Is it just me???

[under_dawg]

Is it just me...or is it impossible to find a quality girl??? I'm a good looking guy with a good body so i do get hit on all the time...but it seems like every girl i meet is a SLUT! i'm honestly sick of it. Anyone else have this problem. I could probably lay a different girl every night if i wanted but i'm sick of all these dirty girls (not to mention i'm scared of picking up an STD) but more than anything I just want to meet a quality girl who doesn't sleep around....why can't i do this? am i looking in the wrong places? Just venting....
UD

 

[Determined Girl]

just keep looking dawg. They do exist. We women feel the same way about men. And the women you are meeting are probably used to meeting dogs so they probably have the "if-you-can't-beat-em-join-em" attitude.

It also depends on where you meet them too.

 

[PBR]

dawg- no shit!! tho I cant even get the sluts- I just attract fat chicks...did the on-line dating thing for awhile and out of 850 girls, 2 were in great shape....Iam good looking and have a lean musclar body....I tried to eliminate the fat girls (really-fat) by attaching some beach photos-that just made it worse...finally pulled off the sites....in SO-CAL it seems all the hotties want money...I know there are great women out there, it just takes more time to find QUALITY all the way around.....

 

[under_dawg]

Determined Girl just keep looking dawg. They do exist. We women feel the same way about men. And the women you are meeting are probably used to meeting dogs so they probably have the "if-you-can't-beat-em-join-em" attitude.
It also depends on where you meet them too.

I guess that's true...i work as a bartender so i meet a lot of EXTREMELY good looking women...but i'm turned off by the fact that they ask me to go home with them after minutes of talking to me (i'm not gay...trust me)
IS THIS WEIRD?
UD

 

[under_dawg]

PBR: LOL...fat girls....and i know about the hotties after the money, but you probably don't want those girls anyhow!
UD

 

[Determined Girl]

I guess that's true...i work as a bartender so i meet a lot of EXTREMELY good looking women...but i'm turned off by the fact that they ask me to go home with them after minutes of talking to me (i'm not gay...trust me)
IS THIS WEIRD?
UD

It's not you. And it's not weird. I can name a couple reasons why you feel turned off by them asking you to go home with them..

1) There is no challenge. Most guys would love to go through what you are going through......until they actually go through it, and then they would be turned off too.

2) If they are asking you to go home with them that soon then you dont want to fuck with that anyway, because that means if they are asking you to go so soon, there is no telling what others guys they have asked to go home so soon with too.

3.) STDs

4.) Even if you did go home with them and did something with them, one of them might have a crazy boyfriend, or worse a crazy husband and he could come and fuck both of you up for good.

5.)Chances are, they see your outer appearencec and that is all they want. Your brain or your feelings don't exist. You are just a dick attached to a nice body.

6.) Chances are, their pussies are worn out and tainted anyway. What's the point? Because you probabley are'nt the first person they have asked to go home with.


I could go on and on and on......................










and on and on.......

 

[under_dawg]

EXACTLY! so at least i know i'm not crazy cuz all my other buddies think i'm weird for turning them down.....
Now my problem is am i ever gonna meet a quality girl?? what do i have to do to meet one? i'm thinking about giving up looking soon and settle for the sluts....
UD

 

[Determined Girl]

dont settle for sluts. Because you are just going to hurt your self. As a matter of fact, try not to look toward the club or bar for meeting chicks.

Clubs are not really a quality place for that sort of thing Try meeting them elsewhere, like in a grocery store or something.

You don't see too many people going to the grocery store looking to get laid for the night. (Well...maybe some....but that is whole different thread).... Guys like you are extinct, so just chill out for a minute and try not to look so hard.

I Know from experience that you can meet a really nice person when you least expect it.

Patience is virtue....


(I know, I know, I sound like a damn fortune cookie....) but hey, it's the truth.

 

[under_dawg]

...i hope your right...i haven't met anyone that's made me really happy in about 3 years now!! starting to get worried about if it'll ever happen or will i end up old and alone...fuck...i think i'm gonna have a cheat day today LOL

 

[Determined Girl]

Yea, it can get depressing sometimes. A cheat day always helps me out!