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I want to fall in love..........sigh

jennifer BFL chick

jennifer BFL chick

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I think about all the things I want in my life, and the number one thing that I really want is to fall in love. I have never been in love, but I'm sure its the best feeling in the world. Just to have one person in the world that knows everything about me, a true friend, but have strong feelings for each other.

ahhh.........if it were a perfect world.....

Love is scary I'm sure. Once you have it, you will have a hard time living without it.

But I want it.......

Anyone TRULY in love? Or been in love?

And whats love without lust? :angel:


I think I'm a hopeless romantic:(
 
I can honestly say I've never been in love :( Never have found that person that really did it for me yet, but I really don't dwell on it..what happens, will happen. The only thing you can do is to always keep looking until that person comes along


Really, you shouldn't make that a priority in your life-you're young: accomplish what YOU want to do with your life first and give yourself first priority...LOVE will come to you, you don't have to go looking for it..TRUST ME on that one :)

You will know when it feels right
 
yeah, your probably right.......but at times, I just want to feel that way now.....

Its probably for the best I guess.

You just assume your going to meet someone that you REALLY like.......what if you never do?
 
Welcome to the club. I think many many people are like you and me. Everyone is looking for something. Whoever finds it is much happier and whoever doesn't lives in some regret. Lots at stake.
 
jennifer said:
You just assume your going to meet someone that you REALLY like.......what if you never do?
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Well then that's life. That is why you should concentrate on yourself first and not to become dependent on having a relationshp to make you whole as a person.. then when that right person comes along that will make it even more satisfying....
As you meet more people in your life, you really get more of a sense of what YOU want and what you REALLY like..you should really concentrate right now on having fun!!!
 
I can not wait to find someone to share my life with.
Someone with passion and imagination.
Love has thus far eluded me. I thought, I had found the one.
THe One turned out to be a fake. I guess you just have to take these failed relationships as learning experiences. But don't kick yourself if you fall for the same damn type of guy each time. We are attracted to them for a reason. Patience. Just love yourself and those around you. Give love to those who need or want it.
Know that we all want to feel loved deep down. I think someone already said you have to be complete within yourself b4 you can be in a really healthy relationship. Not to say that we can help eachother grow. Oh screw love. I just want a real orgasm.
 
falling in love is merely infatuation of the mind.
being in love is like a hug that at sometimes can be too tight, and at others times seem just improper, or too unintamite.

if that makes any sense?
 
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It doesn't make any sense. If you think that's what love is, you have a lot of maturing to do.
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perhaps i do, but i believe it will occur on its own due course.
 
Bump on md,

I really don't think there is anyone out there that can make me happier than i make myself, therefore why compromise.

There are so few people out there that lack self confidence for that very reason, their whole reason for living is the unceasing pursuit of a partner. That to me is a real turn off.
 
I don't NEED a partner to be happy with who I am. In fact, I'm liking the single life.......but I am dating

I just wonder what its like to be in LOVE.....and not be in a typical relationship

I will admit, that I really like to have someone who I can always call for comfort, or whatever, but I don't fall apart if I don't have it
 
jennifer said:
I don't NEED a partner to be happy with who I am. In fact, I'm liking the single life.......but I am dating

I just wonder what its like to be in LOVE.....and not be in a typical relationship

I will admit, that I really like to have someone who I can always call for comfort, or whatever, but I don't fall apart if I don't have it
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I'm right here sweetheart. :)
 
Days of the Tantric said:
If you're looking for it, chances are you won't find it.
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Love is something that you fall into....not throw yourself into. When it is right it will find you....how patient are you??

It's the only thing worth it....
 
I think love tends to falls to into our laps when we least expect it. I have and do love a lot of people....I've been in love with only a few. It's a precious feeling when you can be totally vulnerable with someone else...completely raw and honest-- but you trust them and feel safe. It's like being hugged with peace and contentment.

It's like everyone else in the world disappears and everything else going on in life is white noise. That kind of genuine deep friendship is rare and beautiful. It's easy to find people that I get along with, who I am attracted to, etc....but it's not often that I really open up and connect.
 
