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Is it weird to jack off before sex so you can last longer in bed?

tonyroma

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Alright first off i'm 22 and my sex drive is in its prime form. I'm a bartender at a very large college town and meet many new women often. I'm not one for commitment so without bragging I can say that I slept with alot of girls. Anyways, when I meet a new girl that I suspect I will have sex with that night, I will find a way to masterbate that day prior to meeting up with her. I simply do this for a few reasons, 1. I want to impress her by my stamina 2. If i'm a good fuck she'll tell her friends 3. She'll keep coming back for more if the sex was long and wild. <<<<< is this a weird habit or can anyone relate?
 
I've always been good at controlling my orgasm, so I never saw the point. If I thought it was coming on too strong, I just pulled out and started eating her out. I actually found that hard pounding desensitized my cock a bit.....so if I could get over that hump, it was smooth sailing for hours!! And then of course when I finally do come after all that time......the orgasm is mind numbing...... :)
 
Focus on giving her quality instead of so much quantity. Sometimes men go overboard trying to last a long time, and it gets boring.
 
heatherrae said:
Focus on giving her quality instead of so much quantity. Sometimes men go overboard trying to last a long time, and it gets boring.

quantity??..... meaning rythm? positions? foreplay?
 
tonyroma said:
quantity??..... meaning rythm? positions? foreplay?
No, I'm telling you that if you keep on going on forever and ever just for the sake of trying to impress someone it can get boring. Just focus on being a good lover. A big part of that is getting to know someone's likes and dislikes, though, so you may be out of luck since it sounds like you mainly have one nighters.
 
heatherrae said:
No, I'm telling you that if you keep on going on forever and ever just for the sake of trying to impress someone it can get boring. Just focus on being a good lover. A big part of that is getting to know someone's likes and dislikes, though, so you may be out of luck since it sounds like you mainly have one nighters.

Well see, the girls down at my school really don't want boyfriends either because everyones so focussed on classes that a relationship would just get in the way. (at least the ones I hang with). And my school is in the middle of the boon's and the only thing to do is go to bars, making dating boring. I understand what you mean by getting to know the girls style for better romance. Maybe I should start taking that route, but its not like these girls really want to know me either..... really though.
 
tonyroma said:
Well see, the girls down at my school really don't want boyfriends either because everyones so focussed on classes that a relationship would just get in the way. (at least the ones I hang with). And my school is in the middle of the boon's and the only thing to do is go to bars, making dating boring. I understand what you mean by getting to know the girls style for better romance. Maybe I should start taking that route, but its not like these girls really want to know me either..... really though.
I'm talking about getting to know their sexual preferences. I'm not a televangelist giving you abstinence until marriage speech...lol.
 
in my 20's and 30's....yes i also did this.




not now, though.....
 
heatherrae said:
Focus on giving her quality instead of so much quantity. Sometimes men go overboard trying to last a long time, and it gets boring.


I was just going to say that....Some men go on way to long and it is boring because they are all about themself or they just don't know how ot make it fun...
 
heatherrae said:
I'm talking about getting to know their sexual preferences. I'm not a televangelist giving you abstinence until marriage speech...lol.

I usually guestimate how they like sex just by the way they start kissing and touching me in the being. Like if a girl seems shy and self-conscious i'll go slow with her---or if the girl is a bighter and won't let go of me I'll be pulling on her hair and tossing her around.

Maybe this is bad because some shy girls tend to be the freaks in bed...?
 
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