Is it weird to jack off before sex so you can last longer in bed?

[heatherrae]

I usually guestimate how they like sex just by the way they start kissing and touching me in the being. Like if a girl seems shy and self-conscious i'll go slow with her---or if the girl is a bighter and won't let go of me I'll be pulling on her hair and tossing her around.

Maybe this is bad because some shy girls tend to be the freaks in bed...?

Oh, to be 22 again. Gymgurl, you want to enlighten him?

 

[needtogetaas]

hell no.

 

[Gymgurl]

Oh, to be 22 again. Gymgurl, you want to enlighten him?

HA....I think we let him wait a few years and then he'll think OH that is what they were talking about.......Its all in the quality

 

[tonyroma]

HA....I think we let him wait a few years and then he'll think OH that is what they were talking about.......Its all in the quality

So basically you guys are saying that my mindset about this is all messed up?? Am I wrong though, about my guestimations? Hell i'm not gunna ask her if she prefers it in the ass on the first night?

 

[heatherrae]

HA....I think we let him wait a few years and then he'll think OH that is what they were talking about.......Its all in the quality

Some guys never figure it out. I know one like that. He will go on and on for a decade doing what feels good to HIM. In the meantime, hand me the remote control and the TV guide and move your head a little to the right, buddy....lol.

 

[tonyroma]

Some guys never figure it out. I know one like that. He will go on and on for a decade doing what feels good to HIM. In the meantime, hand me the remote control and the TV guide and move your head a little to the right, buddy....lol.

For example, like i'll hear the girl that night say a comment like this^^^ to her friend. From their I usually start to build a journal on how she likes it. I'm not trying to sound like an ass, but like I said most of the girls I sleep with I meet them the night before if not that same night. So point in being, I don't have enough time/info to really learn about the girls pleasures without sounding like a perv to her.

 

[heatherrae]

For example, like i'll hear the girl that night say a comment like this^^^ to her friend. From their I usually start to build a journal on how she likes it. I'm not trying to sound like an ass, but like I said most of the girls I sleep with I meet them the night before if not that same night. So point in being, I don't have enough time/info to really learn about the girls pleasures without sounding like a perv to her.

Well, just don't expect to please everyone that way. It's impossible to please everyone unless you get to know their likes and dislikes. Occassionally you may get a home run just because your likes and dislikes happen to be very similar.

 

[redsamurai]

I was just going to say that....Some men go on way to long and it is boring because they are all about themself or they just don't know how ot make it fun...

hmmmm....how about talking to him?? Wouldn't you rather have a guy that has stamina and be able to teach him what feels good to you.......so not only does it last long, it feels good too?? And what about you girls?? Nary a mention in this thread about what y'all are doing to make "him" feel good too..........


I take it you girls don't like to take charge much huh??

 

[heatherrae]

hmmmm....how about talking to him?? Wouldn't you rather have a guy that has stamina and be able to teach him what feels good to you.......so not only does it last long, it feels good too?? And what about you girls?? Nary a mention in this thread about what y'all are doing to make "him" feel good too..........


I take it you girls don't like to take charge much huh??

No, wrong, but the thread wasn't about us. It was about males. lol.


To answer your question, if a guy is really good, it doesn't take three hours. There is a bell curve -- feels good, feels even better, feels great, orgasm, perhaps more orgasms, feeling less great, tolerable, enough already, come on and get off of me, pass the remote if you are not going to get off of me.

A smart guy wraps it up soon after the girl stops having orgasms.

 

[redsamurai]

No, wrong, but the thread wasn't about us. It was about males. lol.


To answer your question, if a guy is really good, it doesn't take three hours. There is a bell curve -- feels good, feels even better, feels great, orgasm, perhaps more orgasms, feeling less great, tolerable, enough already, come on and get off of me, pass the remote if you are not going to get off of me.

A smart guy wraps it up soon after the girl stops having orgasms.

well of course.......but you girls also have to let him know you're done. When we get in the zone we want to see your eyeballs bulge out and your body go into involuntary spasms from the might of our thrusting.......it's just genetic, so roll with it. I liken it to what ceasar milan does to dogs........he'll swat em right underneath the jawline to get em to refocus......so try it next time........also, make a "tsstt" sound when you do it. This should bring the male back into focus for a brief second and then you can let him know you're done..................got it???