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self esteem is over rated.. if everyone had it people like evansteve (foxygel) wouldn't ever get laid!
I want your thoughts on this
- Thread starter SoKlueles
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SoKlueles said:
No.. don't even give me that shit, you tellin me that wearing a shirt with your gut flopping out and jiggling like oh so much jello makes one feel sexy??
Yeah I'm a complete stranger but I don't want to see that shit the same way I don't want to see some dudes cock hangin out of his zipper.
hamstershaver
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i love when plumpers wear half shirts, gives me wood, it also gets me punched in the ribs if i get caught looking
slat1
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Okay... I may be departing from my sexual deviant self here...
Being fat is not the problem. Being fat is the result of the problem. There is something inside the person that they are not entirely happy with. Sure you could lose a lot of fat and feel better... but the problem still exists inside. If you can locate the inner problem and cure it everything else will fall into place.
There is an analogy for this:
If you burn you arm what do you do?
You put ointment on it to help it heal. You bandage it.
What you don't do is paint it skin toned. Sure it would look fine. The problem would still exist beneath the paint though. The arm would be rotting. You would have cosmeticly covered the problem. You did not cure it.
That said. I think losing wieght is important for anyone who is obese. When you see someone take control of their life and not take no for an answer... its moving.
I was almost 30% body fat when I got out of college. I ran every day. I didn't lose a pound.
I got sick of it and educated myself. I lost 53 pounds without doing any cardio. I ate properly and lifted wieghts.
I felt a little better about myself. The odd thing. I am actually more self conscious now. Because I have only a few flaws I tend to focus on them. I can no longer see the improvements I made every place else.
In the end what I realized was this. I did not think I was a good person. Nor did I think I had a lot to offer. It really wasn't how I looked that controlled how I perceived myself. It was how I felt about myself as a person...
Being fat is not the problem. Being fat is the result of the problem. There is something inside the person that they are not entirely happy with. Sure you could lose a lot of fat and feel better... but the problem still exists inside. If you can locate the inner problem and cure it everything else will fall into place.
There is an analogy for this:
If you burn you arm what do you do?
You put ointment on it to help it heal. You bandage it.
What you don't do is paint it skin toned. Sure it would look fine. The problem would still exist beneath the paint though. The arm would be rotting. You would have cosmeticly covered the problem. You did not cure it.
That said. I think losing wieght is important for anyone who is obese. When you see someone take control of their life and not take no for an answer... its moving.
I was almost 30% body fat when I got out of college. I ran every day. I didn't lose a pound.
I got sick of it and educated myself. I lost 53 pounds without doing any cardio. I ate properly and lifted wieghts.
I felt a little better about myself. The odd thing. I am actually more self conscious now. Because I have only a few flaws I tend to focus on them. I can no longer see the improvements I made every place else.
In the end what I realized was this. I did not think I was a good person. Nor did I think I had a lot to offer. It really wasn't how I looked that controlled how I perceived myself. It was how I felt about myself as a person...
hey klu when i was 16 (before i had kids) i weighed 94 lbs i wore miny shirts tube tops and short shorts all the time...i did it so that guys would notice how small i am...and compliment me.......i had low self esteem...i agree with your points of view......SoKlueles said:
