I'm feeling down right now folks, due to the girl

[heavy_duty]

you wanna bet on that?

Nah i think healother will learn and one day soon he's gonna be a stud who will be fucking girls left right and centre...and he'll be able to think back to times like this and smile because that girl lost out.

Well, maybe.

 

[Gambino]

DAMN THAT STUPID WHORE!

I made a mistake by talking to her again on aol, and she tells me she is typing from her bed and a guy is in there with her and they were making out earlier, and she has to sign off because he wants to do more, and she isnt the type to turn that down.

WHAT A FUCKING WHORE SKANK, I HATE THAT BITCH. I NEVER WANT TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS KIND OF SHIT AGAIN!

My gosh I'm so frickin pissed off right now, and the sad thing is this is nothing. I dont know how the hell I'm supposed to be able to handle a relationship.

edit: What's worse is that this is the first woman i've ever gotten physically involved with. This kind of shit could scar my mind for life.

you got nobody to blame except yourself
you didn't seal the deal, acted like a pussy
what did you expect her to do?

 

[heavy_duty]

There was a girl I knew that ALL my friends got with and she had a hot body.
I was the only one who couldnt fuck her and some of the others were ugly guys.
long story short, I was too nice to her I even cuddled with her on the sofa.

fuck I cant believe I'm even typing this shit because that means I have to relive the fact that I coulnd get with this chick that ALL my homies got with and she did EVERYTHING.

nice guys get no pussy this has been a fact of life since Jesus Mary and Joseph were alive.

 

[healother]

I preferred to meet them online. Lots of people have found good relationships that way. There all kinds of avenues and online dating is not a bad thing for many people. That's all a thing of the past for me now though, I have my dream girl.

im glad you found her man. it sounded like you were looking hard, and you finally got someone good.

ive been told that online dating is more for older people and that younger people dont need it and shouldnt use it.

ive also been told that for girls who are my age who are online are usually desperate or have some kind of issues.

all i know is that im going to spend more time getting to know a woman before i give her my attention, because some women are such whores and scum that they dont deserve much. and i gave too much away.

lol. I'm sorry but that's just funny. It's like she's punishing you for being a pussy with her. So you know what you've gotta do....toughen up once and for all. Either that or wait for a nice girl cos not all girls are like her. Personally i think you would have felt better if you'd fucked her well and then refused to speak to her again.

its not funny at all. how the hell is it funny? i felt like crap when she told me what she was doing. i didnt deserve that.

tougher skin would help, but i should really avoid these kinds of girls. i dont know about the fuck her part, but if I hadnt spoken to her aftewards, i bet i would have felt better.

You just said it man. You CANT handle a relationship.
Sex and marriage is not for everybody.
I dont think you'll ever have a lady or get married.

I know at least 2 guys JUST like you but they are older. One is 40 and the other is 45 they both make great money have a few cars but have never had a girlfriend. They are not gay (also they dont know each other LOL)

It's just that pussy is not for them...they dont know how to approach women, they have never dated and dont date and it has been going on so long that I belive they are going to be alone for ever.

You're going to wake up in 10 years and feel like even more of a fuck up than you feel like now.

Maybe you're right. Maybe me being single forever is my destiny. I'm not happy about that, but then again, how can I change it? I've tried changing it in the past and my efforts have been useless. And I'm getting old enough now where its harder and harder to start learning.

A few notes, before I stab my eyeballs out:

1) DO NOT blame "women" for this or let this mold your view of them. The girl you are describing IS NOT a skank, whore, or anything else. She is just playing the game. It's not her fault.

2) STOP DUCKING RESPONSIBILITY. Everything that happens to you is a byproduct of YOU - your actions, your mindset, your views, your whole person. It's nobody's fault but your own.

3) Seriously, you should take another hiatus from EF. It's not good for you.

1) I'm blaming this woman primarily, and any other ones who act like her. Why would she purposely try to make me feel bad or be ignorant enough to not realize that she is doing so, and why is that a game?

2) So it's my fault that this chick said that and then I felt bad afterwards?
Maybe I should have been more selective about who I got involved with, I'll admit that, but I basically learned that lesson the hard way.

3) I'm hardly ever on here.

please keep calling her a woman. please do that. lol, she actually IMed with you and said she was with another guy? lmao.

I'm calling her a whore from now on. If I call her a woman, its by accident.

 

[Jon79]

yea girls will ruin you bro

 

[healother]

Wow. This is still going on?
Heal, just go fuck 3 or 4 random experienced chicks. Don't worry about feelings. Just do them. You'll get them off that pedestal you have them on & feel more confident in yourself.
BTW if I was that girl, I'd have moved on too. she was clearly ready for something & you weren't.
I've been there, drunk & moaning ow everyone else at the party was getting laid but me. The only way you get strong enough to handle rejection is by putting yourself out there all the time and getting rejected. Soon you'll be able to brush it off, & when it no longer bothers you, you won't come across so feebly.

If I fuck 3-4 random girls, whats to say that I wouldnt feel worse? Maybe I'd become attached to all of them who knows. Obviously I want to get my mind off of the whore though. I'm just trying to debate whether the whole rebound thing is a good idea or not.

