IMPOTENCE... New partner, what happened here?

[dbell51]

how old are you? 21?

 

[flex229]

ya, its definitely not you...lol

try going down on him for a little while pre-sex...that oughta get him going a little more.

Oh god damnit. lol How did I know I was going to get these kind of responses...

there were two posts that actually kinda helped. But really, what it is.. I talked to him about it the day after and he said it was his second time having sex. He had the same problem with his ex girlfriend and he said that he thinks he needs to go to the doctor about it.

As far as PICS go... http://a914.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/01117/31/96/1117506913_l.jpg
http://a752.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/01117/15/78/1117508751_l.jpg
i'm no prize but i shouldn't be a horrible deformed sasquatch looking turn off right??

I also asked him like 5 times if it was my fault while we were in bed, because I kept worrying about it. lol

 

[KD1]

As far as PICS go...

Id hit it.

Get the guy some Cialis, tell him your ex-boyfriend used it all the time and that its "fun". If he still cant get hard, dump him.

Tell him not to jerk off anymore also, say you own all his cum now, or something nasty like that so he keeps it in his pants when you arent around. He might just beat off too much - that can cause limp cock also.

As far as your pussy being too loose for him, we need more pics...
( of you in case Im not being clear )

 

[rnch]

sounds like perfomance anxiety...happens more often (esp the first time) than most guys will admit to.

the more u question him about it the more it will bother the poor guy.

let some time go by, ya'll get a lil' bit drunk and then let nature (and attraction) do it's thang.

 

[s8nlilhlpr]

I would say nerves definetly. Poor bloke probably spanked it a few times too many that day though too . Happened to me a few times. WORST thing ever is when the girl just sits there and stares at it asking "is something wrong??" Be proactive, if obviously he's not rock hard yet, grab the lil' fella and help him out! Nothing turns me on more than a girl asking "can I play with him for you!"

If nothing else, try and take a break for a bit, he might just need 30mins or so to recover from being nervous.

 

[mobro]

if you listen to the above post and Blut wump you'll be fine. already pretty fine from the pics. like said before, it happens to way more guys than will admit it, not me of course! lol. i will tell you a trick that i have "heard' of. the next time you two get together, he WILL mention it(as far as you go, NEVER mention it again), when he does just tell him it doesn't matter if it does or not. tell him you just want to play around and see how much you can turn each other on without having sex. tell him that even if it does get hard, you still aren't gonna let him that time.
poor guy will loose all the pressure and be just fine. it is diffanetly not your BAD looks that is having that effect, but it very well could be that you intimadate him. build up his confidence, it could change his life

 

[waka_88]

Haah thank you guys so much for your replies. believe it or not a lot of these posts helped a TON. I am going to try a different route I guess, no pressure... I guess I was worried because I've never had to worry about this problem before with my ex boyfriend... So this is all new to me. Anyway i'll try some of these suggestions! : -p Thanks everyone