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I'm pretty sure I can't have normal sex now

KillahBee

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And, no, this isn't like Becoming, who makes his women cut their hair, put on a dress shirt and shorts and call themselves, "Little Billy". Nor is this in reference to some grotesque disformation in the general genital area, a la Ejaculator. And, no, this is not another aap thread about the troubles of being a male interested in women, when I actually have a vagina where my penis should be, so it make things complicated.

This is about the fact that I don' think it is possible for me to enjoy your normal, everday sex with the missus. This came about while my penis was inside the urethra of a young lady this weekend. She was pretty hot, great little tush on her. While I should have een very excited, as my hand got a day off b/c of this adventure, I did not enjoy it at all. Sure, there were moans, ejaculations of various sorts, light yelling. But no ass slapping, choking, hair pulling. There were no utterings of, "Fuck me like a school girl" or "This is your pussy - take it!" or even "I'm gonna cum" / "Give me the good stuff!". Perhaps it is the years of snuff porn, or the last few girls I have been with that just plain old NEEDED it dirty, rough, and even a little violent (thanks to their dads and their checkbooks in place of hugs...). I don't know. I just don't know.
 
Now I understand his other posts about "once you've had sheep, you can never go back"
 
Once you get a dirty hottie you are ruined for quite a while.

Oh well. Good luck and buy some handcuffs.
 
Goddamnit people. A hole is a hole! Why are you ignoring the obvious psychological issues I am dealing with here?
 
Bor are you serious?

Cause that shit is a real problem
 
KillahBee said:
yes I am. I really did not enjoy the sex. she was hot, I was horny. It was all there.


In all seriousness...

I am there right now too... :worried:

I keep thinking about the first time I touch a new girl, and she is just rediculously wet and it is so amazing. Got spice some shit up at the homestead...
 
KillahBee said:
yes I am. I really did not enjoy the sex. she was hot, I was horny. It was all there.


Seriously bor. If the problem is just that you have grown bored with chicks you have no feelings for then that is understandable. Most people reach that point eventually.

But if the problem is you have that same feeling of dissatisfaction even when you are with someone you care about, then that might be indicative of a bigger problem.

Sex was never intended to be as casual as it has become. When you disassociate the feelings and purpose from the act as drastically as has become the case, the rest is inevitable. You become numb to the experience, and the recognition of that is disturbing
 
Maybe you should get a hooker in vegas, my cousin does this once in awhile. He gets his fair share of women but has reached a point of bordem. You should maybe try this the excitement of exchanging money to someone that you bought who will do anything for you. That might just spice it up for you.
 
Sta11ion said:
Maybe you should get a hooker in vegas, my cousin does this once in awhile. He gets his fair share of women but has reached a point of bordem. You should maybe try this the excitement of exchanging money to someone that you bought who will do anything for you. That might just spice it up for you.


His problem is that hes already pushed the envelope to the point where normal relations numb him.

Pushing it further will only serve to exacerbate the difficulty hes having
 
I always smack the ass, always. It would be wrong if I didnt.

stop playing mind games with yourself and overthinking things.
 
JerseyArt said:
His problem is that hes already pushed the envelope to the point where normal relations numb him.

Pushing it further will only serve to exacerbate the difficulty hes having


That's sad to me. I have never felt that way, even though I have been treated REALLY badly in the past by a few 'men'.

After every negative experience I had, I always took the time to look into myself and to think about the situation in detail....to see what I wanted from a future relationship.

I am a true optimist at :heart: . I see the glass for half full.

I know that relationships scar a lot of people and that people do such BAD things to eachother...It's tough to break past the shortcomings of some negative, shitty people out there.

Keep your chin up killa and you will be rewarded in the future. :rose:
 
Sta11ion said:
Maybe you should get a hooker in vegas, my cousin does this once in awhile. He gets his fair share of women but has reached a point of bordem. You should maybe try this the excitement of exchanging money to someone that you bought who will do anything for you. That might just spice it up for you.