Raina said:
I think love tends to falls to into our laps when we least expect it. I have and do love a lot of people....I've been in love with only a few. It's a precious feeling when you can be totally vulnerable with someone else...completely raw and honest-- but you trust them and feel safe. It's like being hugged with peace and contentment.

It's like everyone else in the world disappears and everything else going on in life is white noise. That kind of genuine deep friendship is rare and beautiful. It's easy to find people that I get along with, who I am attracted to, etc....but it's not often that I really open up and connect.
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I don't understand why people who don't find it easy to get along with people even try to be social, I mean if it's so bad you should just stay in your house, I mean why do anything if you feel its a "waste" of time or it sucks.
 
Raina said:
It's like everyone else in the world disappears and everything else going on in life is white noise. That kind of genuine deep friendship is rare and beautiful.
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That is love in it's purest form. Sitting in a restaraunt....drinking coffee and staring into each others eyes. Everything else just dissapears but that moment. And being able to share it with one another. It's the little things...and those oh too precious pieces of time that make this life amazing.

When you can have a beautiful conversation without having to "say" anything....that is special thing

:angel:
 
Hannibal said:
When you can have a beautiful conversation without having to "say" anything....that is special thing.
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Agreed!!! The best is when you can feel blissful and understood just snuggled up next to someone-- or cracking up at the same time without a word being said because you just know what the other person is thinking. There's no better feeling-- but I think a lot of people get so caught up in worrying about not feeling like that, they miss out on special every day moments. ;)
 
Raina said:


Agreed!!! The best is when you can feel blissful and understood just snuggled up next to someone-- or cracking up at the same time without a word being said because you just know what the other person is thinking. There's no better feeling-- but I think a lot of people get so caught up in worrying about not feeling like that, they miss out on special every day moments. ;)
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You have a lot of animosity, maybe you need therapy.
 
love....it like a drug....

When you have it you feel free from reality, when you don't have it you feel like a crack whore who's hit rock bottom.

Don't get me wrong Love is nice, but you can't go looking for it, cause then you are gonna get hurt and used.
 
I've always become friends (3mo-1yr) with someone before I even started dating them. It helps to get to know them w/o any pressure of the whole "dating" thing and also lays down a very solid foundation for when you do take the next step. You're already friends so you know if you'd want to date this person or not. Its worked really well for me so far. Im on speaking terms with all of my ex's except for one and she's a druggie whore now so no loss there.

Another thing about being "in love" is that people confuse the hormonal rush you get when in a new relationship for "love". I frequently watch The Learning Channel (ya ya ya, flame me for being a dork) and they were talking about all the chemicals (dopamine, norepinepherine, seratonin, etc) that get released when in that new relationship and as soon as that wears off (up to 6mo or so) you somehow myseteriously fall out of "love". And on to the next and the cycle repeats.

To me, love is when you know in your heart you'd rather die than live the rest of your life without this person, when you're so angry at them you can only see red but still underneath that is love for them, love is caring for them more than yourself and wanting to make them happy because it makes you happy...I could keep going but I think you get my point. You'll know when you're in love and its genuine.
 
Raina said:


Agreed!!! The best is when you can feel blissful and understood just snuggled up next to someone-- or cracking up at the same time without a word being said because you just know what the other person is thinking. There's no better feeling-- but I think a lot of people get so caught up in worrying about not feeling like that, they miss out on special every day moments. ;)
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People spend so much time worryin about things that dont really mean anything in the long run. Gotta have ALOT of money. Gotta own a cool car...but you can only keep it a year or two so you always have the latest model. Gotta have the biggest HOUSE...but they forget that a HOME is much more important.

Hows that for a tangent....

When you snuggle up next to someone and they make just a subtle sound of contentment...and you know that they feel safe and loved in your arms. There are no words to express it. Even the word LOVE can seem small when compared to a moment like that...a moment of completeness.
 
Hannibal-- I know what you mean. Sometimes love doesn't seem like it explains the feelings well enough. I say things like "I love ice cream". I really shouldn't do that...kind of cheapens the word.

