Im going to be a Father

[Y_lifter]

Bringing a life into this world is a very very important step.

It starts with showing Responsiility to the Child AND the Mother,
both in $'s and in commitment of your time and attention keeping things stable
for the child. Much like dogs, kids like stability as they grow up..

If you love this woman and think you want to spend many years with her to
raise this child together, I sugguest you DO get married..

What kid wants to have moms last name, and then in his pre teens, have her get married. And then names are different and everyone he/she deals withs is all confused ? Sure, some kids and people don't give a crap about names etc,
but some do care.

Call me Conservative, but at least I'm talking reality..

Good luck !

 

[Buddy_Christ]

best of luck man!

raising kids can be real frustrating but it can also be fun as hell. you take the good with the bad really.

any doubts you may have about raising a child will disappear the first time you hold your baby. i was worried sick about how i was going to raise my son and wondering if i would even be able to. the first time i saw him, i changed into a different person. pretty powerful what a child can do to you.

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

very humbling experience Austin, enjoy the kid and be a good dad. The boy will need a Pa and he will need his ma as well. I hope you relationship is strong and your communication is good. congrats bro, you'll be a good pop.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Austin you have more then enough love to give this child will be lucky to have you as a father.

 

[coverguy]

best of luck brother. keep your head on straight and know that bringing a child into this world is supposed to be the most amazing thing one can ever do!

 

[jackangel]

good luck and do it well.

 

[d3track]

hey, stay together
i went through almost the exact same thing
went through the abortion thing my freshman year of college, worst part of my life
now i have my daughter, it seems odd, but she is the greatest
its gonna be very difficult, but very worth it

 

[Austin316]

thanks guys, lol lord Im still sitting here thinking about having to say all this to my mom, I know she's gonna be fine with it, but still

 

[Y_lifter]

thanks guys, lol lord Im still sitting here thinking about having to say all this to my mom, I know she's gonna be fine with it, but still

All you gotta say bro is

"MOM, I got good news... You're gonna be a Grandma"

 

[Razorguns]

i agree. Don't let this kid be the typical american kid who grows up with 3+ fathers in his lifetime.