Is it possible to have a sexual relation with someone without feelings

[seaking420]

A lot of people SAY they do this. But a lot of people also lie.

Very true

 

[H_T_]

A lot of people SAY they do this. But a lot of people also lie.

people need to learn to deal with this shit. maturity = finding your happiness, but not at the expense of others.

 

[Smurfy]

people need to learn to deal with this shit. maturity = finding your happiness, but not at the expense of others.

Wait, did you just agree with me? Or disagree?

Hit me up on the flip side.

 

[H_T_]

Wait, did you just agree with me? Or disagree?

Hit me up on the flip side.

i agree with you, IF you meant that people lie about how they can handle an act that is always better when it is genuine.

 

[Smurfy]

i agree with you, IF you meant that people lie about how they can handle an act that is always better when it is genuine.

Yes, that's what I'm saying.

 

[H_T_]

Yes, that's what I'm saying.

it's true. kinda like eating a great meal with no sense of taste....

 

[KillahBee]

HT and others who have seemed to take another route here - the question was not "do you prefer no-strings sex or sex with love behind it". It was "is a fuck buddy relationship possible".

I think most of us would agree that sex with feelings is a lot better than just fucking. But that wasn't what this thread is about. Not sure why people keep trying to go that route

 

[Smurfy]

HT and others who have seemed to take another route here - the question was not "do you prefer no-strings sex or sex with love behind it". It was "is a fuck buddy relationship possible".

I think most of us would agree that sex with feelings is a lot better than just fucking. But that wasn't what this thread is about. Not sure why people keep trying to go that route

Aye, aye captain.

What I was implying is that thre are lots of people who like to SAY they are ok with no-strings-attached sexuals and that they don't/won't develop any emotional attachment or feelings for the fuck-buddy - and a lot of those people are simply lying. Probably in an effort to look cool or something.

 

[H_T_]

it's the ostrich with it's head in the sand type thing. you wanna believe they're not doing someone else when you know they are. people are great at lying to themselves.

 

[KillahBee]

Aye, aye captain.

What I was implying is that thre are lots of people who like to SAY they are ok with no-strings-attached sexuals and that they don't/won't develop any emotional attachment or feelings for the fuck-buddy - and a lot of those people are simply lying. Probably in an effort to look cool or something.

Oh, no doubt. Like I said, I did it once and it was PERFECT. I still feel lucky for that. Could never do it again. Too hard.