Some experiences transcend words completely-- but the memories pop into your head, your eyes soften, and you smile with contentment. No words needed.
 
The people you love the most also have the power to hurt you the most..Being in love is prob the best feeling where getting your heart broken is the worst, the two seem to go hand in hand...I never ever wnat to go through heart break again so Im for sure not quick to wanna be in love again any time soon

Love is also indescribablye, alls I can say is it will change you and you'll do things and think thiongs you normally wouldn't
 
Frackal said:
Heartbreak is some serious shit...could kill a person.
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Yea I wanted to die, I almost got close to alchohol poisoning, I did pass out, couldn't walk, threw up, extremely drunk trying to deal, then I found myself trying to steer into trees or walls, still hurts but better...getting shot sounds better to me then getting heartbroken
 
Being in love is a smorgasboard of emotions...Every event, every emotion is intensified when you are in love...For me, it was like being high all the time, and living without it now is like going thru withdrawl every single day.

I would like to be in love again....if only I can find that perfect imperfect guy who can always wrangle a smile out of me, who likes to share his thoughts with me and wants to know what I think, who sings to me, who I find completely irresistible...who lives only in my thoughts. *sigh* :)
 
polarpixie said:


I would like to be in love again....if only I can find that perfect imperfect guy who can always wrangle a smile out of me, who likes to share his thoughts with me and wants to know what I think, who sings to me, who I find completely irresistible...who lives only in my thoughts. *sigh* :)
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:wavey: lol
 
People say love is not something that we are but it is something that we do, and I do agree. I too would like to be in love again, but I think so many of us are scared of been hurt. (As it is said it is not the fall that would kill you but the landing).

It has taken me a long time to truly get it that you have to be 1st happy on your own, before u can truly b happy with some another.

So many people confuse love with LUST and NEED. We see so many people jump from one relationship to another, never really asking themselves why didn’t this work. I'm I the problem. So many people think oh when I meet the one my life would be perfect all my fears and insecurities will go away. The sad truth is that it never does, we have too first (BE THE PERSON WE WANT TO ATTRACT). I was watching oprah (yeah yeah I know but she's good) and this called NEALE DONALD WALSCH, he wrote (A conversation with god)

He said this and I quote.

You cannot give to another what u do not have.
So if it's love u want more of; call someone who has less love than u, to have more love.

Ifs it's compassion u think is missing from your life find someone who has less compassion. And b the sauces of compassion for them.

What ever it is u would seek to have more of, find someone who has even less and be the sauces of it. Be the sauces of what you would choose for yourself in the life of another. And you would experience that you've always had it, it's always been there. And the more u give away the more it comes back to u. And the more u realize you've always that to give. (Love, compassion, Money) whatever it may be.

So whatever is missing from your life find someone who has even less of it and be the sauces. And then is just a matter of time before you meet that person u were meant to be with.

That is something I carry with me in my heart
 
TheProject said:
You sure about that? :)
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TheProj, yes, I just mailed him an Easter card addressed to In the Mind of Polarpixie, Inherdreams Island, USA, and it didn't get returned to sender, so I'm assuming it was the right addy....;)


:wavey: Hi Austin!
 
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The best is when you can feel blissful and understood just snuggled up next to someone-- or cracking up at the same time without a word being said because you just know what the other person is thinking. There's no better feeling-- but I think a lot of people get so caught up in worrying about not feeling like that, they miss out on special every day moments.

Agreed as well...
Most of the other Soap Opera lovey dovey stare into my eyes stuff rarely happens on a daily basis... That's usually reserved for Infatuations, not true love

Sometimes my Wife and I just sit on a park bench or in the yard watching our Daugher play. Without saying a thing, we just look at one another and know we are having a fantastic time....

When you least expect it, Love will reach up and slap you happy.
 
I think people really need to define for themselves what love is, what they think it feels like and what is truly becomes and resides as.

I think most people believe that love is the ooogie moogly feeling you get at the start of a potential romance or the feeling of yearning when you have a crush on someone or that feeling of...
as my friend Piers puts it, "really wanting to bang the shit out of someone."

