I'm going to have a cry.

[conan69]

What does

"I am going to HAVE A CRY" mean???

how do you have a verb????

just joking, trying to cheer you up a little

 

[MaGilicuti]

i think once i move out of my parent's house i'm gonna try and get some hydro and smoke it every night before i sleep, that sounds ideal.

women always trying to find something that pisses them off, just chill out and snort a line

 

[mrbill]

dump the loser!! Just kidding, but seriously if you are not into weed or smoking cigarettes and he is it might become a major problem eventually. I can't stand smoking, I think it friggin stinks, so I wouldn't be with a girl who smoked. If you are not a smoker (weed or tobacco) why did you hook up with a guy who is??

 

[Citruscide]

So, the biggest gripe you have about him is he smokes pot?? Well, it is something that gets bothersome... my ex did alot of coke... but at least he isn't fucking other chicks... or dudes for that matter.

Just talk to him about it... set up some times during the week when you guys will be together.

Or, you can always take the Citruscide-Solution to relationships... End it... you'll be happier.

C

 

[Raghead Remover]

If your only complaint with him is he smokes weed with his friends then be thankful.

Now if he wakes up, takes a bong hit, goes to lunch and smokes a j, then has a bowl for the ride home to prepare for the nights festivities (getting stoned) it's a problem. Can you say intervention time?

I am going to guess that you are a young couple, if so, he is still experimenting and enjoying his youth with some of his friends. This does not mean he is a "drug addict". Nor does it mean he does not love you or being with you, he just wants some escape time. In a long term relationship this is important

Trust me, as your relationship (and each other) mature things will change. I have many friends that partake in the good herb on occassion and we are all successful professionals.

If you are concerned about his health, buy him a vaporizer and some KB.

 

[bigguns7]

Don't threaten him or give him any ultimatums. That just won't work. What you can do is just tell him that it bothers you. You won't be trying to change who he is. A person can be funny, talkative, aggressive, argumentative, and THAT is who they are. You can't change that. But trying to get him to stop smoking weed is not trying to change who he is.

 

[spongebob]

i never did like pot, but to each his own. i dabble a little bit with other stuff though.

why did i get red karma for this?

 

[SeXKiTTen_CanDy]

Ok, let me just make a point here...

Who ever asks if he beats me when he is high, NO he doesn't. If he ever hit me, I'd hit him back.

Secondly, there is no way in the world I would dump him, he is the most gorgeous, sexiest, kindest bloke on this earth man, I guess you didn’t really get me… I do NOT love him less because he smokes pot, but him smoking pot does annoy me. Honeynut, I am with you, that’s exactly how I feel fucking BORED when he sits around with mates smoking pot. He rarely does it now because he kinda got the hint I don’t really appreciate it.

He’s a great bloke, I guess it doesn’t really matter that much.

Thanks for the replies.

 

[the nature boy]

and they all start pulling buckets or whatever, I just hate being there, when they are all munged out.

I'm learning some good australian pothead lingo on this thread. right on!

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

I dated alot of smokers and pot users growing up. Now if i find out a guy smokes anything, I won't even date him.

It stinks
Its expensive
And just plain gross


But your already involved with him. All you can do is talk to him, and both of you can do a little giving and taking.