Is my wife using the legal system to leverage me for money in our divorce is similar to a drug dealer calling the cops when he gets robbed?

[p0ink]

maybe if you knew more about VPN's you could be making more money, jh1.

 

[jh1]

maybe if you knew more about VPN's you could be making more money, jh1.

Sush.... I PWN VPNS...


(Whatever a V.P.N. is...)

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Is my wife using the legal system to leverage me for money in our divorce is simi

i think you should get out of law. you just arent mean and cut-throat enough.

that thing called a conscience must get in the way of things.

LOL...certainly sometimes it does. I'm trying to get a job as a legal editor at the moment, contributing and editing legal education materials for the general public. That is right down my alley. I would love it.

 

[heatherrae]

Probably so... it's all one step at a time. We don't go directly to court from here... we are going to submit our counter offers etc. But I will use every leverage, every bargaining chip I have to get this to be just... for my daughter, for me.

Yeah.. control...sure. I'l admit that. I want control over my income and what it gets spent on. I don't think I should have to buy coke for some whore (unless I want to, LMAO!), clothes from BeBe or anything else that isn't directly in SUPPORT of my daughter. That's horseshit. I am the earner.. I *EARNED* this money... it's MINE... not hers. So yeah... I have serious issues with someone else indiscriminately being able to blow my money... get it... blow? Anyway... again, this isn't about not paying legitimate amounts of child support - this is about excess and enablement.

Fortunately, my daughter is very young - under 2. It's still all very unfortunate for her, but at least she won't remember this... that's the bright side... I suppose.

You don't think it will cost your sife to feed the child, clothe her, send her to school, etc. I support child support laws, in the fullest.

 

[p0ink]

jh1, shit...just follow your ex to the bars, take some photos/video, and compile evidence for the next few weeks.

then take it to court.

 

[jh1]

You don't think it will cost your sife to feed the child, clothe her, send her to school, etc. I support child support laws, in the fullest.

Where are you coming from?

Are you reading that I have said I know and agree with child support? I have said it in every post. I am simply saying the amount she is requesting is excessive in any case.

In this case not only is it excessive, it is dangerous. She has a drug problem. Do you think I should finance her drug habits? I want her to get help, I want her to be forced to get clean, I want her to be part of her child's life and I am willing to make sure my daguther has everything she needs wether she is with me or with her mother - but I don't think it's a good idea to put lifestyle changing amounts of money into a person's hands that has a daugther to take care of and is / will be recovering from an addiction that she obviously has very little control over.

How does that equate to not wanting my daughter to eat?

WTF? Seriously. Where did I say I want my daughter to starve when she is with her mother just to get mom back?

 

[heatherrae]

Where are you coming from?

Are you reading that I have said I know and agree with child support? I have said it in every post. I am simply saying the amount she is requesting is excessive in any case.

In this case not only is it excessive, it is dangerous. She has a drug problem. Do you think I should finance her drug habits? I want her to get help, I want her to be forced to get clean, I want her to be part of her child's life and I am willing to make sure my daguther has everything she needs wether she is with me or with her mother - but I don't think it's a good idea to put lifestyle changing amounts of money into a person's hands that has a daugther to take care of and is / will be recovering from an addiction that she obviously has very little control over.

How does that equate to not wanting my daughter to eat?

WTF? Seriously. Where did I say I want my daughter to starve when she is with her mother just to get mom back?

Like I said before, I don't really think that her drug use is your issue. I think control is. If you really think she was going to do blow off your daughter's bassinet, you would be fighting like hell for custody of your daughter. Mom would still get visits with daughter and it would give her a chance to get clean.

I'm not trying to fight with you, because you are generally a good guy, but I just think your emotions are overwhelming your reason.

 

[jestro]

I dont know what the hell is going on here. She has a drug habit, and yet you don't think it's a good idea to try to get custody?

 

[jh1]

You don't think it will cost your sife to feed the child, clothe her, send her to school, etc. I support child support laws, in the fullest.

Do you support the law that requires a parent that makes 30% of the income to pay the parent that makes 70% of the income even with custody is split 50/50?

Is that a child support law in function, or simply by name?

Do you support *THAT* law?

Just curious. You seem to blindly support any law labeled child support without even really knowing the efffect it has on the parties involved, or if the outcome is even beneficial to the support of the child.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

blood sucking vampire, vulture, spawn of satan, leeches. woman = destroyer of man. they won't be happy until we are all dead.