From what I can tell - being in love with someone is more solid, calm and connected that the ups and down of raw unbridled emotion (which I like to refer to as the fuck factor).

Annnnnnnnywho.

Finding love is like find that perfect puppy that smells just right, feels just right and makes you want rub his/her peach fuzz belly while he/she licks you silly with his/her charming puppy breath.

...and then it's all good, even when it's not so good.

:angel:
 
Damn velvett.. thats a pretty solid way of looking at it...

Love is not something to be attained.. it's like a flower.. it grows from a little seed over time with proper handling and care.
 
WOW Steriod_Virgin

That is really nice, I do believe in true love. Loving someone with all of his or her faults. Putting their needs before your own. It’s funny I have met so may wonderful people u are nice, sweet, very good-looking, great jobs, blah blah, but still I have not felt that thing. You know what I mean that thing that tells you this is right his/she is the one. It's hard to explain. In the past I got caught up with the whole, looks and or he /she is good on paper. I also don't believe you have to compromise, I choose to believe u can find someone you are physically and mentally attracted too, not one without the other, But now I know when u truly love someone and for what ever reason you guys are apart. If that love is true it will come back to you.
 
I think ms. V. said it best.:)

Even when things aren't great, you know that they are there for you, and you for them. There is still passion and desire, but you also have the calmness there also.
 
Love....Ah yes, true love. In life we all choose between true love and life without......

True love is for poets and shall last forever...being the poet I am....

I choose forever....I hope life finds you the same choice one day Darl'in....

Forever

An instant's bliss…
That moment of joy
Utter and complete,
So unlike
Any other.
Like lightning,
Or the flash of a firefly
In the night;
They blink by…
Brilliant, yet brief;
Forgotten amidst the pain
That is life.
Between these many
Seconds of ecstasy
And the ending…
A finality of
Rest,
We must choose a path.
Shall we take
The cherished moments,
Or the peaceful rewards
Of a life that knows not love;
I, for one…
Will choose forever.

Ranger
 
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What do I know about Love??? Hmmmmmmmm.......

I know that Love takes on many forms in our lives....

I for one Love the early morning in the summer, when the dew is still fresh on the grass...
I love the evenings on a beach, chilling out under a blanket
I love the mountains, sitting by a fire reading a good book. No one else around for miles.
I love the way a child will laugh at something stupid I do
I love to hear night sounds, crickets, whipperwills..etc
I love watching the excitement of kids in little league, with all their dreams yet to come
I love babies, they way they snuggle around your neck to protect their innocence...
I love the way my parents are proud of me...
I love good food, and a nice club atmosphere

BUT......." TRUE " Love is always having someone around to share these many wonderful things.....

It's not much, but that is about all I know on the subject of love...so I guess, in fact, I am a " SHAM " when it comes to this subject....Yet I still search....

Ranger
 
A "man" must trust himself first. A "man" will not get involved with anything that he cannot carry out to the fullest or be certain that the other or others involved will not suffer in any shape, form or fashion. Nothing guarantees this perfection I speak of, since that is fact, the chance one might take is not taken, due to complete respect for the other. The other might look at it in a different fashion, however, it the most responsible thing a "man" can do, his actions are what they are because of his outlook toward you. peace
 
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I read an article about men and women in love, they measured the brain waves of both and found that they matched those of serial killers in length.

Maybe we are all a little crazy when it comes to affairs of the heart.
 
havoc said:

A "man" must trust himself first. A "man" will not get involved with anything that he cannot carry out to the fullest or be certain that the other or others involved will not suffer in any shape, form or fashion. Nothing guarantees this perfection I speak of, since that is fact, the chance one might take is not taken, due to complete respect for the other. The other might look at it in a different fashion, however, it the most responsible thing a "man" can do, his actions are what they are because of his outlook toward you. peace
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Havoc - may I respectfully say that is the biggest crock of shit I have ever read! "Complete respect"???? Once two people become involved the road cannot be untravelled. Respect is telling the other person EXACTLY what you feel, it is being HONEST. If one chooses to not take the chance then that must be said. Far too many times I see you men with your noble intentions leaving a woman to wonder, you pull her close only to push her away without warning or explanation. It is not the role of a "man" to shelter a woman from ANYTHING - that is what parents do for children and we are not children.