Smartest thing I've ever heard!!!
 
Maybe your gay.. the girls don't do it for you anymore and u should try pluggin it in a man.. Many have tried it..



Sta11ion said:
Maybe you should get a hooker in vegas, my cousin does this once in awhile. He gets his fair share of women but has reached a point of bordem. You should maybe try this the excitement of exchanging money to someone that you bought who will do anything for you. That might just spice it up for you.
 
I've heard of this before....
LOL@ snuff porn. I remember when that shit was hard to get.
Now, it's all over...
 
Prettylittlepest said:
Maybe your gay.. the girls don't do it for you anymore and u should try pluggin it in a man.. Many have tried it..
:lmao: good idea
 
Prettylittlepest said:
Maybe your gay.. the girls don't do it for you anymore and u should try pluggin it in a man.. Many have tried it..
woah there sally sweettits, leave your father's issues at the therapy couch, alright...girls do it for me - all I am saying is that normal sex (penis in, penis out, repeat) does NOTHING for me. I really need that dirty little pig routine.
 
you just come off as being comfused.. completely..U just dson't one day lose interest in sex, unless 1 your taking something.. some kind of drug.. or maybe you were never interested in the frist place.
 
Prettylittlepest said:
you just come off as being comfused.. completely..U just dson't one day lose interest in sex, unless 1 your taking something.. some kind of drug.. or maybe you were never interested in the frist place.


LMAO! I am the farthest from confused. I think you may be confused - I didn't say I lost interest in "sex". I said I lost interest in "normal" sex. I am really only into it if it gets a little crazy. I realized this when I was having normal sex with a pretty hot girl and was unfulfilled.
 
Prettylittlepest said:
you just come off as being comfused.. completely..U just dson't one day lose interest in sex, unless 1 your taking something.. some kind of drug.. or maybe you were never interested in the frist place.


plp...

Killahbee is just asking for help...It takes a lot to open up to the board about something like that (especially for a man).

This happens to a lot of people...especially after they have been jaded by the other sex (maybe one too many times).

This change did not happen overnight...it most likely happened gradually after time.
 
Kroliczek said:
plp...

Killahbee is just asking for help...It takes a lot to open up to the board about something like that (especially for a man).

This happens to a lot of people...especially after they have been jaded by the other sex (maybe one too many times).

This change did not happen overnight...it most likely happened gradually after time.


Killahbee is turning into a girl. He is questioning his own sexual orientation.

His dick doesn't get fully erect for females anymore.
 
Kroliczek said:
plp...

Killahbee is just asking for help...It takes a lot to open up to the board about something like that (especially for a man).

This happens to a lot of people...especially after they have been jaded by the other sex (maybe one too many times).

This change did not happen overnight...it most likely happened gradually after time.


lol - you cool, boo. I'm not even looking for an answer - it will play itself out just like everything else (I am aware enough to catch it when it does, too). Just looking for opinions, thoughts, laughter, mocking. This will only be a problem if the girl I fall for ends up not being intothe crazy sex. :rose:
 
Kroliczek said:
That's sad to me. I have never felt that way, even though I have been treated REALLY badly in the past by a few 'men'.

After every negative experience I had, I always took the time to look into myself and to think about the situation in detail....to see what I wanted from a future relationship.

I am a true optimist at :heart: . I see the glass for half full.

I know that relationships scar a lot of people and that people do such BAD things to eachother...It's tough to break past the shortcomings of some negative, shitty people out there.

Keep your chin up killa and you will be rewarded in the future. :rose:

I don't think it has to do with his having been treated poorly as much as it does his having treated the act so cheaply.

Everything has consequences. We become what we allow ourselves to do. We are defined by our actions more than our intentions.

He has treated sex so selfishly that it no longer has anything to do with love or the other person. So now he needs to constantly up the stimulus because hes grown bored with his female toys.

