I agree about big pharm wanting everyone doped up on their newest and best products since it means more $$$ for them. But other than that it all just seems like justifications and excuses for why you and your husband never got your "piece of the pie." People with means never seem to think that college degree or nice job are worthless in their lives and a lot of people are quite happy. Money may not automatically buy happiness but Im willing to bet it makes life a whole lot easier when you have it.