Relationships of any type should not be THAT DAMN DIFFICULT!!! They are what they are and should be called as such and if that isn't what is going on then there is really no relationship at all, only a game.
 
Temple01 said:


Havoc - may I respectfully say that is the biggest crock of shit I have ever read! "Complete respect"???? Once two people become involved the road cannot be untravelled. Respect is telling the other person EXACTLY what you feel, it is being HONEST. If one chooses to not take the chance then that must be said. Far too many times I see you men with your noble intentions leaving a woman to wonder, you pull her close only to push her away without warning or explanation. It is not the role of a "man" to shelter a woman from ANYTHING - that is what parents do for children and we are not children.

Relationships of any type should not be THAT DAMN DIFFICULT!!! They are what they are and should be called as such and if that isn't what is going on then there is really no relationship at all, only a game.
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Fantastic!
 
Temple01 said:


Havoc - may I respectfully say that is the biggest crock of shit I have ever read! "Complete respect"???? Once two people become involved the road cannot be untravelled. Respect is telling the other person EXACTLY what you feel, it is being HONEST. If one chooses to not take the chance then that must be said. Far too many times I see you men with your noble intentions leaving a woman to wonder, you pull her close only to push her away without warning or explanation. It is not the role of a "man" to shelter a woman from ANYTHING - that is what parents do for children and we are not children.

Relationships of any type should not be THAT DAMN DIFFICULT!!! They are what they are and should be called as such and if that isn't what is going on then there is really no relationship at all, only a game.
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True that!
 
If you're looking for it, chances are you won't find it.
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Totally disagree. I think, whatever it is, if you are looking real hard you will find it. Whether that means you will actually find it or fool yourself into thinking that you have found it (whatever IT is) is another matter entirely.
 
That is love in it's purest form. Sitting in a restaraunt....drinking coffee and staring into each others eyes. Everything else just dissapears but that moment. And being able to share it with one another. It's the little things...and those oh too precious pieces of time that make this life amazing
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please site all sources. (even Chicken Soup for the Soul)
 
jennifer said:
I think about all the things I want in my life, and the number one thing that I really want is to fall in love.
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You seem to be a nice young lady, love will come soon enough. In the meantime, meet various men and do things with them that will make you embarassed just thinking about it ten years from now.
 
havoc said:

You two stop playing.
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If there is one thing that can be said about me, Havoc, it is that

I DO NOT PLAY

......especially when it comes to matters of the heart, being a TRUE FRIEND, and treating those that I hold dear with kindness, honesty and respect.
 
jennifer said:
I think about all the things I want in my life, and the number one thing that I really want is to fall in love. I have never been in love, but I'm sure its the best feeling in the world. Just to have one person in the world that knows everything about me, a true friend, but have strong feelings for each other.

ahhh.........if it were a perfect world.....

Love is scary I'm sure. Once you have it, you will have a hard time living without it.

But I want it.......

Anyone TRULY in love? Or been in love?

And whats love without lust? :angel:


I think I'm a hopeless romantic:(
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Ive been in love and i hate it, only because all the men i have been with are assholes, and now im going solo, i swear im going to be a working lady instead of some man's door mat
 
Thank you to all of you here who have posted what there version of love really is. It is a sad revelation, but an eye-opener to see that what I have at home is what every person here would love to have.

I don't have to be taken care of, but have the security that I can crawl up in my husband's lap at night in the recliner and have him rock me to sleep like a little baby. I am his pride and his joy and his heart. It becomes deeper and deeper every day.

Those of you who claim that the feelings of love fade after a period of time have not actually experienced true love. Might I point out that love is not a feeling or an emotion. Sure it feels good, but love is action. Love is not just loving someone because it works for you at the time. Love is making it work, even when they get on your last nerve at the time. Love is committment and Love is work....pure and honest work!!!

