Is it possible to have a sexual relation with someone without feelings

[seaking420]

HT and others who have seemed to take another route here - the question was not "do you prefer no-strings sex or sex with love behind it". It was "is a fuck buddy relationship possible".

Yes this was the question and I would like to keep it on this subject. Im just looking for people that have experienced this situation and what ended up happening. Would you do it again if the opportunity presented itself?
That being said, HT is also right that people do lie so that they look "cool" which makes no sense to me since most of us dont really know each other, why lie who are you trying to impress. Just keep it real, this way it helps everyone out.

 

[Spartacus]

query the board's married peeps

 

[Stefka]

Trueism:

Men can fuck with no emotion.

Women have to love someone to enjoy a fuck so they do or will eventually have emotions.

That is not true at all.

 

[digimon7068]

i did it a number of times back in the day. . .and at the time i didn't feel bad about it at all. . .funny thing, though. . .20-some years later, when i look back on it, i feel bad now. . .ponderous. . .

 

[jerseyrugger76]

I'd guesstimate that 95% of gay menz in NYC operate this way, so I think the answer is an unequivocal yes. I've had varying degrees of success with this . . . um . . . "dating strategy" and don't find that it leaves much to be recommended.

 

[BIGBUCK$]

damn people get caught up in emotions too much these days.

 

[biteme]

Not for most people, of course some people have no souls.

 

[silverskyline]

I totaly think men can have sex with out emotion, In fact I ahve done it multiple times. One nighters, 2 or 3 times here and there. Infact the occational booty call that last almost a years time here and there.

It completly depends on who you are as an individual, but thing is yes it is completly possable. I do think emotion is generally more attached on the femal side but not always, I also do know that for a lot of the women I have been with when they are emotionally attached it makes it much more pleasurable for them.

ANSWER IS YES A GUY CAN HAVE EMOTIONLESS SEX ESPECIALLY THESE DAYS, behind the sceans honestly I wish it wasnt like that on eaither the male or female end, thats how people get fucked over (as I have been and have fucked over others).

Times are a lot different than long ago and sex is much more casual and getting more and more so by the year. It's fun when your young and livin life but makes it that much harder to find someone you will actuially want that emotion with when it's all said and done.

There you have it folks.

 

[Spartacus]

casual sex becomes more blah as you get older
there are exceptions
but basically after you've had sex a few thousand times casual sex is just a different form of masturbation

 

[biteme]

casual sex becomes more blah as you get older
there are exceptions
but basically after you've had sex a few thousand times casual sex is just a different form of masturbation

what he said.