I dont mind that she moved on, but its rude when she turns down my proposals to hangout, and then tells me about how she's fooling around with some guy as she's typing to me.

you got nobody to blame except yourself
you didn't seal the deal, acted like a pussy
what did you expect her to do?

again, turning me down is only a small part of the problem. The bigger issue is that she's telling me stories about her and other men. That's just rude. She wont give me any, but is going to tell me about how she gives other guys whatever they want?

There was a girl I knew that ALL my friends got with and she had a hot body.
I was the only one who couldnt fuck her and some of the others were ugly guys.
long story short, I was too nice to her I even cuddled with her on the sofa.

fuck I cant believe I'm even typing this shit because that means I have to relive the fact that I coulnd get with this chick that ALL my homies got with and she did EVERYTHING.

nice guys get no pussy this has been a fact of life since Jesus Mary and Joseph were alive.

I feel bad for you man, I'm sorry to hear. I hope it wasn't too hard on you. Nothing wrong with being nice to people, but giving them more than they deserve and letting them walk on you is the problem that many nice guys make.
I believe you can be a nice guy and still get pussy, but you can't behave like a tool.

 

[jd_uk]

I believe you can be a nice guy and still get pussy, but you can't behave like a tool.

Well fucking do it then!

It's funny because it's so predictable. She's showing you what a little bitch you were/are by taunting you. "I don't deserve that" - When you stop shifting responsibility then you might get some pussy. You deserve to feel crap for completely ignoring all the advice given to you and doing it the same way as you have been for 6 years.

Your last two posts are disgustingly pathetic (like most of your posts are). The only good post i've seen was when you told me that you had changed and you were going to prove it soon. ...but you've reverted back to being a pathetic pussy who talks about how maybe he's destined never to get any girls and how maybe he should just be more selective with the girls he spends time with.

You're what i call a whinger. A whinger with no self esteem. I love how you talk about how 'she won't give me any'. If i get with a girl then i'm giving myself to her. You moan and whinge about how difficult everything is and the other guys here are probably right...you'll probably never change. Good luck having girls walk all over you.

 

[HiDnGoD]

If I fuck 3-4 random girls, whats to say that I wouldnt feel worse? Maybe I'd become attached to all of them who knows. Obviously I want to get my mind off of the whore though. I'm just trying to debate whether the whole rebound thing is a good idea or not.

It's like a vaccine. You get enough meaningless contact, it'll acclimatize you to being in their presence, warts & all. You'll see their pimples, smell their farts & kiss their horrid cum/tequila/Doritos morning mouth. Then you'll realize, as mysterious and intimidating as they are, they're no better than you.
Examine yourself Padawan. You are afraid of these creatures. Until you conquer your phobia, they will pwn you senseless. And how do you conquer a phobia. Immersion therapy.

 

[CrazyRussian]

Well fucking do it then!

It's funny because it's so predictable. She's showing you what a little bitch you were/are by taunting you. "I don't deserve that" - When you stop shifting responsibility then you might get some pussy. You deserve to feel crap for completely ignoring all the advice given to you and doing it the same way as you have been for 6 years.

Your last two posts are disgustingly pathetic (like most of your posts are). The only good post i've seen was when you told me that you had changed and you were going to prove it soon. ...but you've reverted back to being a pathetic pussy who talks about how maybe he's destined never to get any girls and how maybe he should just be more selective with the girls he spends time with.

You're what i call a whinger. A whinger with no self esteem. I love how you talk about how 'she won't give me any'. If i get with a girl then i'm giving myself to her. You moan and whinge about how difficult everything is and the other guys here are probably right...you'll probably never change. Good luck having girls walk all over you.

Good point. At one point, you have to stop being such a bitch and go for it. When I read one of your posts where you said "I want pussy now", i almost spit my Sprite Zero all over my roomie's laptop monitor. Are you kidding me?

Girls don't want to be with wierd ass 22 year olds who go on and on about how they are special and how they are your first kiss and all that shit. Be exciting, make people want to be around you. I guarantee you the moment you start spouting off about how your life sucks, or how you're inexperienced, or about how beautiful she is, she'll lose interest. Grow some balls, mate. I know it feels good to feel sorry for youreslf and wallow. While you're sitting there thinking that other people feel sorry for you, they're actually laughing at how big of a D-bag you are.

 

[heavy_duty]

too true

Good point. At one point, you have to stop being such a bitch and go for it. When I read one of your posts where you said "I want pussy now", i almost spit my Sprite Zero all over my roomie's laptop monitor. Are you kidding me?

Girls don't want to be with wierd ass 22 year olds who go on and on about how they are special and how they are your first kiss and all that shit. Be exciting, make people want to be around you. I guarantee you the moment you start spouting off about how your life sucks, or how you're inexperienced, or about how beautiful she is, she'll lose interest. Grow some balls, mate. I know it feels good to feel sorry for youreslf and wallow. While you're sitting there thinking that other people feel sorry for you, they're actually laughing at how big of a D-bag you are.