If it was easy everyone would be married and stay married. I love my husband more deeply now than I ever have and it grows deeper everyday. I can't spend enough time with him to satisfy myself or do enough to show him how much I love him. We have been together for 4 years, i know it is not long, but by no means are my feelings diminishing. We are learning to love each other in different ways as love is ALWAYS changing as our lives are always changing. Sure there are things I would like to change about him that sometimes are impossibly to live with, but I do not try to change him.....that is the secret......and as time passes he is slowly becoming the man he needs to be. He doesn't need be nagging on him to make him change.

Another point is a man will not give you his heart 100% until he can trust you 500%. This takes many years sometimes to happen. Despite popular opinion, men are more tender than women when it comes to matters of the heart..........especially their own heart. If you can get a man to trust you, you have gained the world. Be very careful ladies with that gift, because a broken heart is never mended under such circumstances.

Caution beware!

Mrs. TG
 
I was married for 10 years previously, so I know the difference. Just wait for the right one and never marry your "Almost".
 
PS....If any of you would have experienced a smidget of our life together, you would know that it has not been a honeymoon by any means!!!! After constant turmoil and madness, we are finally rediscovering what love really is. Most people quit before it gets to this stage and never give it a chance.
 
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PS....If any of you would have experienced a smidget of our life together, you would know that it has not been a honeymoon by any means!!!! After constant turmoil and madness, we are finally rediscovering what love really is. Most people quit before it gets to this stage and never give it a chance.
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Mrs. Guns - you are so correct!!! I have been married for 14 years to my best friend and I wil tell you that it has been anything but a honeymoon. Real love, the kind worth having comes from going to hell and back together and finding yourselves still holding hands at the end of the trip even when what you really want to do is knock the other one over the head with a frying pan.
It is honesty even when the truth hurts
It is unconditional support of goals and aspirations
It is respecting each others abilities and filling in for their weaknesses.
Thr one thing that has made our marriage work is that the one rule that we have is that we NEVER discuss our marital problems with anyone other than each other because noone other than the two of us can fix it.

And as Mrs. Guns also said - never settle for your "almost" and be smart enough to see the right one when they come along and hang on for dear life as you may never have the chance again.
We also spent a lot of time making it way harder than it had to be. Just the other day my daughter asked me "Mom, why don't you and dad ever fight?" I guess because we have nothing to fight over - it wasn't always that way.
 
Bmom it sux doesn't it? Im in your shoes (well from what I have observed on here) if someone is dead set on running there isn't much u can do
 
I was in love once and it was love at first sight. Trust me when it happens you will know. Unfortunatly for me I feel in love with the wrong girl and i got hurt badly couldn't date for 2 years just started dating again now.


M.A.S.S
 
Lol well touching fire insures a burn where taking gear is not gonna yield gyno most times, those guys are just unlucky..

And of course Im sure cuz Im always right
 
ahhh! jennifer you are amazing...you must have tons of options and guys to choose from... no?
 
Austin316 said:
Lol well touching fire insures a burn where taking gear is not gonna yield gyno most times, those guys are just unlucky..

And of course Im sure cuz Im always right
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I think you have to be prone to it or using 1000's of mg a week for extended durations to wind up with that. I have used 1gram a week of test with nothing - not even puffy nips.
 
"Love Song For A Savior"

In open fields of wild flowers,
she breathes the air and flies away
She thanks her Jesus for the daises and the roses
in no simple language
Someday she'll understand the meaning of it all
He's more than the laughter or the stars in the heavens
As close a heartbeat or a song on her lips
Someday she'll trust Him and learn how to see Him
Someday He'll call her and she will come running
and fall in His arms and the tears will fall down and she'll pray,

"I want to fall in love with You"

Sitting silent wearing Sunday best
The sermon echoes through the walls
A great salvation through it calls to the people
who stare into nowhere, and can't feel the chains on their souls

He's more than the laughter or the stars in the heavens
As close a heartbeat or a song on our lips
Someday we'll trust Him and learn how to see Him
Someday He'll call us and we will come running
and fall in His arms and the tears will fall down and we'll pray,

"I want to fall in love with You"

It seems too easy to call you "Savior",
Not close enough to call you "God"
So as I sit and think of words I can mention
to show my devotion

"I want to fall in love with You"

"my heart beats for You"
 
Ummm..ok. Thanks ;)

B True
 
As I quote Jars Of Clay...they quote Godsmack...lol

You guys are a nut(s).