Not a criticism of killah. Happens to a lot of people nowadays. The way to fix it though is not by feeding that perceived need for greater and greater eroticism, but by dealing with the root cause.
 
The Ejaculator said:
Killahbee is turning into a girl. He is questioning his own sexual orientation.

His dick doesn't get fully erect for females anymore.


I am a girl? Look who's posting when his broad is lying naked and wet on the bed!


What do you mean? I'm not outside you house... :worried:
 
KillahBee said:
This came about while my penis was inside the urethra of a young lady this weekend. She was pretty hot, great little tush on her. ....there were moans, ejaculations of various sorts, light yelling. But no ass slapping, choking, hair pulling. There were no utterings of, "Fuck me like a school girl" or "This is your pussy - take it!" or even "I'm gonna cum" / "Give me the good stuff!". Perhaps it is the years of snuff porn, or the last few girls I have been with that just plain old NEEDED it dirty, rough, and even a little violent (thanks to their dads and their checkbooks in place of hugs...). I don't know. I just don't know.

I think it's a simple matter of you being used to a standard of dirty, raunchy sex and once you have something below that, it becomes "routine", thus you didn't really get in to it as much. It's a matter of building up to something and needing that to get off, and then subconcious dissapointment when the sex is isn't up to par with the regular.

I think you gotta think outside the box on this, K-Bee. Take the experience for what it is, rather than comparing it to what you are used to. Outside the box, Outside the box, nugga......



DIV

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DIVISION said:
I think it's a simple matter of you being used to a standard of dirty, raunchy sex and once you have something below that, it becomes "routine", thus you didn't really get in to it as much. It's a matter of building up to something and needing that to get off, and then subconcious dissapointment when the sex is isn't up to par with the regular.

I think you gotta think outside the box on this, K-Bee. Take the experience for what it is, rather than comparing it to what you are used to. Outside the box, Outside the box, nugga......



DIV

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Hit the nail on the head with the 1st paragraph. And you are probably right about the comparing thing, but that's easier said than done. And I am thinking outside, inside, and all over the box, bro. The box is filled.
 
KillahBee said:
Hit the nail on the head with the 1st paragraph. And you are probably right about the comparing thing, but that's easier said than done. And I am thinking outside, inside, and all over the box, bro. The box is filled.

.....then you know what this means then, nuggaro.

You need to forget about what you did with past girls and take this shit to new heights.....FILL HER BOX w/ PRO-tein!!!!

Feel me on that?



DIV

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I dunno.. btu don't you think that if your with sumeone.. that sex can get dirty anyhow.. repsect them in public.. doesn't matter whut happens in the bedroom as long as both agree.. there should never be a reason for boredom
 
KillahBee said:
And I am thinking outside, inside, and all over the box, bro. The box is filled.


If getting laid w/ hot pootang is so easy 4 you, then try this...

1. Get a girl to let you video tape her.
2. Tell the next chica that you want to watch a video while she makes you cum. Pop in the tape.

The excitement and heart pounding that that will come from conjuring up the balls to pull each of these tasks off will make the sex incredible.

Don't fall for this BS that the sex should be good 'as it is'... all you have to do is deny yourself for along time and get in touch with your 'JerseryArt' side and all will be good - crap.

Keep uping the price of admission, each time better than the last - that's your issue. If we all sat around and were satisfied with the good old status quo - we wouldn't have blowjobs maing.....

THINK OF SOMETHING NEW - LET ME KNOW WHAT IT IS, so I can try it out.
 
The Ejaculator said:
If getting laid w/ hot pootang is so easy 4 you, then try this...

1. Get a girl to let you video tape her.
2. Tell the next chica that you want to watch a video while she makes you cum. Pop in the tape.

Nah, mayne....

That's just dumbing down the sex, I don't see how this is anything but a gimmick for the short-term. Even if he finds willing women, what has he really gained? Now he'll have to watch videos of other women just to get off with the woman he's currently with; pointless.

