Is my wife using the legal system to leverage me for money in our divorce is similar to a drug dealer calling the cops when he gets robbed?

[Sassy69]

And again... if she ever tries to threaten criminal prosecution to gain leverage in a civil matter just call her out on it in front of her lawyer. That should send her attorney into a tailspin.

It is so hard to take your very informative posts seriously when I look over to see who posted all this intelligence and it turns out it's Richard Simmons...

 

[Bikini Mod]

Oh please... Do you still get to take an active role in parenting your daughter? Then
man up and stop whining like a bitch. It is only money. Get a fuckin grip.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Oh please... Do you still get to take an active role in parenting your daughter? Then
man up and stop whining like a bitch. It is only money. Get a fuckin grip.

lol biki mom i love u

 

[heatherrae]

Pretty stupid to try to use the legal system against me when you know that 'legal system' is going to turn around and stomp your ass? Ya think?

How is she using it against you? Isn't she just asking for the statutorily set amount of child support? Or is it something else?

 

[Big Rick Rock]

Re: Is my wife using the legal system to leverage me for money in our divorce is simi

Women love better and they hate better.




-BRR

 

[mrplunkey]

It is so hard to take your very informative posts seriously when I look over to see who posted all this intelligence and it turns out it's Richard Simmons...

But Richard is the man!

He's not gay, you know. Just ask Pick3 -- those types can identify each other.

 

[jh1]

How is she using it against you? Isn't she just asking for the statutorily set amount of child support? Or is it something else?

She is asking for the statutory amount... which is completely inflated and although I would have custody (based on her proposal) 50% of the time, I would only get 34% reduction in the amount I would pay, and there are some other math tricks that both sides can do...

Assuming it was 100% the statutory amount - she is still using the legal system to try to force me to pay her an amount of of money. She is seeking the assistance of a legal system that she is herself running very afoul of... it is going to backfire on her.

Same as a drug dealer that calls the cops when someone steals his stash. He may have very well have been stolen from, but it's generally not going to be a good idea to involve the people directly in a situation when they are simply going to end up busting you.

 

[youngguns]

I don't ever want to get divorced

 

[Turd Ferguson]

Do you have 'WELCOME" stamped on your chest?

Just wondering...

Maybe, but when it is said and done I bet your settlement is close to what mine is with regard to child support and asset division. Sure I may be getting screwed out of 10k but in the long run if I fight I would pay that to the lawyer. So it's a wash. I'm going to get to see my kid whenever I want and will be o.k. from a dollar's and cents perspective.

Plus I don't have to live through all the aggrivation your going through right now. It's science my frined. Not about getting emotional retribution.

 

[Turd Ferguson]

I don't ever want to get divorced

... You sure don't partner. It is the worst thing I have ever been though. Divorce=the suck.