Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below I have been with 2 virgins and it isnt a picnic....trust me. The first time you even attempt to do anything it takes about 2 hours just to get the tip in (if you care about the girl, then you go gentle), once you get that in.....you just leave it there until she says it hurts too much. My last g/f was a virgin, and it took four 2 hour sex sessions before I could even fuck normal. Hopefully I dont have to go through all that again with my next g/f.
Ive never had sex with a Virgin.
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dragon, how old were these girls
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That's jealousy pure and simple. I hope you can get over it, or its gonna be a tough relationship. "my women" ??? Oh good lord.... She's not with the other guys any more. She's with you. I'm not exactly sure why, but she is.
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That's jealousy pure and simple. I hope you can get over it, or its gonna be a tough relationship. "my women" ??? Oh good lord.... She's not with the other guys any more. She's with you. I'm not exactly sure why, but she is.
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I do agree with some of what Kingkong is saying. I feel the same as you bro. A number of my g/f's exes are guys she knew in high school or just afterwards and she's lived in the same city since junior high. Sometimes we see one or two of these guys when we go out and it pisses me off. I can't help but think that this guy standing over there has screwed my girlfriend...then I get pissed off even more and part of me wants to kick the living shit out of him. Most women just don't understand that feeling and say we're being possessive or jealous or whatever. Maybe territorial is better, and most every species of male has this natural instinct.
I know my g/f wouldn't like it either if one of my exes was around. I just can't help getting this mental picture in my head...makes me physically sick at my stomach and I want to kill the mofo. 
OK, so maybe I have a problem, but I think there are lots of guys out there that would feel the same way.
Frackal knows what I mean...
I wish my girl hadn't been with as many other guys as she has...probably a lot of us guys do, and women may wish their man wouldn't have been with as many other women (if they're telling the truth!). I just deal with it, try to tell myself it's in the past so let it be. But that doesn't keep me from disliking it.
Like someone said above, if women didn't fall for some asshole guys advances and pleas for sex when they were 15 or 16 or whatever, then maybe all this shit wouldn't be such a pain. I've known other girls who have "done it" when they were freshmen or sophomores in high school because some guy said "I love you" or whatever, then he screwed 'em and left. That royally fucks up some chicks, then they don't give a damn so go on through college screwing their brains out until they finally meet someone they want to marry and end up having been with like 15-25 people.
Like Mandika said, "I think you'll find that being promiscuous has little to do with actual quantity of sex and a lot to do with the quantity of sexual partners." You can have lots of sex without having lots of sexual partners. Though, back to the point of this thread, there's something to be said for a tight (not virgin) pussy.
And when you've had tons of guys ramming their rod in the same girl, that shit ain't gonna be tight when she finds a man she wants to marry. Guys, on the other hand, don't have any significant physical change from the same activity. Just something to consider....
I disagree. Maybe he offended by saying "my women", but don't women refer to their boyfriends as "my boyfriend" or "my man". Everyone has at least a touch of possessiveness with their significant other (if you have one).jja said:
I do agree with some of what Kingkong is saying. I feel the same as you bro. A number of my g/f's exes are guys she knew in high school or just afterwards and she's lived in the same city since junior high. Sometimes we see one or two of these guys when we go out and it pisses me off. I can't help but think that this guy standing over there has screwed my girlfriend...then I get pissed off even more and part of me wants to kick the living shit out of him. Most women just don't understand that feeling and say we're being possessive or jealous or whatever. Maybe territorial is better, and most every species of male has this natural instinct.
I know my g/f wouldn't like it either if one of my exes was around. I just can't help getting this mental picture in my head...makes me physically sick at my stomach and I want to kill the mofo. OK, so maybe I have a problem, but I think there are lots of guys out there that would feel the same way.Frackal knows what I mean...
I wish my girl hadn't been with as many other guys as she has...probably a lot of us guys do, and women may wish their man wouldn't have been with as many other women (if they're telling the truth!). I just deal with it, try to tell myself it's in the past so let it be. But that doesn't keep me from disliking it.
Like someone said above, if women didn't fall for some asshole guys advances and pleas for sex when they were 15 or 16 or whatever, then maybe all this shit wouldn't be such a pain. I've known other girls who have "done it" when they were freshmen or sophomores in high school because some guy said "I love you" or whatever, then he screwed 'em and left. That royally fucks up some chicks, then they don't give a damn so go on through college screwing their brains out until they finally meet someone they want to marry and end up having been with like 15-25 people.
Like Mandika said, "I think you'll find that being promiscuous has little to do with actual quantity of sex and a lot to do with the quantity of sexual partners." You can have lots of sex without having lots of sexual partners. Though, back to the point of this thread, there's something to be said for a tight (not virgin) pussy.
And when you've had tons of guys ramming their rod in the same girl, that shit ain't gonna be tight when she finds a man she wants to marry. Guys, on the other hand, don't have any significant physical change from the same activity. Just something to consider....Just wanted to chime in with my other jealous and raging brothers. Every time I think about my girlfriend with another dude I see fucking red . I'm always mystified when that thought doesn't bother people. My friend's girl has been with @ 22 guys, and he tells me it honestly doesn't bother him. To each his own.
. I'm always mystified when that thought doesn't bother people. My friend's girl has been with @ 22 guys, and he tells me it honestly doesn't bother him. To each his own.
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Jax you may not admit it but its all about confidence.....if you are obsessed with how many lovers your woman has had you are always thinking "were any of them better" or "did she ever have any bigger than mine" . Its all bullshit....first I WANT my woman to have been a whore, no training needed and she can usually fuck like a minx. Second its a massive ego trip to KNOW your better than all those guys before you. I mean what do you want some puritan who thinks sex is for breeding only (about 80% of women sadly) or a women who simply loves sex and gives you as much as you want? Sorry to say if a women is a prude and she suddenlt becomes a slut for YOU.........well its called "I want a husband". When that wedding cake is cut the prude comes back. Two divorces already I should know.......*sigh*
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I can not believe I'm posting this... I confess this to no one.
But I am one of these older female virgins (28). I am totally paranoid that men will find this repellent (Is she frigid? Why did no guy prior to me ever want her? Will I fit in her hole? Dude, will there be cobwebs down there?)
None of the above. I'm just shy, okay? I see a guy who is beautiful and virile and smart and funny and nice and just get fuckin' bashful, okay? Start shaking and everything.
If I'd been sexualized earlier (as a teen), I'm sure I'd be fucking up a storm now. But since I waited this long, the waiting becomes easier.
Anyway, my question is: Is this really such a turn-off? All opinions welcome, thanks.
But I am one of these older female virgins (28). I am totally paranoid that men will find this repellent (Is she frigid? Why did no guy prior to me ever want her? Will I fit in her hole? Dude, will there be cobwebs down there?)
None of the above. I'm just shy, okay? I see a guy who is beautiful and virile and smart and funny and nice and just get fuckin' bashful, okay? Start shaking and everything.
If I'd been sexualized earlier (as a teen), I'm sure I'd be fucking up a storm now. But since I waited this long, the waiting becomes easier.
Anyway, my question is: Is this really such a turn-off? All opinions welcome, thanks.
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