I think you gotta break thangs down to the illest....cock + pussy = mix together. For best results repeat.


DIV

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KillahBee said:
ROFLMFAO @ JerseyArt comment!!!!


Bor, was her urethra loose?
 
DIVISION said:
Nah, mayne....

That's just dumbing down the sex, I don't see how this is anything but a gimmick for the short-term. Even if he finds willing women, what has he really gained? Now he'll have to watch videos of other women just to get off with the woman he's currently with; pointless.


Your missing the point... it's not the act... its actually getting some freaks to agree to that shit that is exciting.

To me that's like buttsex... I really am not interested in doing that at all. What's the point.. in the end I cum - why get mud on my helmet?

The point is to get a girl to let you do something to her she doesn't want to do, or normally won't do. That's what's hot. After I done it... I'm over it...


That's the way my sick twisted mind works anyways...
 
The Ejaculator said:
Your missing the point... it's not the act... its actually getting some freaks to agree to that shit that is exciting.

To me that's like buttsex... I really am not interested in doing that at all. What's the point.. in the end I cum - why get mud on my helmet?

The point is to get a girl to let you do something to her she doesn't want to do, or normally won't do. That's what's hot. After I done it... I'm over it...


That's the way my sick twisted mind works anyways...

I feel ya', EjaX......

Just that I'd rather stay in the carnal element if it's something new = no videos or other shit.

Anal sex is a mindstate......a carnal one. It's not about the act itself, more so it's about something dirty and different. Being inside her deep in a different way.....tighter, hotter....OFF THE CHAIN!!!

Start off slow and build to a steady rythym, until she's begging you to fuck her ass hard and fast.......balls slappin' that azz deep.....

The Sexual Mindstate is the most important aspect, IMO.


DIV

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I need dirty broads too, broads that like it every which way but the right way. You should have seen the look of disappointment and disbelief when I ran into the first broad that wouldn't swallow.
 
SoreArms said:
I need dirty broads too, broads that like it every which way but the right way. You should have seen the look of disappointment and disbelief when I ran into the first broad that wouldn't swallow.


Killah's Mum pulled that crap on me too maing... You have to trick her...


PM me for details....
 
When ever you get a bird who wont take a shot in the mouth, you got to practice blowing your load on the sly,so that you dont show signals when youre close. So your non swallowing girl is sucking pole, and you dont make any sound or twitches, nothing and shes thinking
"Damn, whens this fool gona come?" .............

...........And then BANG! Load in the mouth! Snuck up on her like a Mutha fuckin trained ninja! (if you really need her to swallow though, you have to be ready to pinch her nose as youre about to bolt, this can often give away your plan if not done with care)
 
Rod555 said:
When ever you get a bird who wont take a shot in the mouth, you got to practice blowing your load on the sly,so that you dont show signals when youre close. So your non swallowing girl is sucking pole, and you dont make any sound or twitches, nothing and shes thinking
"Damn, whens this fool gona come?" .............

...........And then BANG! Load in the mouth! Snuck up on her like a Mutha fuckin trained ninja! (if you really need her to swallow though, you have to be ready to pinch her nose as youre about to bolt, this can often give away your plan if not done with care)


Did that once with a super conservative chick. Problem was - we were 69ing and she was on top. Bitch started coughing and choking ans spitting and she definitely let some out back onto me. Fucking c-nt.
 
The Ejaculator said:
Killah's Mum pulled that crap on me too maing... You have to trick her...


PM me for details....

I know, right......

Killah's moms is a spicy HOT ITALIAN BITCH!!!!

I waxed that sweet azz and asked for 2nds.....


HOLLA!



DIV

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KillahBee said:
Did that once with a super conservative chick. Problem was - we were 69ing and she was on top. Bitch started coughing and choking ans spitting and she definitely let some out back onto me. Fucking c-nt.

