Not that I'm advocating that you wait that long , but if I was ever going to be with a virgin I gotta ask myslef a few questions first:
1. Do I care about this person?
2. Am I gonna take care of this person after the act (cos it's a big step make no mistake), and if she ever needs me , be prepared to help her and comfort her.
3.Do I deserve this gift - Am I worthy of it?

The answers all gotta be in the positive - so if I blew you off , then it would be because I didn't think I was ready to make the kind of commitment that SHOULD come with that responsibility.
The fact that you made it this far makes you special , make no mistake.

 

[Adaptek]

I can not believe I'm posting this... I confess this to no one.

But I am one of these older female virgins (28). I am totally paranoid that men will find this repellent (Is she frigid? Why did no guy prior to me ever want her? Will I fit in her hole? Dude, will there be cobwebs down there?)

None of the above. I'm just shy, okay? I see a guy who is beautiful and virile and smart and funny and nice and just get fuckin' bashful, okay? Start shaking and everything.

If I'd been sexualized earlier (as a teen), I'm sure I'd be fucking up a storm now. But since I waited this long, the waiting becomes easier.

Anyway, my question is: Is this really such a turn-off? All opinions welcome, thanks.

Do you have a Hymen to prove you are still a virgin? If not, no one is going to believe you anyway.

But what you have done is admirable. I know a girl who is 22 and a virgin and wants me to take her virginity but i will not do it, because i do not like her that way. Also i know if i hit it she will not leave me alone and pester me and I really dont want to have to HIT & RUN but that girl is a pest. So I have opted not to hit it, so she cannot say I owe her something and make my life a living hell.

 

[buksoon]

Adaptek,

Probably smart then, to let some other guy have the honors. Especially if you don't appeciate her. You're doing a good thing.

Also: I'm not sure another virgin (I can only speak for myself here) would want her first to be with a guy who refers to the act as "hitting it."

Um, hitting what ?

 

[Hotdad]

Been there done that..not worth it. They do experience pain and don't relax and get into it so it's really no fun..I prefer a woman who knows how to fuck like crazy and is experienced enough to be over the shyness and will scream and get after it. Bring me a expert and lets get it on....I think that it should also be equal standards for guys and women...Are you a virgin?..No..then don't want what you can't give.