B True
 
Mdguy

Really, you shouldn't make that a priority in your life-you're young: accomplish what YOU want to do with your life first and give yourself first priority...LOVE will come to you, you don't have to go looking for it..TRUST ME on that one

You will know when it feels right



Mdguy well said, i think people are soo afraid to be on there own that they settle for the next best thing, even though there heart is not really in it, I for once i'm been honest with myself and live that now in the hands that be. The more love u give to the world the more you will receive in return.

As we put emphasis on being a loving person, which is something we can control and less empahasis on receiving love, which is something we can't control - you will find out that there is plenty of love in your life. And soon you'll discover one of the greatest secrets in the world. Love is it's own reward.
 
ken343 said:

As we put emphasis on being a loving person, which is something we can control and less empahasis on receiving love, which is something we can't control - you will find out that there is plenty of love in your life. And soon you'll discover one of the greatest secrets in the world. Love is it's own reward.
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Probably THE WISEST words expressed on this thread yet.
 
bikinimom

Thanks what can i say, i just try and live my life to the best i can and give love and compassion to others who have less.
 
I feel a big part of falling in love is the way you feel about yourself when your around the other person.......

My last boyfriend made me feel so beautiful and special, and thats one reason why I fell for him.....but we were never in LOVE.
 
jennifer said:
I feel a big part of falling in love is the way you feel about yourself when your around the other person.......

My last boyfriend made me feel so beautiful and special, and thats one reason why I fell for him.....but we were never in LOVE.
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So what's the differnce between falling for someone and falling in love with them? :confused:

Your post makes the most sense out of all the others on this thread, so I figured you'd be a good person to ask. :)
 
Yeah I'm confused jennifer, BFL chick


So he made u feel beautiful and special and you fell for him, but u were never in love.

I'm confused soo what was it, lost or convenice, or was it what u just needed at that time.
 
ken343 said:
Yeah I'm confused jennifer, BFL chick


So he made u feel beautiful and special and you fell for him, but u were never in love.

I'm confused soo what was it, lost or convenice, or was it what u just needed at that time.
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Could it be because he wasn't hitting that thang?
 
Taps said:


So what's the differnce between falling for someone and falling in love with them? :confused:

Your post makes the most sense out of all the others on this thread, so I figured you'd be a good person to ask. :)
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You know, I'm not sure........I just know that we were never in love----

When I think of falling in love, I imagine that you would sit by each other on the couch on Valentines day, lol *little personal experience*

I have come to realize, that my relationship with my last boyfriend was a great friendship that brought alot of joy and comfort into my life----he was a great FRIEND, and still is. But when it came down to passion and having the feeling that you never want to leave, well, that's another story.

Wish it was cut and dry, but I'm assuming its just a feeling you have for someone. You can love them, but to be in love, that's different story (I'm guessing, hell if I know!)
 
Jen,


Don't ponder it too much. It seems as though the more you search for it the farth it skips away from you.

If I've learned anything over the years it's that only when you are truly comfortable with yourself and your inside shines as brightly on the outside people start to flock to you out of no where.

...just a thought.

:D
 
velvett said:
Jen,


Don't ponder it too much. It seems as though the more you search for it the farth it skips away from you.

If I've learned anything over the years it's that only when you are truly comfortable with yourself and your inside shines as brightly on the outside people start to flock to you out of no where.

...just a thought.

:D
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Yes, this is very true :)

I'm not searching for love.......But I would like to fall in love SOMEDAY.....

I'm actually so busy with my life, that its easy to forget about love. I have so many goals that I'm working on, its easy to get to consumed .......

Some people ignore love all their life and it makes it really hard for them to let it back in, and they become forever single (which is not a bad thing, just a point)

Getting too stuck in your ways can actually make it harder to let someone in ------it might "mess with your scedual"........I really don't want to end up like that.....
 
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