LOL yes bro! Thats the way! Conservative bitches suck, she couldnt have been that conservative if you were 69ing any way! My idea of conservative is

1) Lights off
2) wont let you see her get nekked
3) No position other then missionary
4) Idea of spicing up your sex life is to leave the light on for once
 
Rod555 said:
LOL yes bro! Thats the way! Conservative bitches suck, she couldnt have been that conservative if you were 69ing any way! My idea of conservative is

1) Lights off
2) wont let you see her get nekked
3) No position other then missionary
4) Idea of spicing up your sex life is to leave the light on for once

She was like that, then she fell in love with me. It's amazing the things a girl will do in the name of love.
 
Take control bro. Tell em what you want. If a girl is just laying there or whatever, I make them say stuff and do stuff. Damn... You`re having sex with them already, they`re gonna say some shit to make it better if you ask.

Plus, some chicks may not want to say it thinking they`ll seem too slutty, so when you tell them to say it, they`ll oblige. They can really get into it too, especially because you asked and they know you like it.

Fuck that, I don`t waste any time. If I want it, I`ll ask for it. I like them to say "Cum in my mouth". Louder! lol
 
gonelifting said:
Take control bro. Tell em what you want. If a girl is just laying there or whatever, I make them say stuff and do stuff. Damn... You`re having sex with them already, they`re gonna say some shit to make it better if you ask.

Plus, some chicks may not want to say it thinking they`ll seem too slutty, so when you tell them to say it, they`ll oblige. They can really get into it too, especially because you asked and they know you like it.

Fuck that, I don`t waste any time. If I want it, I`ll ask for it. I like them to say "Cum in my mouth". Louder! lol


I feel dirty after reading that. Thanks. Gonna go puke now, GL.
 
KillahBee said:
I feel dirty after reading that. Thanks. Gonna go puke now, GL.


Go puke if you want, but any chick can be a whore in the bedroom. Sometimes they need direction. They`re not all born pornstars. It`s up to you.

You know how many times I`ve heard (and I`m sure we all have) "I`ve never done anything like this before" lol So what? There`s a first time for everything. Happy fucking birthday baby.
 
gonelifting said:
Go puke if you want, but any chick can be a whore in the bedroom. Sometimes they need direction. They`re not all born pornstars. It`s up to you.

You know how many times I`ve heard (and I`m sure we all have) "I`ve never done anything like this before" lol So what? There`s a first time for everything. Happy fucking birthday baby.


I hear ya bro - I have made some very quiet girls into my own personal blowup doll (or maybe it'e the other way around....).
 
Forge said:
I think we found your problem, your a prude. Loosen up, bro!

If it means your a prude if you don't want to hear about GL cumming in some chick's piehole, then sign my fucking ass up!
 
gonelifting said:
Go puke if you want, but any chick can be a whore in the bedroom. Sometimes they need direction. They`re not all born pornstars. It`s up to you.

You know how many times I`ve heard (and I`m sure we all have) "I`ve never done anything like this before" lol So what? There`s a first time for everything. Happy fucking birthday baby.


LOL

Spot on bor.
Also its more fun to train them yourself.

If I want a professional, I'll date a hooker
 
JerseyArt said:
LOL

Spot on bor.
Also its more fun to train them yourself.

If I want a professional, I'll date a hooker


or a Penthouse Pet. doh!!!! lol
 
gonelifting said:
You know how many times I`ve heard (and I`m sure we all have) "I`ve never done anything like this before" lol So what? There`s a first time for everything. Happy fucking birthday baby.


:lmao:

Happy fucking birthday baby! Man thats awesome, im gonna use that right before i slam it up some girls bonus tunnel for the 1st time! Id send you some K but damn thing says i gave you too much already!
 
Killa both Div and GL got it right. Take matters into your own hands. Show your girl the light and she'll be forever willing.
 
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