Is it just me???

[under_dawg]

I'm 23 years old...and my problem is that i'd like to find a quality girl! all the girls that i attract are sluts. What makes them sluts is that most have boyfriends and husbands, or sleep with many other guys...
..my main concern is picking up an STD, and the other one is that sleeping with a bunch of random girls doesn't satisfy me (i don't know maybe that;s your kinda thing but not mine)...
...and having a bunch of sluts asking you to go home with them when you're a bartender isn't anything out of the ordinary, and i don't see why it's so hard to believe...on the other hand if i had said i meet these perfect women who are intelligent and concerned with more than how you look and what you drive then i'd call bullshit too!
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[jubei]

Oh, your a bartender.... Now I get it. Try taking a class or go for coffee. The beach is always good in the summer, as are restaurants. You could even try church or a church related function if you are so morally inclined.

 

[under_dawg]

LOL jubei...you're the man! i've thought about going to church to pick up chicks but somehow it just seemed wrong! i'm glad to see i'm not the only one to think about it...
The taking a class thing seems to be a popular choice....now i guess it's just deciding what to take...
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[hanned]

You have made me want to hook you up with a friend of mine but now that I think I may have one or two at the most that I would even be able to call good quality relationship type girls. Most girls are brats and complain too much. Not too long before they try to get you to hang out with them instead of go to the gym! That pisses me off sooo bad. It is soo wierd becuase the gym is the last place you would ever want to pick up a girl but just think...if she is there lots and knows what she is doing obviously she respects herself and her body and that says more than most gals out there. But (as there always is one) If it dosn't work out it makes it wierd at the gym, which is the last thing you want. You could go to another gym a few times and scope it out. Or does that go against the grain? Hmm I can't tell It is so much different being a girl but still the nice guys are just as rare. Luckily I found one and thank God every day. Finally don't give up because when you meet her she will be soo impressed that you didn't do the ass hole/slut thing. Don't become the exact type of person you are talking so badly about! Plus I know just as well as you do you couldn't cuz if you ARE the good guy you seem to be you couldn't.
Any chance you are on the north east coast I could try to help ya out! I assume the friends hookin' ya up thing has failed? Try that if not! Lots of luck

 

[under_dawg]

yeah...i think the gym is the worst place because people (at least i know i am) are way to focused and don't want to be bothered when at the gym...
Ya...the friends hooking me up thing never works out...
I'm not on the coast but next time i'm out there visiting i'll definatley let you know!
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